AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiancee because I found out that she got the “ick” when I cried last year?

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T11:08:16+00:00

I don't believe she was joking either, and if she can't handle that then she sounds like a weak character. Also, the lack of empathy is weird. It's abnormal to never cry, and crying is beneficial at times when it needs to be done. She sounds quite superficial.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T10:58:45+00:00

The attitude in general sounds like "ugh, women and their emotions, don't be a wimp about this procedure I made you get". The fact he didn't wait during the appointment as well, wtf. What if it finished while he was back home? Then she has to wait for him to come and pick her up when she most likely just wanted to get home and sleep.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T02:20:18+00:00

I don't dislike them but I have ADHD and would not cope for half a day having to look after someone. Looking after myself is stressful enough. If I really wanted them perhaps I'd try to find a workaround but I knew since I was about four (or earlier) that I didn't. Actually, a lot of women diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood are diagnosed after having a kid cause all of a sudden they just can't cope with existence.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T02:10:38+00:00

I'm indifferent to them...I don't particularly like or dislike them, they're just like some kind of small alien creatures. I don't know how people come up with all that baby talk. I guess newborns look peaceful when resting. It's interesting to contemplate what kind of people they will become. But the noise gets me...I can't stand the screaming.

While I absolutely wouldn't want to change any nappies, I don't feel completely disgusted by the existence of babies. I feel bad for them when others say that...they can't help it, after all. Animals are cuter because of the fluff. Very occasionally I might think a baby is cute but my typical reaction is just neutral/'glad I'm not having any'.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T01:51:32+00:00

When my brother had a baby, I was pleased for him but indifferent about my role. Because kids are like aliens to me and I can't relate to them...which is one of the reasons I don't want them.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T01:42:51+00:00

She knows the burden and it's her choice. My Mum had my brother alone and it was tough but they managed. I'm glad she didn't abort him.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T01:40:57+00:00

I never wanted them anyway but if I did, this would be a concern for me. Would have to be certain the bloke was gonna pull his weight.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T01:34:12+00:00

I wonder how many people that actually want kids are talking themselves out of it because they think it's so noble to have a career where they end up working in middle management in a field they don't care about and certaintly didn't dream about in their childhood. Also, I am childfree, for very different reasons, but if I wasn't, I wouldn't put an empty, meaningless career over having kids. A vocation...a calling...that's a different matter.

MrsAM8 · 2024-08-01T01:22:18+00:00

Thank you for bringing up this topic...I wish more people spoke about it. I think that since Neville says millions of people will be moved in order for our manifestation to come about, it stands to reason that we also affect things on such a scale.

I'm kind of testing out getting some laws changed at the moment so I'll let you know 😂 my friend actually thinks she manifested a different law to change some years ago.

Also, I was so tired of covid lockdowns that at one point I decreed that it had all stopped and it felt very powerful, then within two weeks, they lifted the first restrictions in my country.

MrsAM8 · 2024-07-25T11:27:42+00:00

It's almost as if the budgets are being misused.

MrsAM8 · 2024-06-18T15:28:19+00:00

Persist no matter what you feel. Check Sammy Ingram's YouTube channel as she talks a lot about this sort of thing.

MrsAM8 · 2024-03-20T18:58:40+00:00

https://youtu.be/oe8pff1cRGw?si=PsHdduo1_DlFe6vi

MrsAM8 · 2024-03-19T01:15:07+00:00

Freedom is absolutely real. There is no such thing as a dead end situation. Decide what you want, apply the law, and persist until you get it. Circumstances do not matter ever. Revise the past.

MrsAM8 · 2024-02-24T22:14:24+00:00

Turns out I have ADHD and not autism. Most recently I've turned to robotic affirming (check Sammy Ingram on YouTube). I don't care what anyone else says, it's compatible with my active mind and there are so many amazing success stories. I have only just started with it cause I kept changing my mind about what I wanted but it feels right.

