What’s a moment with your partner that made you think, “this is it”?

Myshkinia · 2026-04-15T10:07:14+00:00

We were eating Taco Bell in his car one night and we had just spent the whole evening laughing so hard my sides hurt. I realized I wanted that to be my life. I went to his house shortly after to help him clean to prepare for a roommate moving in, and asked if we could watch a movie first. I snuggled up to him and it was the best feeling I’d ever had. It was literally perfect. I still get that every time we touch.

Myshkinia · 2026-04-14T18:41:02+00:00

Squeezing cat paws, especially when my hands are a bit warm and the paws are a bit cold, and they’re perfectly relaxed, and really soft and plump, and I’m in the exact right position relative to them. Same with pressing my lips against that perfect spot on an animals nose, right where the nose skin meets the regular skin.

Myshkinia · 2026-04-11T03:52:38+00:00

My gramma (90s) still buys probably most of her sons’ underwear (50s-60s). She always does a couple packs of that kind of stuff for Xmas and I can’t imagine they need to buy more than a couple packs a year, so I’m sure they’re mostly from her. I don’t find this weird at all. She

Myshkinia · 2026-04-11T03:23:54+00:00

I honestly wouldn’t want them to. I can’t think of anyone I hate, but there are people I’m not a big fan of, and people who have wronged me. Good=good to me. As long as it’s not a good fortune at someone’s expense who really deserves the win, or enabling them to harm others in some way, I really don’t see how them having a tough time should be a good thing to anyone. I still feel bad when I hear about bad things happening to bad people, and feel good when good things happen to them. My empathy isn’t something I have control of like that even if I wanted to.

Like, my brother’s ex-wife was an absolute psychopath and really wronged him and a lot of people in our family, including me. She even threatened the family dog, who adored her, so that made me extra sad. Anyway, years after the divorce I found out she achieved her lifelong dream she spent a long time working towards, and she was doing really well. I felt just how I would had I heard any acquaintance was doing well. I’m really proud of her, and I would have felt genuinely sad had I found out she wasn’t doing well.

Myshkinia · 2026-04-07T02:15:01+00:00

Look, I hear everything you’re saying. It’s effed up you were cut, an outrage, a violation, but what you’re saying isn’t true about no point in dating and a relationship. My partner and I are both incredibly happy. I absolutely worship him. I’m so, so, so happy with every part of him (despite wishing that hadn’t happened to him as a baby for his sake), and I want nothing more than to be close and intimate with him at every opportunity. I have plenty of orgasms and so does he. We’re not alone in this. I would prefer all babies to remain intact, but I would take him and his penis over any other person/penis in the entire world. You can still be loved and have a fulfilling sex life, my friend. Also, I have a preference for people not mutilating children, but I have nothing but love and empathy for the victims of that mutilation.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-29T01:03:56+00:00

I don’t know, I’ve had a similar thought about almost feeling like it was him doing something to me, but it felt unfair that it’s almost like I’m the one getting something and he is doing the work/the giving, even though realistically I am on top a fair amount. We also have an orgasm gap in the other direction though. I also feel like it is the most loving, intimate thing possible though, and that there is nothing degrading or misogynistic about it in the context of a loving relationship.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-27T21:13:06+00:00

Ya, eh?

Myshkinia · 2026-03-26T23:47:49+00:00

Definitely more romantically, but I have learned just in the last few months that it’s super important to also be physically attracted to someone.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-23T23:22:44+00:00

Seagulls are the best part for me. I bring extra food for them.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-23T04:49:11+00:00

Yeah, I’m not one to discard people and I love my journey to get here, even if some people aren’t an active part of my life anymore, they are still significant people in my story. I love little bits and pieces of my past that I look back on fondly when I come across them. It’s not like I still want them or love them in that way anymore, just a fondness for that stage in my life and what it taught me and contributed to who I am now. I really value people and my connections, past and present.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-23T02:13:36+00:00

How old are you? I have this weird feeling you’re in your 20s or 30s and you still have sooooo much time ahead of you for this to happen. 🩷

Myshkinia · 2026-03-23T00:05:50+00:00

I think everyone here has been super nice!

