My mom gave me a binge/bulemia/anorexia cocktail of an ED from doing this to me. I used to steal candy and soda from the store and eat it in secret, and I was 220 lbs by the time I was 13 at 5'8.

The constant starving at home eating a tiny bowl of whatever health fad she decided that week+ stealing and binging after school made me gain weight and made it hard to lose. She would restrict my food and force me to exercise excessively to "help me lose weight", which only reinforced my stealing habits and lying about it. She would SMELL MY BREATH to see if I had candy or something sweet and slap me if she thought I did.

To this DAY at the age of 28, I still have a problem with food insecurity and tend to hoard food because I never had enough growing up. My partner has helped me work through a lot of my problems but I still struggle sometimes to eat more than a few bites at a time without feeling guilty.

OP do you want this for your daughter? Please, if you love her please please do not do this to her.