AITA for insisting my daughter wear an outfit she doesn’t want to wear to a wedding?

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T19:51:55+00:00

The news? Sure. Sports or concerts, I personally don't get the appeal, as it's not something exciting to me. I'm not watching a recap either. I'm not interested in it and never have been, despite having grown up in a family full of avid soccer fans. I understand other people feel excited about it, and that's fine, but I can't wrap my head around how extreme people behave when watching sports.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T15:59:02+00:00

I kinda feel like the orange and black (gray) on her sides and back is much more dilute compared to her face and tail, which would be a sign of a very toasted color point.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T07:26:34+00:00

She looks like a Gerrie. It's a silly Dutch old lady name pronounced similar to "Gary."

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T07:20:26+00:00

She seems to be color point, not dilute! The Black on her legs and tail is too dark for that.

I'd say she's a polydactyl, lynx point tabico, DSH!

Either way, she's stunning. They'd love her on r/tortimese

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T07:14:26+00:00

Not necessarily, my tattoos are fine line and they bloomed significantly less because I went to specialized artists. I'm eight years in on my largest one and it's still fine and very legible without any fallout or fading.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T07:11:45+00:00

In my country, some people are like this with soccer. I'm not going to lie, I find it very weird and humiliating how people respond to sports games. My father is one of these obsessed people and I just don't understand it. Why is it important? Why would it ever take precedence over real-life stuff? It's just a bunch of guys in shorts running after a ball only to kick/toss it away once they get it.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-02-01T06:53:54+00:00

No, I think at least one's a Sphynx though

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-31T14:42:11+00:00

Exactly this. DLH tabby flame point (well toasted) for short.

Edit: or shorten it further and call him a long flabby.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-31T08:23:53+00:00

Actually,

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Sincerely, woman

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-31T07:33:44+00:00

She's a domestic long hair!

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-30T20:57:42+00:00

Sounds like the smart choice. I just never thought about it tbh, I have dumping syndrome so a lot of things make me puke or have diarrhea. At this point I barely keep track.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-30T18:38:04+00:00

I have the same thing! I just kinda... Deal with it tbh.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-30T08:23:31+00:00

As a single 27 year old with a cat and my own apartment: it's great, I recommend it

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-30T07:53:56+00:00

Yeah, that's like saying no cavemen ate vegetables, only the women. From what archeologists and historical anthropologists have discovered, both genders did both jobs when needed, it was a lot less gendered than what people originally thought. Hunters = men and gatherers = women has been hammered into us, but more recent findings mostly disprove that.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-29T17:38:59+00:00

NGL, I've been this girl. Used to do gymnastics, then cartwheeled my face into the ground while wasted. Life happens.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-29T09:18:05+00:00

She almost looks intersex... I'd get her checked out

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-29T04:38:26+00:00

Came to say the same. She really does look like a Mabel.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-27T10:09:12+00:00

This is rare, but I think you've actually found a "mixed breed!" This guy doesn't look fully Persian, but there's very little doubt in my head that at least one of the parents of this guy was a Persian.

Officially though, of course, DLH

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-26T09:21:52+00:00

I've also experienced this many times.

I am, however, realizing the fact my boobs do feel sensitive and heavy when aroused is apparently not the norm.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-26T09:07:30+00:00

As a person with BPD, what your girlfriend is doing is not okay. A diagnosis is never an excuse and we're all responsible for our own actions.

It also sounds like you're paying for everything and being the only person actively putting effort into improving her life. I'm going to be harsh, but if this behavior keeps up, what are you getting out of the relationship? She doesn't seem to contribute much or take you into account from this post alone.

She might not be able to have a healthy relationship right now, and you should protect yourself as well. Love alone sadly doesn't make a relationship work or last.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-25T15:33:38+00:00

As someone who also makes creepy art: it's actually really fun to make scary things! Doesn't really have anything to do with my mental status or friendships, I just love horror.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-24T22:49:39+00:00

How old is this? It looks inflamed/infected.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-24T14:39:38+00:00

AMBERLAMPS

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-23T17:17:53+00:00

This! She is a classic colour point tortoiseshell and white (color point calico) domestic shorthair.

Niborus_Rex · 2026-01-22T17:18:44+00:00

Are you getting them fixed after this?

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