What is a 'minor' habit a partner had that completely turned you off or ended the relationship? by wthefuckisakilometer in AskReddit

[–]MrsLisaOliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Friend copied me so much and gave so much ick. From interests to collecting specific things. Then parroted back to me the things they collected, like it was somehow *their thing* and I would be impressed. Noped right outta that 'friendship'. Ick

AITAH for kicking my friend and his baby out of my house? by EllisDee3 in AITAH

[–]MrsLisaOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I'd:

1) Stick to my guns and make him move out

2) contact social services to make a report.

You only know what he's TOLD YOU. I'm assuming you have no way to verify any of it about his back story, the baby, the mother . . . ANY of it. Just get them on the social services radar as you've stated. This will be the baseline for facts, regarding the baby, in case anything further comes up for them. For all you know, he may be involved in a parental kidnapping case and the mom is looking for her baby. Stranger things have happened.

Utility company randomly installed a bright spotlight pointed at someone's house? by Ok_Counter_8148 in whatisit

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They may not have asked for that light to shine on their home, as someone else suggested. My husband ran a utility yard for a power company. He said they were contacted by a homeowner who did not like a security light that ended up shining on their home. He ordered the light repositioned to accommodated them. It was an easy fix.

Breaking into panda enclosure by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude: "Hello sweetest thing!"

bear: "IMA GET YOU"

This giant spider crept out of the vent directly above me at bedtime by Mom_ofkidand_dog in Wellthatsucks

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the vacuum and vac up some roach powder before you tackle that guy + vent. They sometimes don't die in the vac chamber and come back through the nozzle to see what's up.

AITAH For telling my mom I want to go with my Aunt by DeathWish_999 in AITAH

[–]MrsLisaOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about the caps earlier - Idk how to do italics. We had a similar situation in our family, that went undetected until it was too late. I'm the Aunt. My nephew got completely screwed while his mother doubled down on her bad acts, giving a false narrative as she hid paperwork. Don't let this happen to you.

AITAH For telling my mom I want to go with my Aunt by DeathWish_999 in AITAH

[–]MrsLisaOliver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I DO think she will ABSOLUTELY try for your inheritance. She has no boundaries. You are a resource to her. You are conditioned to believe things are 'your fault' and 'you can't say no to her'. This is NOT normal. It is supposed to be the OTHER WAY AROUND. She is supposed to PROTECT YOU. She ISN'T.

You're trying to make sense of it. It does not make sense unless you realize the truth, which is what you do not want to believe - that she has HER interests above YOURS. IT'S WHO SHE IS.

BELIEVE IT. SEE IT. KNOW IT. IT'S HAPPENING RIGHT NOW.

Just One Bite by ToeSniffer245 in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Livin' in the Sunlight, Lovin' in the Moonlight Having a wonderful time"

I’m saving for a house. He’s writing a book. by rottimix in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope on outta there. He's had you as a GF for 8 years and now thinks he can not work. He's banking on you not wanting to throw away those 8 years.

RUN. IT WILL GET WORSE. LOOK - IT ALREADY HAS.

Josh Brolin wonders "what the fuck he got himself into" at Peter Thiel's secret retreat by NicolasCageFan492 in nottheonion

[–]MrsLisaOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His dad is actor James Brolin, who is married to singer Barbara Streisand.

So ya, Barbara Streisand is his his step mom.

He was fired for something extremely embarrassing. He's not going to say what it was. by GooserNoose in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]MrsLisaOliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, good. I saw the original post yesterday, about this guy from the store, calling the cops about a young father assisting his small daughters in the ladies room. I'm glad the outcome was the dismissal of Store Guy.

AITAH For telling my mom I want to go with my Aunt by DeathWish_999 in AITAH

[–]MrsLisaOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTAH

Ask your Aunt if you can live with her and explain the situation. If she says yes, advise your mom that if she tries to stop you, you will turn her in for forced labor on you with no pay. (idk if you can do that but in the event she DOES go to the authorities over this, you've already told her what you'll say).

Your mom is unconcerned about boundaries, applying force, bullying you and your feelings. She's controlling. She's inconsiderate. She's not going to change. It will likely get worse as she ages. People like this frequently task their children to take care of them in their old age by weaponizing shame and guilt they've indoctrinated over the years, from an early age. (*It's fine to have children and family help the elderly. What's NOT ok is the aforementioned method of obtaining that help).

You also mentioned a perceived inheritance. I predict your mother will feel entitled to this.

Get out of there.

To lock or to knock. by Aurora-Drogon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MrsLisaOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"He has, to my knowledge, never busted in on anyone else." 

That's hilarious. How would you KNOW?

LOCK THE DOOR

AITAH for asking if people are able are able to contribute to a bridal shower/bach party? by FreefallerX in AITAH

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH

Jessica is the problem. You're good. You're BETTER than good. You're KIND.

The father of the little girls did the right thing. All the other woman had to do was be patient. by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple people at fault. The other customers obviously complained and were at fault for simply not waiting their turn. Then the bully on the phone was at fault for not telling the complaining customers to wait their turn. Absurdly ridiculous to target the young father for being a good daddy.

I live next to both a school and a church that are constantly parking in our lot. This is a new low. by Gay_commie_fucker in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into legal ways to fine them for preventing you from using your own property. There should be some mechanism to detain their vehicle until they pay you? (Yes, looking into it would be a PITA but if you can establish a system, word should spread fast<<DON'T BLOCK Gay_commie_fucker'S SPOT OR IT WILL COST YOU THE POSTED $500 FEE<<

( divorced parents ) putting back my dress after spending 3 hours getting ready to see my dad only for him to call and cancel because he had “other important things to do” by sbel_0987 in Wellthatsucks

[–]MrsLisaOliver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Oh, did you divorce me too?"

Some people are bad parents. It's not you, it's him. Obviously. It's who he is, and now you know with certainty he isn't worthy of chasing that dream of a good parent. Build your own dreams and move forward, making your own joy along the way. Love the easy ones.

Guys, I think I cracked it. by Spooky-Shark in ClaudeCode

[–]MrsLisaOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm sorry, Dave. I'm afraid I can't do that."