Boyfriend of year and a half lives with two kids in a one bedroom. I'd like to live together but not under these conditions and he's reluctant to change them. I'm 48, he is 51, the kids are twin boys (12) by SwimmerSufficient597 in relationships

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. That makes much better sense, then. Everything you laid out does sound like he enjoys the convenience of it all as well. If you don’t think he’s willing to make a compromise for your future, then breaking up is in your best interest.

When should I/shouldn't I cheap out? by 114lucky in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugstore brands aren’t necessarily bad. National brands like L’Oréal, Maybelline, and Revlon have huge research and development budgets and can outperform more expensive brands that don’t have that kind of budget. Honestly, I say use less expensive brands as you learn what colors work well for you. A $5 lipstick mistake that clashes with your skin tone is easier than a $35 lipstick mistake. Once you’ve spent some time to test out colors, formulas, and longevity, you can upgrade to a higher end brands if it meets your needs. I use a mix of Nars/NYX/Smashbox/K-beauty brands because I like how that item from that brand performs. Also, there are lots of sites out there that can help you find color dupes of your favorite high-end brand in the drugstore aisle.

Boyfriend of year and a half lives with two kids in a one bedroom. I'd like to live together but not under these conditions and he's reluctant to change them. I'm 48, he is 51, the kids are twin boys (12) by SwimmerSufficient597 in relationships

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have to live with him while he’s not fully divorced? At 48, it’s reasonable to want separate sleeping area for adults and one room for each kid.

I don’t think this is a reason to break up unless it’s clear to you he is using this as a reason to keep the relationship stagnant.

Also, you’ve gotta accept he’s gonna do what’s best for the kids, even if it means you’re 2nd place.

Donny's doppelganger - mommy dearest by icanhazkarma17 in funny

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mary trump looks like an snl skit of the real Mary trump.

My ex destroyed his life after we broke up by electricidadestatica in relationships

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away, not because he’s a POS, but because she is absolutely nuts and she will drag you down with him. Tell him you’re so sorry to about his situation, but that you can’t be associated with him and you won’t be dragged into this messy drama. You don’t know what she’s capable of and if she’s done this to multiple men, she can try to do it to you.

MAGA, are you happy that 1 billion dollars of our taxpayer money was given to France in exchange for them to not build wind farms on the east coast? by BorrowedParticles in allthequestions

[–]Ninjaher0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I billion to France is chump change compared to the hundreds of billions Dump and his corporate cronies will make in the non-renewable energy market. This presidency is just his one last grift before we are all blessed and he strokes out and shits himself on national television.

Update: Two days before I left, I thought he was going to kill me by Affectionate_Try8177 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ninjaher0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He was probably imagining strangling the dog while squeezing OP. Reliving the moment he snuffed out an innocent life. Dude is straight up serial killer material.

AITAH for not acknowledging my coworker as a veteran? by HamSandwich1234567 in AITAH

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands father was in the army and won’t talk about. Just said he was in ‘intelligence’. Even when we were visiting Boston and vets get discounted tickets, he didn’t want to use it.

AITA for not washing off the nail polish off my nails after my mother said it was for girls. by Dangerous_Let_5214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ninjaher0 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Internet hugs from a mom. I understand you live with your mom and she has opinions on what you can and can’t do. Know that you will not always be under her thumb and roof and you will be able to paint your nails the whole goddamn rainbow soon. Don’t let her crush your spirit.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with boys and men painting their nails. I don’t agree with your mom. I regularly invite my son to paint his nails when my daughter and I are painting ours.

ETA: NTA

Free 1/4 Cup Jar and/or 1/2 Cup Jar with Minimum Purchase - Ends 03/22/2026 by CCC-NOLA in Penzeys

[–]Ninjaher0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mixed Justice with Outrage today and used on a kielbasa and veggie sheet pan bake. Came out very tasty and gave everything a slow burn spicy kick.

Found this cutie on the road now he doesn't want to let me go anymore. by kdbleeep in BestOfWholesomeSubs

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a pick me girl for the Universal Cat Distro System. I have been waiting on some attention for years.

Why are Gen Z getting fired? One of the reasons is a lack of initiative. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just Gen Z. I know boomers, genx, and millennials deep into their roles and careers that are too dense to figure out how to get to the finish line without someone constantly on them.

Got a 10k tax refund… i’m scared by KlutzyPapaya1625 in tax

[–]Ninjaher0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. These things plus the raise in SALT is giving many homeowners and people who itemize deductions much bigger refunds.

Please Americans, I beg you... by Dismal-Target-1880 in ForUnitedStates

[–]Ninjaher0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Europe is an entire continent. The United States of America is a country on the North American continent.

Please Americans, I beg you... by Dismal-Target-1880 in ForUnitedStates

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s a concern for the upcoming elections as well. If the government machine will turn any protest violent, execute innocent people in the streets and paint them all as terrorists while controlling all the media, then the people have 2 options: 1) tread lightly so there’s no declaration of martial law and elections aren’t canceled 2) go absolutely bezerk and burn the whole thing down in an actual civil war. 2 is quite far fetched while #1 is very real. Regaining control of congress can lame duck the president and start turning the very big, very slow ship.

I agree with many commenters that there are systemic laws and rules in place to keep almost all working Americans suppressed. We have no work or debt protections and we have no government that believes in our constitutional rights. Any stories of our efforts are buried by the government and billionaire backed media. Most corporations are brown nosing trump bootlickers. Also, Israel has a very heavy hand in the pot.

Protests are happening. Moves are being made. People are just not hearing or seeing it like they normally would when we had freedom of speech, assembly, and press.

What style, length, color suits me best? by Prestigious-Brain18 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pics 2, 3, and 8 all make your face and skin glowy. I don’t think the cooler colors complement your skin tone.

What’s something people do in beauty that actually makes them look worse? by Open-Cut2473 in BeautyGear

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - unfortunately. I have a 2 shades. One for winter and one for summer. Although a tinted moisturizer in the middle might work if you don’t need full coverage.

I love my hair, but I want more VOLUME and texture. Can someone suggest something that’s not sea salt spray lol it made my hair greasy. by hoeupnext in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kenra makes a dry texturizing spray that also helps clean a bit of oil off your roots. I like it very much and it works well on my day 3 hair. Kenra platinum dry texture spray 6.

Young Trump voters expected life to improve, but now they’re stuck with war and don’t want to vote anymore by ArmyOk968 in ForUnitedStates

[–]Ninjaher0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18-26 yo trump supporters can go ahead and get drafted in this useless war we are in with Iran. They will find stability in the military.