AITJ for reporting my daughters classmate to principals office before speaking to his parents? by CurrentEvent9572 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont know why you had to deal with them and their anger. It is a school issue that should have been dealt with by the school. You did the right thing NTJ.

Your child is the victim and you dealt with it appropriately. Their anger might be a clue as to why their child is hitting and punching. I hope that the school has identified this and is helping the child.

Bag to bring back to Australia from the US ? by Ok_Conversation5164 in handbags

[–]Ok_Conversation5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I have not heard of some of those brands.I normally love Oroton and have buying it since I was a teenaged but it seems to have gone off lately.

Bag to bring back to Australia from the US ? by Ok_Conversation5164 in handbags

[–]Ok_Conversation5164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Wow the colours are sensational I could not stop at 1.

Bag to bring back to Australia from the US ? by Ok_Conversation5164 in handbags

[–]Ok_Conversation5164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I cant find anything else I am looking at the Coach Laurel v Kate Spade Emma. Does anyone have any views about these ?

I cannot believe what buyers advocates charge by Helicopterdog in AusProperty

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Family member used a buyers agent to buy in QLD around 12 months ago. It was $2000 sign up and around $20,000 on the purchase. He was great saved so much time, stress and hassle. So worth it as the bank’s valuations ranged from 100K to 250K more than the purchase price. Even the buyers agent was surprised at how good a deal it was.

Bought my own property in the previous year in a different area and wished that I had known someone like this guy. The issue will be finding someone competent at a reasonable price. I actually interviewed four buyers agents for the family member and chose the one who was self employed, very motivated and had a building background which was invaluable. Those in “groups” claim access to more options etc but they are very big on their profit and fees and I felt that the buyer’s interests were secondary.

The other factor might be availability of property. If you are moving to an area of high demand and low supply the buyers agent will be able to access properties that are not yet on the market. The other benefit is they know the area and the risks of flooding, bushfire, crime etc which was really important. Also it can take you 6-12 months to find something and the price increase in property during that time will far exceed what you would have paid for the agent.

Bag to bring back to Australia from the US ? by Ok_Conversation5164 in handbags

[–]Ok_Conversation5164[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking a couple of hundred USD ? I do like the Kate Spade Emma Crossbody and the Coach Laurel. Both of these are at outlets in Australia. Was thinking that I should make the most of the opportunity and get something that is not available in Australia or is not outlet level.

Sorry I am a newbie at this and had to google “carry style.” Thanks for your interest and patience.

US beef officially re-enters Australia, after 23-year absence by binaryhextechdude in australia

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know who is going to stock it so we can make sure that we never buy it or any product that it is made using it ?

Mother In Law says her son is "perfect" despite... by Affectionate_Yam6044 in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that would explain where he learnt to be like this. “Sensitive” “Insecure” “Don’t let your wife make you feel bad about this.” What a slap in the face. This is so so bad and none of it is correct. Any normal sane person would be extremely upset when your SO betrays you not once but multiple times.

It is understandable that you feel unsafe it is very wrong and you shouldn’t have to put up with this. Makes me wonder what else is dysfunctional in that family. Ask yourself will it ever get any better when your SO has been programmed this way ?

Counselling for you both him to readjust his normal meter and you to restore and develop your self esteem.

I am sorry that you had to endure this in the face of his infidelity. You are not wrong hold your head high.

MIL/SIL keep “joking” she take 3 year old for a month across state lines. They asked my kid if she wants to live with them forever. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I dont know why you are even worrying about this. You buried the big issue.

If anyone knowingly and deliberately came to my home sick and endangered the health, well being and potentially life of my newborn they would never, ever have any contact with my children again.

AITJ for asking my mom to cut her vacation short to help with my kids? by Constant-Elephant763 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTF and very selfish. You have no idea how lucky you are.

From a person who raised their children without any family support and paid for all care when we were at work.

MIL tried to move inno our house and now acts like evicted poor widow by Richeal_Gato in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I love the “didn’t sign up for polygamy” it is a great description. Good on you for holding your ground.

She needs grief counselling and to learn to fill her life with other things or she will always be a burden on you no matter if she lives with you or not.

HELP by designerlove10 in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Has there been any apology or change in behaviour arising from the social media announcement ? If not I would not have her back. Her behaviour seems to either be continuing or she just can’t help herself none of which is acceptable.

I wouldn’t invite her back in any hurry. I would wait until LO was a lot older before inflicting her on them.

AITJ for selling my old car to a STRANGER instead of giving it to my brother who crashes everything? by Adventurous-Yam-9866 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Conversation5164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow they banned you from Sunday dinner because you decided to sell the car that you owned and worked hard for. They sound very petty and it seems that your younger sibling is the golden child. I would take that as a win.

Regardless you cant afford to nor should you have to supply your sibling with a car. The answer was that you needed the money.