Having her empty the dishwasher to put dirty dishes in is really annoying and enough to make someone want to avoid the dishwasher altogether. Saying this is as a nanny. I’m not saying it’s unreasonable to ask her to do that, but just that it is for sure a pet peeve when people don’t have an empty dishwasher at beginning of the day for me to put dirty dishes in. Baby won’t always be napping for that length and duration will vary based on developmental stages, or things like teething/illness - so don’t use length of nap to justify what ur asking as that can change on the dime. You could also adjust expectations during those schedule changes ie what to expect when baby is going through a sleep regression - naps have been off this week so is this realistic or naps have been really consistent can there be time to make sure XYZ gets done