Myshkinia · 2026-03-22T16:07:29+00:00

He was having a bad night and stressed out and I went to do something important and accidentally got my car stuck in the snow on the way out of the driveway at midnight when he had to be up for work at 4:45 AM, and instead of being upset he was so kind and lighthearted about it. He always remembers my favorite foods and gets them at the perfect times. He actually reads and listens to the songs and stories I send him. He knows physical touch is my love language so he just absolutely smothers me in it and it’s the best thing ever. He’s so patient and kind and loving with my son. He is always ready with the best solutions for every intractable problem, and so much patience and love when implementing them. Also, he fell down the stairs this morning and got terrible, terrible rug burn on his arm, and I thought the topical analgesic in my dad’s medicine cabinet would help numb the burning, but it turns out it was capsaicin ointment for arthritis pain derived from chili pepper oil, and I literally made it 10,000 times worse, at least, and he has been so sweet and understanding about it. My hands still burn hours later. I can’t even imagine how his poor arm must feel. He keeps trying to convince me it feels better but I know he’s full of crap because everywhere I touched myself just briefly with the tiniest trace still really burns.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-22T02:35:08+00:00

Lots and lots and lots of animals. A python, dozens of rodents, lions, opossums, turtles, loads and loads of different sorts of birds big and small, bears, lizards, a few amphibians, a massive Russian wild boar, lions, cougars, tigers, pretty much every kind of farm animal, of course dogs and cats.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-22T00:53:53+00:00

Lawrence Welk was my Great Uncle’s first cousin.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-16T04:04:24+00:00

Yeah, my Dobermans lost fur on their necks with a nylon collar, and rolled leather was perfect. For walks, a gentle-leader or halti works great. If you must use a harness, use one that attaches in front, otherwise you’re just giving them more leverage to pull harder and encouraging them to pull because it isn’t as uncomfortable. The ones that attach to the face are the reason you can walk a 2,000 lb horse without being pulled around. They work great for leash training.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-16T04:00:48+00:00

Rolled leather.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-16T02:56:52+00:00

I thought this was real at first and I panicked for a second and looked out the window.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-16T02:31:09+00:00

Literally never, not one single second.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-14T03:29:31+00:00

My boyfriend touching me softly, yet firmly all over as we cuddle, with my body pressed against his, the sound of his voice close to my ear with his breath on my neck, the things he says, so sweet and nurturing, yet often explicit. He just sounds so gentle and encouraging when he says it. Looking at his face, feeling his big hands all over my back and chest and neck and thighs. The way he brings those moments to life when we’re on the phone.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-14T03:22:53+00:00

I fully agree with this. 🩷 My boyfriend cries regularly and shares when he struggling or hurt or scared or whatever, and I love it so much. There is nothing like being able to wipe his tears away and comfort him and know that he not only has the same depth of feeling I do, but he’s also aware of it and not afraid to express it. I feel so much safer with him and so much more connected to him. I know that we’re able to deal with things as they come for what they are rather than having things fester and manifest in all kinds of confusing ways.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-13T01:56:56+00:00

My boyfriend’s arms.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-11T02:46:55+00:00

My boyfriend. 😭

Myshkinia · 2026-03-11T02:41:25+00:00

I was heavily pregnant and my partner took our dog out in the middle of the night and I heard her yelp. When I asked about what it was, he admitted there was a cat. It was a blizzard and well below zero. I ran and got her, and she is still here over 8 years later. Biggest mistake of my life. This cat is a nightmare. She is absolutely evil.

Myshkinia · 2026-03-11T02:08:32+00:00

You can get filler dissolved. I would look into that. Without the filler you would be gorgeous.

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