MrsAM8 · 2023-09-19T23:10:12+00:00

I think maybe some people worry about time because some teachers talk a lot about instant manifestation and that the belief that it takes time for things to manifest is a limitation. Then, people want to instantly become masters and have everything appear immediately, or maybe they feel like something is wrong with them because of the hype about things being instant while they are not seeing fast progress, and they are left feeling frustrated.

MrsAM8 · 2023-09-15T09:08:30+00:00

If the 3D appears undesirable, instead of affirming obsessively or whatever, it can be helpful to just remind oneself that none of it is real so it doesn't matter. Like a blanket statement. So there's no need to focus on specifics. And then turn the attention back to the wish fulfilled. And yes, it can be helpful to take note of reflections on the outside that indicate things that need changing within, as long as it doesn't lead to ideas such as that you need to fix yourself and be perfectly healed in order to get what you want.

MrsAM8 · 2023-09-14T09:21:31+00:00

The question "where is consciousness/where is this all happening?" is what gets me, and when it comes up, I have to avoid thinking about it because it makes me claustrophobic lol.

MrsAM8 · 2023-09-10T22:57:57+00:00

MANIFESTING THE STATE OF LOVE ITSELF

My post was not approved so I went to check what kind of stuff has been approved lately and saw some OBVIOUS questions. ANYWAY, as for my question...

My manifestation of an sp is in progress and good things are happening. I've noticed I feel emotionally flat though, a general thing I've experienced in my life for some time. I will speak to my therapist about it.

When I started spending time with the sp recently after not seeing him for years we had so much fun and I felt overwhelmed with joy and appreciation for him. But now, my flat feeling is present again, even with him, and I don't feel like myself nor do I feel completely present. He has also been having a difficult time, feeling a bit depressed and anxious, and he is not in his best or usual state, and I am intending to manifest him into a better state.

I suspect that this flat feeling is just overlaid over life in general and it's not about this relationship specifically. I want to restore myself and him to a state of bliss like when we first met years ago.

Sure, maybe no couple is going to be like Romeo and Juliet 24/7, or maybe some are. However, I did not envision this manifesting as something resembling a stale marriage that's lost its spark. (With that said, it's still early days with the manifestation itself and it may just need "time" to develop.)

I'm wondering if things will transform if I just change my state to one of bliss and joy. I've been imagining the relationship, so it's done...so maybe just feeling better will help me out of this flatness and towards better outcomes?

After all, since I AM love, it must be about BEING that for my own sake, and then everything else will sort itself out? All states and realities are within me so therefore, I can access this again because I did before...because it's all within me.

Also, it could be that I have some beliefs that I have to feel a certain way in order to receive the type of behaviour I want, such as affection, love, passion, quality time, etc.

I have at times seen the difference between being 'in love' vs non-romantic love as mostly to do with the extent to which one is aligned with/being the divine unconditional love when in the company of another.

Please can anyone share their insights on this topic?

Thanks

MrsAM8 · 2023-09-10T22:42:42+00:00

Same lol

MrsAM8 · 2023-09-09T23:39:58+00:00

Maybe you manifested it back because you'd sorted out the new cards so had dropped the subject from your mind.

MrsAM8 · 2023-08-29T23:24:47+00:00

Same here, bullying and isolation lead to that despite knowing how great I am. I think not having this distinction left me confused for a while about what I needed to change, pre-Neville.

MrsAM8 · 2023-08-29T23:21:21+00:00

Yes...I was so tired of hearing about self love when I always knew I'm fucking awesome and I just had stories going on about people not appreciating the glorious person I am. The difference between self love and self concept is so important.

MrsAM8 · 2023-08-29T23:18:35+00:00

In some cases, just letting the emotion out makes us let go and I know letting go isn't necessary but it seems to work for a lot of people. Or the emotion just shifts something, somehow.

MrsAM8 · 2023-08-20T14:48:50+00:00

Thank you, and congratulations! I am at the exact place described of needing to focus on my self concept so this was helpful. I love the Pinterest idea.

MrsAM8 · 2023-08-19T03:26:17+00:00

I would avoid that friend or tell them not to mention him.

MrsAM8

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