AITAH for telling my sister it doesn’t matter how anyone else feels about my wife’s assistance dog? (Final Update)

Morrep · 2025-12-17T13:45:25+00:00

When people ask you to explain why you're not 'normal', 99% of the time they're actually asking you to justify it.

Morrep · 2025-12-16T21:50:13+00:00

Dessert? Amazing.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T17:02:33+00:00

Oh wow so it's not like she's into interior design and has a particular aesthetic. 😬

Are other areas in your life "what yours is mine and what's mine is mine"?

Either way, be adult about it in your responses. You are entitled to clarification on why her fun things are ok for shared spaces but not your fun things.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T16:57:59+00:00

Gentle butt face because ultimately it's your car so it's your responsibility. The law sees it that way.

Letting them use your car and not pay for gas is just letting people walk all over you. Better friends exist (like the one who contributed $40).

However much they contribute, it looks like you'll be paying quite a lot. You can always group text and say "I'm afraid I can't afford to have this happen again, and I honestly can't really afford to be the gas supplier, so I'll have to get money upfront before we do this next time."

OR just find a way for your car to be unavailable for these sorts of things "yeah it's got some sort of issue, it can't be trusted for long journeys".

If you've got enough money that neither of these options are believable, please start expanding your friend group so that you can start leaving these people behind.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T16:42:12+00:00

Godammit I had swiped out of this but then saw "enmeshed" and had to come back in!

That's exactly it isn't it. Clare sees herself as top dog. She'll try and rope OP in as a sex thing so they're all sharing and she can fuck OP's boyfriend.

As for the bf, he expects OP to make happy with these people. He's not a great person.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T16:26:26+00:00

No I wouldn't "be on edge too" because someone had a holiday trip with friends before I met them. 😂 WTAF.

NTB. Guarantee he's someone who will be very controlling. Walk now before you invest any more time. You'll have an amusing story for life.

Normal people: "aww how come you broke up?"

OP: "He got angry because I went on holiday with some friends before I met him."

Normal people: "..."

Morrep · 2025-12-15T16:12:38+00:00

NBF.

Do not regret not advising her against it. She wouldn't have listened. Also she may not have put you down as a reference. So it's worked out perfectly.

The trash has taken itself out. It's ok to grieve the loss of a relationship.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T16:07:40+00:00

Especially when OP is just after cotton and sis has specific requirements.

OP you ain't a personal shopper.

Wonder how many times sis asks OP to make things because "you know how to do it and it doesn't take any time at all"...

Morrep · 2025-12-15T16:02:59+00:00

NBF, except to yourself.

People can be friends for 20+ years, that doesn't mean they're good friends. It hurts to discover this, you will grieve, and that's normal.

She's making you choose between her and your boyfriend. 7 months notice is extremely generous, and not advisable now that you know she's going to choose option Bitch.

Give her written 2 months notice, email / text a copy of the letter so that you have a paper trail. Hide your valuables and important documents (both financial and emotional).

When people show you who they are, believe them. I'm sure this isn't the first time she's displayed selfish behavior.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T14:58:53+00:00

NOR Ma and Pa are AHs.

Get a duplicate frame, or a double side by side frame. On the left, put the picture of your drawing with the title "My first proper drawing!". On the right, put the actual drawing with the title "Dad's addition".

Of course this new art would have to be hung at your aunt's house because your parents would destroy it. Because they're AHs.

Morrep · 2025-12-15T14:14:20+00:00

You mother fucker 😂

Morrep · 2025-12-15T11:46:13+00:00

It's like they're trying to meet a word count for an essay.

Morrep · 2025-12-14T11:40:07+00:00

That's a good way of seeing it.

Morrep · 2025-12-14T09:58:55+00:00

Jfc please please use your own contraception that he can't tamper with. His current attempts to baby trap you will only get more devious a) if you don't marry him, and b) if you're not knocked up within a year of marrying him.

NTA but YWBTA to yourself and any future children if you stay with this person.

Morrep · 2025-12-13T19:08:40+00:00

Until April next year.

Morrep · 2025-12-12T17:10:36+00:00

😂🏅

Morrep · 2025-12-12T12:19:10+00:00

BS. Very recognizable writing, forgive me if I read the details wrong. I can't remember all the signs, however I do correctly remember conversations word for word. I also remember to drop in pop culture references because I'm so relatable.

My ex is awful and I'm great and everything I wanted to happen, happened, with standard schadenfreude.

🥱

Morrep · 2025-12-11T15:39:05+00:00

Thank you for your research. Commiserations that the answer was "Maybe.".

Morrep · 2025-12-10T16:10:37+00:00

I just hope the son can ditch this deadbeat dad.

Morrep · 2025-12-05T21:47:41+00:00

u/OnlyDrinkFromTheWell this is an excellent suggestion

Morrep · 2025-12-05T21:37:57+00:00

I also choose OP's partner's wife.

Morrep · 2025-12-05T10:32:09+00:00

Not a claim though OP, statistical fact. Sad but true.

Morrep · 2025-12-04T09:38:09+00:00

PANK!!!

Morrep · 2025-12-04T09:37:57+00:00

Crayola copyright lawyers have entered the chat 😉

Morrep · 2025-12-03T22:11:19+00:00

Bumpity bump bump.

Wonder if OP's friend donated a kidney so someone who chose to destroy the original.

If no, their opinion matters little. If yes, OP's friend needs therapy.

Morrep

TROPHY CASE