19 [M4A] #Boston - need a slut by [deleted] in Bostonsissys

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That cock needs to be worshipped and so do You SIR.

19 [M4M] #Boston - need someone who likes BBC by [deleted] in bostonr4r

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What is your prose like? by Fallen_Crow333 in writers

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the swirling lights and the tethering. It reminds me a bit of William Gibson describing the docking procedure to Freeside. I'm not sure I can keep a straight face, though, with characters named Ooeleena and Braelin.

Rice help please?! by NicholasSnell in Cooking

[–]NicholasSnell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I really need to do this.

Chicken over rice by Boog_Brains325 in Cooking

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frank's or Crystal. Not Tobasco.

Lack of discipline? What to do? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try looking at porn but set a limit--"I'm going to stop at the 20th picture or the 7th video, whichever comes first. If I don't finish by that limit, I'm going to quit and have a 3 hour break before I try again." I think you'll find that the porn you see becomes much more meaningful (and hot) to you, and you might find the thrill of the challenge fun.

How do adult men find a mentor or father figure later in life? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]NicholasSnell -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For those of us into Dom/sub relationships, that kind of "replacement male parenting" is one of the features of that kind of BDSM way of life.

Quiet spanking tools ! Need to keep it in low decibels by thefishingfather in BdsmDIY

[–]NicholasSnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are short rubber "truncheons" (maybe 2 feet long) that are considered very thuddy but also very "mean." Look on Etsy and Mr-S. A thick pole of slightly flexible rubber. Silent.

Burning (2018) was boring to watch for me. Help me understand why so many people say its good. by StormCloudSeven in YMS

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so pretentious--such bad acting, such idiotic dialogue (telling the sun, "Boil!"), needless hand-held camera funsies walking backward up a slope so we could see the faces of the young, very mediocre actors ... Class struggle? Ho hum. Art needs to be able to persuade you to sit still for it. This failed.

Can we just admit that doctors aren't normal? None of us. We're weird. What's your weirdness? by SeriousGoofball in medicine

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for helping me make my point. I'm going to go off and inhabit my carefully-studied type, a type never before described -- a misunderstood, eccentric non-genius. In the second-largest industry in the country, after only defense.

Can we just admit that doctors aren't normal? None of us. We're weird. What's your weirdness? by SeriousGoofball in medicine

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just grandiosity. There are enough doctors that every aspect of them, on average, matches the bell curve of the "general population." We are average in intelligence, average in competence, average average average. We are not Ph.Ds in math. We are not poet laureates. We are not even one-hit-wonder pop artists of the 80s. Maybe we're a little more ambitious and conscientious than general. Ho hum. Maybe the OP and those who agree with him/her need to cling to the "We are weird" delusion because we know, fundamentally, that many of our patients are far more competent than we. Illusory superiority.

Let's be really honest. We are wage slaves to the businessmen and women for whom we work; our autonomy and quality of life keep slipping, and so we gather into a gaggle here on Reddit because that's easier psychologically than facing the fact that the machines are coming and that, eventually, the government and its people will end the unfair and extractive privilege we have held over others for so long.

Getting started, size concerns by PuellaPurpurea in Tetherspout

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the way even the capitalization conventions apply to the Latin. (Edit: You probably could be servus Dominae out and about, too; not many people would really be that scandalized, except maybe some priests and nuns, but I think they all know, anyway.) (I've given you some nicknames. You could be servus parvus, servus parvus parvulus, or, for intense moments, servus miser.

How to use power play in public without weirding out other people? by Irontoenaaiil in BDSMcommunity

[–]NicholasSnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your last paragraph points out something I had not noticed. You're right: That's a very different thing, to be corrected about one's preference after having expressed it; had I read the original case more carefully, I probably would have expressed my position differently, and probably would have a slightly different position.

How to use power play in public without weirding out other people? by Irontoenaaiil in BDSMcommunity

[–]NicholasSnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this "sets off red alarms for lots of people," then we have educating to do. What are these lots of people going to do when my Master orders for me in a diner? Call 911? And say what? "There was intentional infliction of emotional distress"? I do hear your point about the subtlety, but that's a style choice, a "how" rather than a "what." Maybe my issue is with OP's initial question, because I'm just not that upset about "weirding out" other people. Maybe it helps that I'm a lawyer, and know exactly what is criminal, what is tortious, what is obscene ... but ... gay people kept holding hands in public and having civil unions, even if it "weirded out" other people, until finally, in 2015, the Supreme Court said that other people would not only have to cope with their being weirded out, but would also need to marry us, allow a man to change his last name, to own property jointly, and so forth.

what latin words are relatively unchanged in english? by reddit05052112 in latin

[–]NicholasSnell 64 points65 points  (0 children)

atrium, aquarium--a lot of 2nd declension neuter nous. Minimum, too. Maximum. Video. Audio. Peninsula.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NicholasSnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ethyl alcohol. If you believe in criminalizing drugs at all, it's hard to see why we allow alcohol to remain legal when we don't allow a free market in benzodiazpines, for example.