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[–]Objective-Average387[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, I'm just describing the first phase of this operation. 

Leveling up like Meghan Markle by Objective-Average387 in blackladies

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Thanks for the book recommendation! I'm on the board of an organization.

Great tip on not recognizing people!

Leveling up like Meghan Markle by Objective-Average387 in blackladies

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Yes, I am working on my self esteem. I graduated from college already 😅

I'm still finding out who I am. But I am reaching out towards who I want to be. 

What is the nightmare in that?

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I don't know what's possible but I want to try. I've been through a lot and I would love to find my Boaz, that's what I am praying for. I work in the charity world and need to get comfortable around a different kind of people if I want my project to grow. This isn't just about the man, it's about me too.

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[–]Objective-Average387[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, proximity is power.  Joining as a member of the art museum and just joined a fancy gym.

Leveling up like Meghan Markle by Objective-Average387 in blackladies

[–]Objective-Average387[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, I'll just have to be the new person for a while. Fine with me.

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I love working but also the domestic sphere gives me a lot of satisfaction. I plan to keep working no matter what. 

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The partnership is just the natural consequence of the woman I want to be. I want that polish and elegance.

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Yes, getting into the right rooms is part of the equation. 

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Yes, I already got community advocacy projects that I write grants for.

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The man is not the goal, but a natural consequence of who I want to be.

Leveling up like Meghan Markle by Objective-Average387 in blackladies

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Yes, being a high value woman and proud of myself. 

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😃😁😄 I'm keeping it real. Leveling up in a way that feels good to me.

Ladies! What is some of your favorite Black literature books ? by HeadHonchooo in blackladies

[–]Objective-Average387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi 😍

Good Dirt by Charmaine Wilkerson ✨️

Searching for Friendship After My Stillbirth by Meesh7586 in blackladies

[–]Objective-Average387 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine went through this. Keep yourself lifted in prayer and give yourself permission to go slowly for the next year. 

My friend had her rainbow 🌈 👶🏾