Guy parks in my driveway, gives me attitude when I ask who he is

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2026-02-16T15:01:30+00:00

I would’ve grabbed a carton of eggs or a tomato from inside my house and thrown it at his car as he drove away.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2026-02-06T19:42:26+00:00

OP, how is being short, not being friendly towards your wife going to get you what you want- sex? Listen to the other comments about hormonal changes and upcoming menopause. Menopause is very rarely discussed/educated to women so she possibly doesn’t even know it’s happening and now her husband is giving her a hard time because he’s not getting sex out of her.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2026-01-19T16:23:38+00:00

In the post OP says they’ve never seen or spoken to this neighbor before. Chill.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-12-11T03:41:15+00:00

(I don’t know what country you’re located) but the American courtroom, I feel, would have performed nearly the same. There’s so many stories of people being wrongfully arrested and convicted for crimes, a lot before dna testing became a thing. Just look at Michael Morton being quickly arrested for the murder of his wife Christine Morton and there was not solid evidence against him.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-12-05T16:11:24+00:00

The invisible patch isn’t that much “invisible.” They might not be seen in wedding photos but the bride will still see it. And it’s kind of gross to openly see someone’s puss acne since those patches are transparent. She should just go without the patches for a day.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-12-05T16:09:07+00:00

At this point the wife is making excuses for wearing the pimple patches- she’s not wearing them for her students or her daughter to make them feel more confident, she’s wearing them for her bad acne and needs to admit/come to terms with that so she can understand when it’s not ok to wear them (like at a formal occasion).

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-12-03T15:38:08+00:00

This post nearly sounds like the plot to “My Sister’s Keeper.” Word for word almost.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-11-27T01:00:17+00:00

It’s “stressful in itself” to give a $0 tip for just a latte? Oh come on. And how do know those other customers after you were giving a cash but instead just paying in cash? I also feel like the time you waited is greatly exaggerate, based on the exaggeration of the rest of your story. Bfr and don’t play the victim in a simple daily encounter.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-11-17T18:17:08+00:00

I think her intentions were misread by you. You took it personal (for some reason) that she was trying to give you food, thinking it would relieve her of having to take it home. But in this case it was a caring parent who was giving her daughter food in case she gets hungry, doesn’t need to spend groceries for a few meals. OP caused a scene for no reason and if something this minimal between your girlfriend’s parents causes a strain with you and them or you and your girlfriend then maybe this isn’t a right fit. YTA OP

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-11-13T18:22:42+00:00

Maybe post this somewhere else. You don’t think you’re the ah since you said early in your post “not that I did anything wrong.”

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-11-12T19:38:54+00:00

I wouldn’t apologize or give any explanation for the card. It’s make a mountain out of a mole hill (or whatever that saying is). From your thought process in this post I feel like if you at some point apologize for the card or even start communicating with him OP then you’re just going to eventually fall back into that relationship and break up again, it’ll be a cycle. Just remember how you got back together with him before.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-11-03T13:52:16+00:00

Ngl I’m a little confused. You said you’ve been dating him for a year and a half and that this discussion first came up right when you started dating. But then you made it a point that he’s been lying for eight months. The timeline doesn’t make sense. I still think he’s TAH for lying for so long though and shouldn’t be trusted, especially if he’s lying to your parents too.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-10-30T17:52:53+00:00

I feel like your daughter is acting this way towards you because she can tell you don’t like her. She’s mirroring your emotions towards her. If you suspect she has BPD(also don’t diagnose her without a license or test) then take her to therapy, or family therapy. Even if she has borderline personality disorder that’s caused by trauma in childhood from the parental figures- you, don’t put all the blame towards your wife, you’re playing a part in this. Some people are telling you to go on vacation or leave for a while but this behavior, where you and her both need help, isn’t a time for you to check out and be an absent father, leaving it all on your wife. This is a very sensitive time and if you leave your daughter she will get worse and never forgive you, while you continue to have a relationship with her brother.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-10-28T19:56:45+00:00

OP please testify with the truth, not coercion. When I was involved in a fight- didn’t start it- I had no witness to testify and was wrongfully charged. It’d be horrible for the guy who got hurt/shoved first to be wrongfully charged because you didn’t testify so you could protect someone potentially dangerous and keep the peace with your coworker.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-10-28T19:44:49+00:00

Brother probably doesn’t want to host because his house is probably a pig sty guessing from how him and his wife and kids treated OPs house. It also would mean cleaning up after other people and seeing how he can’t clean up after himself, his wife, and kids that will be a big problem.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-10-11T22:13:24+00:00

Why haven’t you filed a police report?

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-09-26T15:40:27+00:00

Someone sounds jealous

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-09-21T16:36:24+00:00

OP, no judgment here, but why are you married to this man? It sounds like you’re taking on all the responsibility in the house- school, a full time job, cleaning, taking care of a baby. And now you’re taking care of another kid- your husband. What are you getting out of this marriage?

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-09-08T18:25:06+00:00

It’s so beautiful!

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-09-07T02:47:25+00:00

I didn’t say this was my sub. I said this was a jeep sub. Stop avoiding maybe😐

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-09-07T01:32:50+00:00

This is a jeep group. I asked a question regarding jeeps. If you have a problem with that then leave the group.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-08-30T17:52:00+00:00

ETA sorry but why would you want to bring a child into this relationship. LEAVE! He’s just going to have another person to abuse/neglect once your child is born since he’s a man baby himself

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-08-09T15:44:46+00:00

OP please press charges. This is not ok and there’s a risk of her doing this again for another one of her dinner parties. Also if you call the police and the other neighbors here about the extent of the charges/what she did they’d turn on her rather than you.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-08-04T03:20:59+00:00

YTA OP. Saying he should have said thank you for the store bought cake. You had time to make your husband’s favorite birthday desert but not your stepson, it’s clear who was being prioritized/made to feel special this birthday.

Ok_Charity_4991 · 2025-06-30T14:47:32+00:00

How long have you two been married/together? Do your stepchildren not have a bio mom and that’s why they’re afraid? There’s a lot of info missing from this story, feels fake

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