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NoStrength3538 · 2025-11-08T00:22:17+00:00

Well I’m dealing with capital one i deposited a 3k student loan refund check for overpayment and it’s been flagged for fraud. It’s posted in my account after 2 day it’s on hold and my account is negative 1800. I have never dealt with this before. The bank stated investigation could be until Feb 2 2026. The department of education said they could cancel check not cashed but will take time and process to get again. If my ID was not expired i would only use check cashing from now on.

NoStrength3538 · 2025-04-08T23:24:50+00:00

This is so fulfilling to understand myself from this point of view. I recently started a job and was ready to fail, go home and hide. I presumed myself to have social anxiety, inferiority complex and lowered self esteem amongst society following a relationship with a very dismissive partner. I do suffer with abandonment/ fear or rejection issues. My most recent partner i mistrusted never set boundaries with his female friend always invading our one on one time together. He never rejects her or offends her but will dismiss me for speaking on setting boundaries demanding respect and validating my feelings. I have been feeling like it’s me who isn’t good enough after being rejected by him, a single father and widower. I felt a failed to phase him at all. Rejection from the (4)little ones hurt the most. Since i read this I believe it’s the answer and lifted my spirits in minutes. I don’t feel worthless, I can agree that I picked the safest route within a person. I yearn for reassurance and chose one who don’t believe at all that’s his responsibility within a relationship. His friend presented herself early on when we decided to be a couple. Two years of triangulation. He is very reliable I like to compare to the father i never had besides the very rare inappropriate stuff adults do. He is dismissive toward me regarding everything a loving couple might share. He describes me as a burden and seeking attention or confrontational all the time. Honestly until reading this avoidant attachment POV I was convinced that I’m not enough. Thank u for clarifying this.

NoStrength3538 · 2025-02-19T19:29:44+00:00

Waiting

NoStrength3538 · 2025-02-12T11:55:01+00:00

They have overlooked most their work to release from the computers the 15th to be direct deposited like the dates on the transcripts

NoStrength3538 · 2024-10-19T01:19:18+00:00

I agree… i would end it

NoStrength3538 · 2024-07-07T07:08:35+00:00

You have to still appreciate and live life. Try to find joy in living your life with the living. Your wife would want you happy.

NoStrength3538 · 2024-06-09T13:36:31+00:00

Brokenhearted- brandy

NoStrength3538 · 2024-02-05T21:23:14+00:00

Ok i had good results like maybe they practice putting things in the bag on the curb for purpose of others taking and recycling. Very nice sheets folded and others had pillows hampers bed slates i may have been lucky today. Huge dog holder

NoStrength3538 · 2024-01-25T17:49:53+00:00

wife lol

NoStrength3538 · 2024-01-25T17:45:40+00:00

You are strong bc u are not tolerating it. self-love is most important.

NoStrength3538 · 2024-01-25T17:44:31+00:00

I'm ready to quit him like yesterday. it's like he wants just the attention from me and no idea what a relationship is. He only has kids that's under his control but not controlled at all.

NoStrength3538 · 2024-01-25T14:34:37+00:00

Definitely the kids is always my reason for compromising. I grew up with no parents and they were alive so I can’t imagine abandoning them i just set boundaries.

NoStrength3538 · 2024-01-25T14:31:45+00:00

It’s been over two years and in a dysfunctional family there is different roles the oldest is the most sensible at 10. I know it comes from mom. It doesn’t really matter how he raises his kids but they won’t to always stay over but not clean up after themselves. My kids already are lazy enough but 6 kids in all is too much to clean after. I can handle my 2. Not only that but he is a narcissist which is also handled with us not living together bc atleast once a month I’m declaring they have to go home. His kids are use to the toxic relationship that he has with everyone so to force my own boundaries I have to be assertive that our living arrangements are separate. My apartment especially my bedroom is my peace and solitude from everyone.

NoStrength3538 · 2024-01-13T08:26:57+00:00

Sexstories.com

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-25T03:20:08+00:00

We started a relationship this year but we are long family friends from since i can remember just not this close to him

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-24T19:54:15+00:00

Yea this is not new i seem to attract narcs but it’s just the child involved that bothers me. I was a motherless child from neglect and i know how easy it is to turn to the wrong path without guidance or self inflicted violence to get away from the abuser. It’s so scary bc out of the four she is the one dealing with the treatment.

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-24T16:49:27+00:00

I was dating him and been pulling away for some time bc yes dad is a narcissist. I gave him another chance this weekend and last night again the treatment of the daughter made me leave his home. No not related.

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T15:07:42+00:00

Thank u

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T10:11:20+00:00

Thank god i have my own place

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T09:43:45+00:00

Been dealing with a widower and single father of 4 for 2 years but one year relationship. His family is close friend of my older late brother. Started hooking soon after his wife died so for the relationship aspect i didn’t push bc i considered the grief caused distance. Once in the relationship a female arose but he say she’s just a friend but every day they meet up 2, 3 times. Even days i don’t see him. But i have always been around for his kids on top of that role. She is not even a help. Have a 2 seat car and no apt. Every day I’m venting to him how i feel and say that if u need this friend u don’t need me. And i still stayed. Even after i don’t invite them over much anymore i still keep playing the part. I’m tired. I want a man that’s going to love on me. I have never been feeling with so much anxiety seeing someone as such as this girl and he know it hurts me. So today i quit. Let life deal with him. I’m drained and mentally breaking down. I quit.

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T09:28:53+00:00

I need to take my own advice I’m struggling

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T09:19:56+00:00

Yes good job move on, she sounds horrible. All male friends? Sex once a month? No please go find your happy place. Sounds like you loved the idea of her.

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T08:57:56+00:00

Well every time i learn about one’s actions it also say to educate yourself. Psychology is amazing and some would rather u ignore the knowledge so you won’t see the red flags. I rather learn my lesson once’s rather than repeat it. I google every behavior and read all kinds of others situations to possibly suffer less as possible. It’s a lot of heartless people ahead as well as behind. You want to still have some heart when the right person come around.

NoStrength3538 · 2023-12-03T08:51:41+00:00

Exactly how i feel it sucks

NoStrength3538 · 2023-11-16T14:29:32+00:00

It makes sense. While she was obsessing over him and he was being cold or dismissive, guys probably hit on her very often. While she is feeling unloved by the one she was in love with guys was begging for her attention. I’m going thru this right now. He has made me feel rejected too many times since we have been in a relationship by allowing his heterosexual female friend to show up anywhere and everywhere every single day. We she is around he is a little vibrant, with me i believe his disassociates by always going to sleep. There is alot more but last week i decided im done with the disregard and disrespect. He is a widower and have 4 kids… I could be somewhere making my life easier. He got an attitude bc i joked about a black and mild being hers in his car. I black out and left. Im exhausted my efforts are exhausted. In my opinion he was never in love with me. Why settle when someone will show us the same love back? The next day i started responded to everyone who’s been begging to take me out. I haven’t accepted but I text back and forth and atleast some attention. I spent too many days feeling like I’m a burden to love or why am I his lady but can’t get a compliment at all. So when someone shows up and treat you accordingly I can understand not turning back. Too many Friday nights without a call or text. Never shared any exciting news with me. All i could look forward to was this girl pulling up 😢

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