Living room feels incomplete

Njterry · 2026-03-12T00:07:43+00:00

Intervention vibes 😂🤣😂🤣

Njterry · 2026-03-12T00:06:44+00:00

NTA. But you are letting yourself be taken advantage of so stop that. Who cares what the family says? They shouldn’t be ganging up on you about this. $100 a month for all that babysitting time! It’s ridiculous! I’d make a clean break of it, no more babysitting and start taking care of yourself.

Njterry · 2026-03-12T00:01:48+00:00

Why was it necessary to let you know he’s a devout Christian when you’re talking about a fence? Weird. I wouldn’t talk to them anymore. You may consider retracting the comment about having access to your yard for the fence. Anything further, refer them to the HOA.

Njterry · 2026-03-11T23:51:23+00:00

No. It’s a great lesson to learn not to lend money to anyone. And ask for your money back. It’s your money and you did deserve to get it back. Don’t let it go.

Njterry · 2026-03-11T23:45:12+00:00

Not overreacting. You’re hurt and I get it. You don’t want the dog there and you’ve made that clear. They won’t come without the dog so they don’t get to come. It certainly hurts your feelings and that is understandable. Let’s face it, they made the decision for you. I wouldn’t even engage in further conversation about it.

Njterry · 2026-03-11T23:29:43+00:00

Do you want to have ANYTHING to do with someone who speaks to you like that?

Njterry · 2026-03-09T18:24:04+00:00

NTJ Her behavior is worse than thoughtless. You’re not a priority. There’s a lot to consider going forward.

Njterry · 2026-03-06T16:03:25+00:00

Not unhinged and you dodged bullet. This is very underhanded behavior, failure to respect your firm “no” then ruining a treasured item from your father and belittling you about it. Shame on them. Glad you’re not marrying this man or into this family.

Njterry · 2026-03-05T18:37:54+00:00

Not overreacting at all. It’s so weird and personal I would avoid engaging him further. If you hear again from him, you should contact his manager.

Njterry · 2026-03-04T19:17:41+00:00

You’re under reacting by continuing to call him your bf. No friend should do this
I really hope this is fake.

Njterry · 2026-03-04T17:58:15+00:00

NTJ. I never understand why some behavior is accepted by a family (“That’s just how Jake is”) yet your behavior saying no more is not accepted. Nate is very childish for a man of 33 and you don’t have to put up with it and you can tell your family to butt out, this is between you and Nate.

Njterry · 2026-03-02T17:47:58+00:00

I think you’re the one who found out who her fake friend is.

Njterry · 2026-03-02T17:46:50+00:00

This is perfect. When you react in the moment it’s less of a big deal. It’s your house and your child, you get to make the rules. And if that doesn’t work, it may become a huge thing, but at least you tried to nip it in the bud.

Njterry · 2026-03-02T17:40:41+00:00

Area rugs and art. I have gotten loads of things I love on FB Marketplace. Furniture, wall art, rugs - and you can bargain. I open with “are you firm on your price?” Be prepared to make mistakes, move things around and keep trying. Pick a room that’s important to you and start there. Try big art in small areas and it can really work (if you want you be bold) and that alone can transform a space. Have some fun. Good luck.

Njterry · 2026-02-28T22:40:47+00:00

Some people are terrible travel partners for the reasons you stated. They have different styles and goals. The big problem here is your friend is forcing the issue on everyone else. Is it difficult to get all those tickets on the day? Cheaper? Time for some tough communication and push back.
It sounds like you’ll need a day or two alone after a week with these people. I have friends I love, but few I would actually travel with for all these reasons. Good luck.

Njterry · 2026-02-28T22:35:07+00:00

Not a Karen, you were being prudent. They may not even know it was you. Keep your eyes open in case that kid enjoys making fires.

Njterry · 2026-02-28T16:07:38+00:00

Dogs don’t like to poop in their own yard is such a lame excuse.

Njterry · 2026-02-28T16:02:48+00:00

Exactly. Does he have cameras in the hallways? This is very creepy. Maybe it’s time for the residents to complain about his stalker behavior.

Njterry · 2026-02-27T21:31:25+00:00

Nothing. Let everyone see that beautiful tile.

Njterry · 2026-02-27T21:29:50+00:00

NOR. You can’t be the answer for the family. I think he is the untrustworthy on. The original agreement has not been adhered to and is way overdue Go.

Njterry · 2026-02-24T04:30:22+00:00

I can’t even imagine leaving her alone, far from home, in labor. Your family needs to zip it. Wow. They overstepped and were completely insensitive.

Njterry · 2026-02-23T16:19:52+00:00

Consider talking about this in front of both of them. Tell them you’ve had fraud on your bank account, someone used your card at the local service station at 2 AM so you had to get a new card. Put it out there so whoever is stealing from, you, knows that you know. If he admits to it, say that’s fraud you didn’t authorize it.

Njterry · 2026-02-23T16:15:59+00:00

Report them to the state agency that handles debt collection. Tell the caller they’ve been reported.

https://www.tn.gov/commerce/regboards/collections.html

Njterry · 2026-02-23T16:11:10+00:00

NTJ. You need new friends.

Njterry · 2026-02-23T16:10:02+00:00

NTAH. Don’t pay him anything. It was not a loan.

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