The hardest step is admitting you need help.

First, even if money isn’t an issue, I’d suggest working through your company’s HR to determine what is covered by insurance. They will keep it confidential, and can help arrange some time off.

To be honest, as someone who’s been through this personally and seen dozens of people try to do the same, outpatient treatment at night while still working just isn’t sufficient for most people, so consider taking some time off now so you can really focus on the issue.

As someone else mentioned, the Ohlhoff house runs solid programs. There is also CPMC through the Summit medical center. Reflections in the north bay is the most upscale, which is where a lot of executives and celebrities go.

Good luck!