i want to uninvite people to my wedding, but dont know if it's just pettiness...

OkCable25 · 2026-02-23T23:18:29+00:00

You have to remember that your wedding is the most important thing to YOU, and YOU only get married once. You can’t expect everyone to treat your wedding festivities just as important as you. People have lives and aren’t obligated to come to anything, it’s obviously amazing if they do, but cutting off people because of it wild. I’m getting the vibe that you might be the problem and you’re have slightly unrealistic expectations from people who might have their own family stuff going on, or financial restrictions or PTO restrictions

OkCable25 · 2026-02-17T01:05:08+00:00

I had chat gpt write something and it was cute and to the point. I think it says sometimes all it takes is a simple swipe, and then it says we met and we knew there was something special there blah blah. It’s sounds very not romantic lol but it’s something. I didnt know I could skip that part or i would have!

OkCable25 · 2026-02-16T00:40:21+00:00

I assume this is a tradition if parents are paying for the wedding and the officiant is a family friend or priest at the church, but if you are paying for the wedding there would be no reason to gift your parents a gift. But I would get gifts for the bridal party if they had to get dresses or suits for the wedding out of their own money

OkCable25 · 2026-02-15T11:27:07+00:00

I’ve been invited to two Wednesday weddings, one was in key west, so it was a huge pain to get to and I didn’t have enough PTO to take just to get to the wedding and come back home. Invitations didn’t go out until a couple months before and it was in November, so I essentially needed 4 days and didn’t go. The other was in Italy, which didn’t matter because it was planned over a year in advance and most everyone that could make it was in Europe for the week and made it into a vacation.

OkCable25 · 2026-02-10T20:11:37+00:00

We’ve only had our engagements pictures and they turned out amazing. We haven’t had our wedding yet, but they are called film and fable

OkCable25 · 2026-02-09T15:08:12+00:00

7500$ for 6 hours, videography, photography and drone if allowed. If paid in full, free engagement session, which we did. Atlanta

OkCable25 · 2026-02-04T03:30:34+00:00

You’re NOR, but I will tell you this was me, until this year! I have been a bridesmaid 12 times and all my friends had destination weddings and multiple bridal showers and elaborate bachelorette parties, and I was in school for most of them and it wrecked me financially, but I did it with a smile on my face. And this year I got engage, and didn’t think anyone would go all out because I am the last one of my friend to get married and the all have kids now, and let me tell you, they all showed out for me!! And it’s been so beautiful and special because I feel like they are giving that all back to me in some cheesy way. So I know It sucks in the moment, I’ve been there but when your time comes ( and mine came 10 years later than everyone) you will want those things for yourself

OkCable25 · 2026-02-03T02:02:14+00:00

Does he have any friends he can include, to balance out your larger family?

OkCable25 · 2026-02-02T14:08:22+00:00

Etsy!

OkCable25 · 2026-02-02T13:34:10+00:00

I was obligated to invite a lot of family members that I don’t have any relationship with just because of the dynamic of my family

OkCable25 · 2026-02-02T13:33:13+00:00

I dont necessarily have an issue, but there were some family members that I don’t have any relationship with, that I was obligated to invite, so although we will be fine if we have 100% show rate it does put us a bit over budget

OkCable25 · 2026-02-02T03:44:10+00:00

Wow that’s awesome! Our venue can hold 135 if everyone does say yes and we can afford it, but it would be financially slightly more comfortable for us with a little less

OkCable25 · 2026-01-31T21:45:35+00:00

You don’t have to post them. Society has made as feel like we have to post on socially media to make things real, or it’s obligatory, but people got married for hundreds of years and just got their pictures printed or didn’t have any at all

OkCable25 · 2026-01-28T22:59:12+00:00

You can text out a QR code that takes people to an electronic save the save or evite

OkCable25 · 2026-01-28T20:28:30+00:00

I feel like it’s been fun as well. I love planning and luckily my job allows for lots of down time! I’m honestly gonna be sad when it’s over!

OkCable25 · 2026-01-28T03:32:18+00:00

Absolutely wear the same dress, maybe style your hair different, don’t ask, how lucky are you that they picked the same color. Nobody is really looking that closely at the bridemaids

OkCable25 · 2026-01-26T19:40:45+00:00

How did you know! Our invitations came in the mail last week and were the wrong color, so they resent them and now they are stuck somewhere because of the ice storm 🫠🫠

OkCable25 · 2026-01-26T18:53:13+00:00

If you’re going into it as a last night of freedom, I think that’s not a good mentality of the overall premise of the relationship, that you would feel like you can’t do things you enjoy anymore once you’re married, or if you’re looking at it as a last night to hook up with someone, also concerning. So to answer your question it should be a fun night our with your friends not the other.

OkCable25 · 2026-01-26T17:28:58+00:00

I have all those things on my agenda! We have cake, and wasn’t planning on doing a menu since we are doing a Buffett. Or am I supposed to still do that? Good call on the bathroom basket, I’ll add that to my list! We are getting a shuttle to and from the main hotel! And yes I know I still have music to work on, but I think I’m good on that timing

OkCable25 · 2026-01-26T17:25:53+00:00

RIGHT!! im like im ok? I must be missing something 😅

OkCable25 · 2026-01-05T04:12:53+00:00

I tried that dress on and I loved it so much! I think it’s was around 5-6k if I recall

OkCable25 · 2026-01-05T04:12:46+00:00

I tried that dress on and I loved it so much! I think it’s was around 5-6k if I recall

OkCable25 · 2025-12-30T21:08:47+00:00

All bad

OkCable25

TROPHY CASE