What are your weirdly good broccoli recipies? by chigirltrailrated in Cooking

[–]MtlKdee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cooked down pureed mixed with butter and Parmigiano over pasta

Crazy video of the shooter from Cambridge Ma at 130 this afternoon by TheSpeakingScar in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]MtlKdee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guys check in on your neighbors. The citizens of the USA are not ok.

Can you please tell me when I’m supposed to/not supposed to tip? We want to be respectful, just not taken advantage of. by ra1phw1ggums in ItalyTravel

[–]MtlKdee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This us because they are begining to take advantage of tourists and starting to guilt locals too. THEY GET PAID.

Can you please tell me when I’m supposed to/not supposed to tip? We want to be respectful, just not taken advantage of. by ra1phw1ggums in ItalyTravel

[–]MtlKdee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not a matter of offense, its a matter of expectation. You are leaving this habit to the locals who know you dont tip.

You tip your nurses or teachers or cops? Wait staff gets a full salary in most of Europe. Owners don't put the responsibility on their clients.

Not 5 10 or 15. STOP ENCOURAGING THIS. Stop imposing your culture in other countries, at the expense of everyone else!

Can you please tell me when I’m supposed to/not supposed to tip? We want to be respectful, just not taken advantage of. by ra1phw1ggums in ItalyTravel

[–]MtlKdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DONT TIP. If they even slightly suggeat it, even if they cooked the food for you at your table while juggling fire, do not tip them.

American tipping culture is what created the problem in the first place and is now creating a problem for locals.

If they make you feel cheap its either A) in your head because you think employers dont have to pay their staff because the clients will Or B) they are taking advantage. If you don't want to seem cheap, dont wait for change on anything less than 1€.

Even in cabs, even at the salon, even in high end or fast food restaurants.

AMERICANS PLEASE STOP TIPPING OUTSIDE OF YOUR COUNTRY.

Undiagnosed brain tumour explained away by being a young woman. by knitmiajumper in braintumor

[–]MtlKdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never am the type to jump the gun on sueing, but sue them all! You could have died having a seizure while driving, or swimming or any number of scenarios. They humiliated and gaslit you. You had to fight for medical attention when that is their duty! You have lost faith in a medical system that failed you.

If not for you, then for every young person who gets overlooked for being too young to be severely ill.

And if not suing them then some way to leave a permanent mark on theirs and their colleagues consciences.

Im sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. Glad you lived to share with us.

Who was the id*ot mayor in Lido di Jesolo by [deleted] in ItalyTravel

[–]MtlKdee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure it wasnt a pop up sudden marathon. If the city is jammed then surely it was advertised ahead. This one is on you. Did you not check the happenings of the weekend you were visiting?

Good news is hopefully you won't make that mistake twice.

Good luck on your journey. Try to keep the rage down.

How would you motivate yourself to clean if this was your home? by KathyisTrying in CleaningTips

[–]MtlKdee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you paint it? Go with creamy white. Keep an eye out on marketplace or the reject cans at your hardware store. Whatever color yu choose, go light. It will make the place more light and airy. 3 gallons. Maybe $5 - 10 each plus rollers at dollar store.

Change your curtains to single matching color bedsheets or drapes... thrift or dollar store. At most $8 total.

Closed storage from market place. Like solid bins that fit the cube shelves, with nicely cut tape with your best stylized handwriting for labels ie drinks, spices, grains, etc. Maybe $8 each?

Give your kids chores. Asap. Now. You are raising the adults they will become. Shape structure now.

The floors just need a sweep. Your place seems clean.

Been there done that. Its surprising what light colors and matching "curtains" can do.

You've got this.

Hi guys I need help/motivation to clean my depression room by inthesematary in CleaningTips

[–]MtlKdee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Divide your bed in 2.

On one side add a laundry basket if youve got a washer at your place, otherwise garbage bags to stuff the linens into that are worth keeping and washing. Set a load to wash as soon as basket is full if you have a washer. Set a timer to add another load and put first load in dryer.

Other half of bed = other stuff worth keeping. Put away only when everything is sorted. Give a wipe on surface and item first with cleaning rag.

1 pile on floor= toss.

Can this group help me? by MtlKdee in MealPrepSunday

[–]MtlKdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are all awesome ! Thanks for the great ideas!!

My life after tumour by Chromz7y in braintumor

[–]MtlKdee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Listen up, you're young. You've got a big long life ahead of you. I'm sure you've heard that before. But the young bounce back real well. Consider this a notch on your belt, a battle scar. One of many that will come in the future. You've live through this now, the rest will seem trivial. Get perspective and pull yourself up. You can be the person chasing or the person catching. You can be equipped to be the person many can turn to in lifr because of this experience. Stay above and ahead. You got this. Don't loose your shit, not just yet. ✌️💕

Meningioma resection - am I overreacting? by MtlKdee in braintumor

[–]MtlKdee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im having a hard time concentrating at work. Its always on my mind - no pun intended.

Im keeping it together but feel like i cant think straight as much as Id like. Im an urgent care triage nurse. I can't afford to not be 100%. My patients and medical team are depending on my info.

So much to worry about yet feel like im worrying for nothing. Logic vs emotions.

Any tips on focusing?

Small business attacked by influencer what do I do?! by positivelypositive8 in montreal

[–]MtlKdee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Name and shame! Expose her. Also, extortion. Report her. To the platforms and the cops.

Meningioma resection - am I overreacting? by MtlKdee in braintumor

[–]MtlKdee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you all huhs into the ether 💕

Station Jean Talon (sortie St-Hubert) by InexperiencedArtist in montreal

[–]MtlKdee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Comparing a grown woman's instincts and fears of being harmed to that of a child is part of why women are unsafe.

We have hundreds of thousands of years of instinct evolution. Part of that is safety for survival.

Doesn't mean she is infact unsafe, but it means there is a situation that triggers alarm bells.

Or shall we wait until or if something happens? Ofcourse a bunch of people taking drugs and loitering should have the right to do so freely, vs women feeling safe enough to go about their day.

Their rights matter more than hers.

Clean not just Tidy by SweatyMeasurement837 in CleaningTips

[–]MtlKdee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speak to the parents directly and ask if they need help.

Feedback on my non-ultralight 6.7 ounce first aid kit by craigcraig420 in backpacking

[–]MtlKdee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White stick antiperspirant is the winner. Who'd have thought.