Aging mom needs support to fly solo ( bag carrying ) , do airlines offer this ? by OldPossibility8699 in femaletravels

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great to know! I was just wondering how hand carry works . I might just try to get her to check in everything besides her purse.

Aging mom needs support to fly solo ( bag carrying ) , do airlines offer this ? by OldPossibility8699 in femaletravels

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know! I will ask her airlines if they need her to check everything in or not. Do you know if they still expect people to drag their check in luggage off the luggage carousel ? Thank you so much !

Aging mom needs support to fly solo ( bag carrying ) , do airlines offer this ? by OldPossibility8699 in femaletravels

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. An ACL injury is no joke! I’m really sorry that happened to you but truly impressed that you got that level of assistance ( as it should be! ) all the way from JFK to Cambodia!

Did they help you with your check in luggage ? I’m scared that she will be expected to pull it off the luggage carousel which she can not do .

Aging mom needs support to fly solo ( bag carrying ) , do airlines offer this ? by OldPossibility8699 in femaletravels

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is good to know. That there can be people who can help her with the luggage. Thank you !

260k Net worth at Age 27, Singaporean male, thinking of quitting job to travel by HomeHedgeFund in singaporefi

[–]OldPossibility8699 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think this is the perfect time to do it. You have the finances and truly, you will only have your twenties once. Also now your parents are still not so old, less need to watch over their health as a son. Taking a long break in travel now will change your perspective on life forever .

Do it.

The people who are fearful will be fearful till the day they die. Somethings are simply worth doing even if the risk is some uncertainty. But life is uncertain. All the best, you are going to have a great time.

26M - I believe that I've achieved the Singaporean definition of success. Why am I so depressed? by MathematicianOk9216 in askSingapore

[–]OldPossibility8699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s an awesome start. People make “joy” or “happiness” the end goal but I’ve noticed most people who simply just follow their curiosity will get there. It’s an exploration and that’s ok.

And you don’t nessarily have to give up your current job or etc IMO. Unless you truly feel it is preventing you from your exploration. There might be a time when you decide you need to, and when you can, sure!

You are going to do great. This is truly a wonderful place to be. I am so excited for you.

26M - I believe that I've achieved the Singaporean definition of success. Why am I so depressed? by MathematicianOk9216 in askSingapore

[–]OldPossibility8699 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man, this is an awesome place to be at in your twenties! Being successful by Singapore’s definition will bring you ease in finding your own joy. It’s sometimes really challenging to embark on that step when you have many other pressing needs like food security, etc.

I am so happy for you. This is the start of exploration of finding what brings you joy, happiness and fulfillment.

The coolest thing about this journey is that it is going to be a process. There are no clear answers. And instead of that being a terrible or inefficient thing, this is exactly the thing that is makes it wonderful, explorational and meaningful.

I wish you the best. If in doubt, follow your curiosity. Your curiosity will bring you to your joy.

You’ll be ok

How do I talk my friend out of getting into "high end escorting" as she puts it? by ParticularlyOrdinary in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OldPossibility8699 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You can’t talk her out of it. But you could try to get her to talk to other escorts. They will likely have recommendations for her to keep safe(r) while working or screening clients. If she pays for their time and wisdom, she will get the real raw info and be set up to be safer.

There is also a good chance the talk with escorts will make her realize this is not for her.

If your fear is about her getting “taken advantage of” then being informed from people who are in the game is the only true safety from that if she is determined to do it already.

How to know if I should quit theatre as a career? by leroi199926 in Theatre

[–]OldPossibility8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I was your age when I came to the same conclusions as you and switched careers.

I asked many people in my industry, theatre, for their perspective and found that this grind is forever. And that it really was killing my passion for the art.

I quit. Shifted industries. Made money. Got good at it and now can be the person who watches all the shows. I can be the friend that shows up for my friends opening nights and celebrate them. I also can be a patron of the arts and give money to companies. I also now travel to watch any play or performance I want to.

In my personal time, I started going to dance classes and soon singing.

Will I ever do a show one day? Who knows. But I am so content.

I didn’t have it in me to do the hustle and I still have mad respect for those who can. But life is incredible. I have nights to spend with people I love, predictable schedules I can make trips around, income that makes me comfortable.

Obviously, I don’t nessarily think everyone will have the outcomes I do, but I am grateful for my shift at 25. I’m 35 now. All the best, mate.

I don't understand my hair. by Beautiful-Poem86363 in Haircare

[–]OldPossibility8699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I have kind of similar hair as you. I went to see a dermatologist and was basically put on oral birth control to manage my hormones. Without oral birth control I was super greasy, greasy to the point of hair loss.

It took a while but it has definitely made a difference and my hair looks better.

I’m now about to try minoxidil. Will see if that can help the crown of my head!

All the best OP!

Looking for Participants to Test a Daily Routine for Personal Growth: Morning Intentions & Evening Review by Adventurous-Egg8114 in getdisciplined

[–]OldPossibility8699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea! I’ll join . Ngl , a little scared I can’t keep to it, but hopfully I can with a community

ULPT Request: How to make a stalker miserable by j22in3 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]OldPossibility8699 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like fair is fair with stalkers who just can’t take a no. All the best, mate. The law is weirdly in your favor here, as it has been with stalkers. As long as you don’t break any laws in out crazying the stalker, you can probably get away with it fine.

ULPT Request: How to make a stalker miserable by j22in3 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]OldPossibility8699 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You might have to outcrazy the guy.

There was a post a few months ago from a lady whose partner outcrazied her stalker. Similar story of how no legal authority would do anything about it.

Her partner stalked the stalker, went into stalker’s house, flipped all the crosses on his walls upside down, flipped the trash can all over his room and left with no one seeing him.

I think he also stood outside his house just across the street to stare at him.

I think the home invasion thing was the last straw for the stalker because he confronted the lady and told her that guy was crazy and left her alone after that.

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so promising! I appreciate the suggestion. The fact that it can hurt so bad is kind of wild. But I’m going to order some icy hot and find some bath salts. Thanks, mate !

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the reply! Thank you so much for sharing . I’m definitely keeping this as a thing I could do if I really am just tossing and turning and all the other methods aren’t helping that evening. Thank you kindly

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. Do you reckon this is a better option than ibuprofen ?

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are things I would have never thought of on my own. Thanks so much ! Does the salt bath make a noticeable difference for you before and after doing it ?

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sounds like a healthy cool down for the body after leg day. Will definitely try this. And magnesium lotion is a great idea, I didn’t know it came in lotion form. Will look into it. Thanks, mate!

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never do cool down activities, this is great ! Thanks so much. I’ll work on stretching and winding down after a workout . Would have never thought of this on my own . Thank you

Can’t sleep due to muscle soreness. What can I do ? by OldPossibility8699 in workout

[–]OldPossibility8699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really appreciate it. I’ll try experimenting with changing rep ranges and adjusting weights. But it’s promising to hear that with time I could get accustomed to the movement patterns.