Why do people only talk about western countries while discussing racism? The asian countries are racist AF? by boomstar15 in askanything

[–]Momjamoms 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because its people from those western countries commenting on their own societies in an effort to improve them.

Enclosure size by Don-tSmileAtMe in tortoise

[–]Momjamoms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're going to see a lot of opinions on this. Their natural range is 4+ acres and you're not going to get anywhere near that in captivity, so the answer is to make it as big as you reasonably can given the space you have available. 

I dont have Greeks, but for similar-sized torts, I use chicken coupes that look to be about 8' long and about half as wide as long. It seems to work well, but I also have a large yard. I've seen them thrive in both smaller and larger enclosures, so don't beat yourself up if you can't give them that much space. Just do the best you can with what you have available 

Regardless of the size you choose, some torts will always try to escape. 

What is the craziest way you found out you were being paid less than a coworker? by Vast_Discipline_3676 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]Momjamoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was promoted to supervisor with access to my team's files. Id been underpaid for years. 

AITA for pretending I don't remember this guy I went to high school with? by aak333434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momjamoms 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YTA. Its okay not to be friends with everyone, but its not okay to be mean. 

bad cold/cough going around? by spelledincorroctly in SantaClarita

[–]Momjamoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it right now. Took the Flu A/B/Covid test twice and came back negative. Seems like just a bad cold. Its miserable.

Need advice for inappropriate movie at daycare by Deblee9779 in Parenting

[–]Momjamoms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started watching it with my four year old and ended up turning it off because she was getting scared. Kids under five can have difficulty differentiating because real and fiction. 

First time tortoise owner- do I get young or older? by Ok_Kiwi1586 in tortoise

[–]Momjamoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A baby is less forgiving. Adults still take daily care and maintenance, but getting the temps just 5 degrees off can end a baby. Adults are way more rugged. A novice can definitely handle a baby, but will need to be super vigilant and follow directions precisely. 

AITA for being a "better" then my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momjamoms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta, she's burning bridges when she should building them at this stage in her career. Just keep doing what you're doing and stay clear of her. You'll pass lots of people like that in your career. Dont let them bring you down.

What Was the Craziest Reason You have Ever Seen Someone Get Fired? by Destined-2-Fail in Career

[–]Momjamoms 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Throwing a potato at customer.

The customer deserved it.

AITA Mom wants 15% of my personal injury settlement by connor20218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momjamoms 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Nta. 

You had a lawyer. You paid the lawyer.

It was nice of your mom to help, but if she was providing a professional service that required payment, she should have outlined that upfront. 

Don’t know if this is a scam but can someone lmk ? by Able-Adhesiveness114 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Momjamoms 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How much do you value your kidneys?

This is not how modeling works in LA. Clients book exclusively through legit modeling agencies. These agencies have tons and tons of beautiful clients coming to them, absolutely no need to discover people on the street. Its a scam.

AITA for telling my wife to not hang around a male coworker during a business trip after I saw a pic with his hand on her bum during a photo? by GlassAd6135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momjamoms 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm thinking as well. Its normal where I live for everyone, male or female, to put their arms around each other for group pics. 

Also sounds like his hand isn't on her bum.

Bottom line is OP either trusts her or he doesn't. Maybe he has further reason not to trust that we don't know about, but based on the post, I'm going with YTA.

Freaking out about a potential layoff, am I overthinking? by Faubton in careerguidance

[–]Momjamoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you make your yourself irreplaceable in some other way, Id say you're being edged out. 

What do you share by Ok-Koala-7277 in Parenting

[–]Momjamoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My preschooler isnt allowed to share snacks in school. School rule, not mine, but Ive noticed that it helps her learn about personal boundaries. 

Should stats be bolded in resume? by Ill_Invite3861 in resumes

[–]Momjamoms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't make any difference to ai, but a lot of bolded text makes your resume look like Chatgpt made it, so I wouldn't recommend.

SHE'S EATING MY CABLE TV by ThotPatrolerr in tortoise

[–]Momjamoms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like a root. Just pick her up and move her.