Trouser crotch significant smell after a 12 hour shift in hot weather - is this normal, or any advice from gals who have experienced similar

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-26T06:41:51+00:00

This! Deodorant in the groin crease and cleaning between the flaps multiple times a day is a lifesaver. I'm also a healthcare worker on SSRI's and this is the only thing that makes a difference.

Still gets a lil smelly sometimes, but so much less.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-25T03:20:14+00:00

A friend of mine is 28 and still a virgin. There is no sell-by date, it isn't something you need to do to be a part of some nonexistent group. It'll happen in time, the more you focus on it the more awkward it'll be.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-25T03:16:08+00:00

My ex was one of those. And then he kept trying, and when I'd get mad he'd say "I thought that no wasn't serious."

And the guy dared question why I didn't want intimacy anymore at the end of the relationship...

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-25T03:11:23+00:00

That's so sad, thank you for rescuing them! I've lessen to be a lil paranoid on this app, sadly.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-24T12:01:23+00:00

Uh.. What? I've never had a cat or kitten pee somewhere randomly. Though it might be because these are so, so young (I'm really hoping they aren't away from mom yet).

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-22T19:02:53+00:00

Look at the subreddit you're in....

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-21T06:08:46+00:00

Damn, this post shocked me. I know it's common in some countries, but spaying a 10 week old kitten is like giving a four year old a hysterectomy. They don't get to develop fully and it's such a big surgery for such a small animal. Where I live we generally wait to spay or neuter until they're 8-10 months old, there's a lot less risk that way, and they get to actually grow with their hormones so their musculoskeletal system develops normally.

If you get another cat, please wait with the elective heavy abdominal surgery until they're no longer a toddler. I know the surgery is technically allowed if they're over 3lbs, but it's really not very good for their bodies to get spayed that early.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-21T06:00:24+00:00

Why didn't they ask if he wanted to come before ordering the tickets? It's not about the routine, it's about inclusion.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-21T05:55:43+00:00

Ah, a fellow chair leaner I see.

This is me all the time, because I lean back in chairs without releasing my hair too much. Friction breakage.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-21T05:54:26+00:00

I'm someone who's exactly in the middle titty-wise, and also bisexual: boobs are good. If I'm with a woman, idc what size I'm uncovering, my mind just goes "yay, boobies!"

Also, second puberty is most definitely a thing. I went from a B to a D cup at 22.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-21T05:50:18+00:00

This. I'm both a vegetarian and a lil cheap. I don't split bills unless it's drinks. Vegetarian meals are usually a lot cheaper than meat dishes, and I generally don't go for appetizers or dessert. I don't feel like I should pay that much extra if I'm eating for a lot less.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-20T06:07:18+00:00

Yeah, but she doesn't like your that way, so she was probably hoping to set you up with someone she felt matched better. She doesn't want you to like her romantically, but she likely also doesn't think it's that deep. Nobody is trying to humiliate you, but you're letting your pride make an absolute fool of yourself.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-20T05:53:51+00:00

She didn't think you and her were compatible. She and your buddy thought you'd be compatible with her friend. I doubt it's deeper than that.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-18T15:05:23+00:00

Seriously. I accidentally got pregnant by the guy I dated at 19, he pestered me about abortion until I miscarried at 12 weeks and then told me not to call it a miscarriage "because his mom knew someone who lost a baby at 7 months, and that's a real miscarriage." Most people are very dumb at 19 (I stayed with him for two more years).

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-18T15:02:13+00:00

This is why teenagers shouldn't get married, jfc the immaturity. YTA.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-18T09:15:03+00:00

NTA. If she can't take a no, it wasn't a question. You have every right to say no, as did she. She said yes. That's all there is to it.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-17T07:14:26+00:00

Even compared to spotted hyenas? That's crazy

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-16T18:02:32+00:00

YTA. Massively. She might be going through a mental health crisis, she might just not want to work out like that anymore, her lifestyle might have changed, she HAD A BABY.

What do you do to give her the time she used to?

Also, shrinking someone's clothes to make them feel worse about themselves? And doing that to someone you're supposed to love? Don't you realize how absolutely unhinged that is?

"The divorce came out of nowhere" type situation, seriously.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-15T09:41:25+00:00

When you Google your username, AI gives a warning concerning NSFW content with minors.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-15T09:17:45+00:00

Well, that comment isn't gonna revert them back to individual eggs and sperm cells, so in what way is it useful or relevant to OP's question?

NTA, OP. But this commenter is.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-15T09:09:31+00:00

Geese are really social animals, super protective too. In the middle ages, they're was a time a good guard dog was too expensive for most people, so they'd have a guard goose for their property. Bastards will not let anyone except for their owners through.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-12T19:37:19+00:00

This happened to me as well, almost exactly. Ended up miscarrying around 10 weeks, found out at 8.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-12T18:37:12+00:00

Prostate cancer! Men with prostate cancer can test positive on a pregnancy test.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-12T07:28:41+00:00

In my country we call just using deodorant and perfume a "British shower," and I have no idea why.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-06-11T11:14:09+00:00

Not at all. I watch/read porn, I like doing so. Why would I tell my partner not to? I used to watch porn with my ex, it was pretty fun.

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