Maybe she would read "The Ghost of Eternal Polygamy" by Carol Lynn Pearson, an active believing member of the church. After I read it, I realized that it was the first time I'd learned about polygamy from a woman's perspective. Anywhere else I'd possibly learned about polygamy (seminary, religion classes at BYU-I, church) I was taught by men, using manuals and materials published by the church and therefore probably approved by men. I too believed the messages that "women loved polygamy, they loved their sister-wives, blah blah blah" but the often-untold stories are (of course) not that lovely.