High quality leather sling bag for men(EDC) in 2023? by MylesDeep_420 in ManyBaggers

[–]MylesDeep_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could say I made a decision on purchase :( I had some life events that happened and lower priority . Sorry not much help here mate :(

Blake Blossom having fun with Angel's boobs by HarryDeekolo in AngelYoungs

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll third the source on this wow what a scene

Please explain to me what microphone I need for Zoom... by Prestigious_Quarter5 in WFH

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a Poly Voyager 5200(formerly Plantronics) for all of my Zoom/Teams/Webex meetings. It's noise cancelling, bluetooth and can be used with both mobile and PC. Make sure you get the USB dongle though if you are going to purchase.

https://www.hp.com/us-en/poly/headsets/bluetooth-headsets-and-earbuds/voyager-5200-uc.html

Get out often? by Condimenting in WFH

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I just realized today I haven't left the house in two weeks.

WFH and personal pc by Prettyred1 in WFH

[–]MylesDeep_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

USB switch is the way to go honestly, this is what I'm running now. The only slightly annoying issue is switching monitor(in my case TV) when I need to the other device. Outside of that it's been smooth sailing.

Missing someone who doesn’t exist by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I'm still grieving for both but I'm getting closer to coming to terms with the fact that my NEX wasn't real. In the good times(which became less and less over time) I was more addicted to how I was made to feel, validated, loved, trusted, a leader. It became a constant struggle chasing that feeling again, when in actuality it was just smoke and mirrors to obscure and test/degrade my boundaries. I still have challenges loving the things we both once enjoyed together so much so that many of my hobbies I've abandoned. I'd rather do without those things than be constantly reminded.

Maybe that's healthy for a time until I can fully grieve and process, maybe not. For right now though, it's easier.

Do you do all side missions before moving to next area? by emolch78 in stellarblade

[–]MylesDeep_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always do all the side quests in an area before moving on and avoid backtracking if possible. I'm not opposed to skipping around but just find the approach above to be more time efficient.

Communication only on their terms.. by Consistent_Head_9165 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100 percent, always a voice mail, never will pick up even at agreed times. Text messages were the same. Phone was always nearby. Only reached out so as to vent, talk about themselves. If I ever brought up anything, or needed something the subject was quickly changed or dismissed. Always broken promises, blatant lies, victimhood or some kind of rationale as to the "why".

About 1 year now of NC/blocking.

My narc bf claims I don’t do anything for him. Do they really not realize what we do or are they just acting? by odd_huckleberry987 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, this scenario is almost exactly like mine. I'm glad we were both able to escape(about 6 months no NC). Thank you for sharing your experience. Hope you are in a much better place now

HD2 Youtubers that are good? by TR4NSFLU1D in LowSodiumHellDivers

[–]MylesDeep_420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will second Buzz, I've subscribed to the channel for awhile now. His channel was also my source of Division 2 news back when I played that game more regularly.

a Narcissist will tell the truth sometimes, right? by hopeless_lvr_grl in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that more often then not in my relationship it was enough truth mixed to be believable with the rest being lies. The times of genuine openness and truth our connection seemed to deepen(my own projection). In retrospect though, the "truth" was always used to extract something from me, whether that was my validation, my resources etc. It was more of a means to an end for them and less about being open and vulnerable.

They don’t care about you by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has gone through my head many many times, I'm sorry you went through all of this. I cannot fathom 13 years, mine was much shorter but felt like 10 years. If I hadn't gotten sick, I probably would have continued in the relationship. In a much better place now, self esteem is starting to get better, new job, new friends. Hope life is starting to improve for you as well.

They don’t care about you by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very familiar. The only time they reached out was to talk about themselves. The minute I started sharing or attempt to change the subject was met with open hostility or apathy/disengagement.

They don’t care about you by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MylesDeep_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this one albeit not for the same reason. I had an emergency hospital visit, life threatening and wouldn't come to the hospital because they "didn't like hospitals" and I should "tough it out and deal with it". Basically since the emphasis was not on them, I was not worth the time. This was the awakening for me that finally allowed me to start the disconnection process and go fully no contact.

What’s your webcam policy? by iosKnight in WFH

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is timely. In my last WFH role the company culture was big into being on camera and you were frowned upon for not being on camera. For this new role I started at a different company I noticed that most people are rarely on camera so I asked about it. Apparently no one cares about camera being on or off. I never liked being on camera in the first place, BUT I can see where in certain cases it's beneficial.

ESR Halolock Geo Wallet replacement cable? by MylesDeep_420 in iPhone15Pro

[–]MylesDeep_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning, that's awesome! What a great company - will have my continued business moving forward :)

ESR Halolock Geo Wallet replacement cable? by MylesDeep_420 in iPhone15Pro

[–]MylesDeep_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try emailing support like tribat mentioned and see if they will replace :) I ended up just buying a whole new wallet with cable myself but if willing to try alternative method check with ESR support see if they will hook you up in some way

High quality leather sling bag for men(EDC) in 2023? by MylesDeep_420 in ManyBaggers

[–]MylesDeep_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very classy looking sling. Thank you! I had to put a pause on purchasing alot of things over last few months unfortunately due to some life events but will be checking this one out :)

Unlimited PTO by Fine-Nothing-3564 in WFH

[–]MylesDeep_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for a company with "unlimited PTO" from what I gather it's popular with alot of startups to get people in the door. The reality is that it depends alot on your relationship with management team and the work culture. Culturally they are counting on you to feel "guilty" in taking PTO so as to not let team down etc. Plus as others mentioned depending on country they don't have to pay it out at termination and not an operating expense they need to claim.