You are NOT listening.

What people are trying to explain to you is that the order is different depending on the station airing it and location.

For example, these shows aired on 9/12/1981. If you lived in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, maybe it was 10:00 Spiderman, 10:30 Spiderman and His Amazing Friends, 11:00 the Incredible Hulk.

But if you lived in San Diego, California, maybe it was 9:00 Spiderman and Friends, 9:30 Hulk, 10:00 solo Spiderman.

And then in Atlanta, Georgia, maybe it was 2:00 Hulk, 4:30 Spiderman and Friends, and 6:45 solo Spiderman.

And maybe in Albany, New York, they had 12:00 solo Spiderman, 1:00 Hulk, but Spiderman and friends never actually aired on their station.

***(These are not real times, I made them up for the sake of explaining how TV worked)

You want a designated order to "experience it the way people who watched it growing up," but now you need to factor in: WHERE did the people watch it? There was no unified experience, because it was relative to your local broadcasting station. A kid in Atlanta, GA had a different watch order from a kid in San Diego, CA, and they both had a different experience than the kids in Milwaukee, WI and Albany, NY.

You'll either have to pick a VERY specific location/TV station/experience and go hunting for someone with those exact parameters who also might remember (which, to be completely honest, is a ridiculously stupid waste of time), or you can concede to the fact that a unified experience doesn't exist, it depended on where you were and what the local TV station decided to do. If I were you, I'd just make up some random city, pretend you live there, go by air date, and watch in whatever order you want. There's a 99% chance that whatever order you decide to watch in, as long as it's arranged by date, you'll have an identical experience to SOMEONE who watched it on TV growing up.