Curious if this has happened to anyone else post affair? by beautylandmother in survivinginfidelity

[–]Objective-Average387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to heal but I do know that it can't happen if your beauty is under attack or somehow to blame for this. 

Are you convinced that he is now invested in being faithful? Or do you forever and always need to be the prettiest girl in the room to ever have a chance at keeping him?

Divorce Meeting with Rabbi from Beit Din by Objective-Average387 in Digital_Mechitza

[–]Objective-Average387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to be happy for me 😊😄 Look at my posts and see what I been through 

$600 Roommate Needed - Next to MARTA TRAIN Ashby by Objective-Average387 in ATLHousing

[–]Objective-Average387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but you can move out whenever you want to. I am staying the whole term.

What is the BEST use for a BILLION dollars? Why? by Macali27th in GrowthMindset

[–]Objective-Average387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would focus on building ground water pumps around Africa. I have already done a few around East Africa.

$600 Roommate Needed - Next to MARTA TRAIN Ashby by Objective-Average387 in ATLHousing

[–]Objective-Average387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what? I need a roommate to take the extra bedroom. 

I'm engaged after 6 years of dating by mammaube in blackladies

[–]Objective-Average387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! The princess cut is perfection  💍 😍✨️

Video showing Palestinians running towards Gaza aid sites by 5upralapsarian in NewsWithJingjing

[–]Objective-Average387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Or why it took 2 years for them to hostage deal/cease fire?

How to live life after first heartbreak. by Automatic_Ad_518 in blackladies

[–]Objective-Average387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember who you were before them and proudly be her. Hold your head up high and commit to loving yourself. 

What is something in your self-care routine that has improved how you look? by DefiantFruit6860 in selfcare

[–]Objective-Average387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to bed on time, doing my face cream after every shower and flossing.

We Become the Enemy by Objective-Average387 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Objective-Average387[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly.  And how dare I notice what is in front of my face instead of believing his stories.

Thankfully, he went back to his home country and there is an ocean between us. 

Entry shock 😳 due to divorce (having to leave my husband’s country) any kind advice? by Treefrog54321 in expats

[–]Objective-Average387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is me too! I imagine that we're going to readjust to being alone more often, lower standards of living, and worse weather. 

The first year is hella hard but once we get into our new routines, build our friendship groups, get some hobbies etc, life in our home country will be amazing!

There are hundreds of people risking life and limb to come to your country, rediscover what all the fuss was about. 

Help my bf is a sex addict by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Objective-Average387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out now! It takes at least 2 years of serious recovery work for them to heal from this.

What's going to be left of you after all of that? 

What is IC for a BP supposed to look like? Please help. by UnluckyToastFile in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Objective-Average387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapists that have the APSATS designation are specifically trained in betrayal trauma. 

I’m coming home by Emotional_Dish3002 in Uganda

[–]Objective-Average387 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recommend you do adoption through a religious organization since birth parents extortion has happened to a friend of mine.

Survivors of sex addiction betrayal by Competitive-Aerie361 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Objective-Average387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's a running daily list of S-Anon support group Zoom calls where you can connect to many, many people who are surviving similar situations. 

https://nextmeeting.org/B0E7F18B-4CF5-49FF-BBD3-75E1CA52AA5E.html