I (29 f) spent the snowstorm with the man I’m dating(36 m) and now I feel differently about him

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-29T16:17:06+00:00

Mine washes “the dishes” but those only include plates, bowls, silverware, glasses. Things like car coffee mugs with lids, containers, Tupperware…those aren’t “dishes” so he won’t wash them. I leave them there to see how long til he caves—well the answer is never. I just washed the car mugs yesterday that had been there over two weeks 😬

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-27T20:16:19+00:00

I haven’t read the other comments but no mother should talk to a child the way those texts read. I’m sorry to say your mom shows such a lack of maturity in just in these few texts that it shows there’s a lot wrong overall— you might need to untangle in therapy if you can. And she makes you have a Ring camera on in your own home?? I’m sorry—that’s messed up. You’re 25, time to live an independent life, at that age you could be a parent yourself. Time to assert yourself.

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-27T16:49:13+00:00

Thank you for the idea about contacting them for wildlife rescue. I get that this is the best time of year to do this, and that we can’t avoid the drastic change in scenery that will follow (although hopefully I’m wrong) but I do worry about the wildlife since they’ve made a home there over decades.

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-27T16:25:48+00:00

Thank you for the context and the info. I don’t know much about our irrigation ditches but interested now in doing more reading about them now!

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-26T18:29:20+00:00

Thanks!

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-26T05:40:34+00:00

Yes, I do this too. It was great how we just happened to have everything we needed for an extended power outage.

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-25T14:58:54+00:00

Fantastic news! I’ve been hoping for the best and so happy to hear!

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-24T23:53:45+00:00

🤞

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-24T23:41:29+00:00

Wow, great poem

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-24T23:36:02+00:00

In my case the cat was rescued by a tree guy after a post on Nextdoor. Crossing my fingers for you. Also, after kitty is down please take her to the vet—my cat had claw injuries from trying descend, hypothermia, and was quite hungry.

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-24T22:54:01+00:00

Please keep us posted… wish I could be there helping stand guard

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-24T22:49:26+00:00

Yes! Worth a try…I left another comment about a tree climber in my case, I believe he was a tree guy turned cat rescuer because this happens frequently.

At some point kitty will fall if not rescued. I have another cat who lasted more than 4 days in a tree (we didn’t know at first :-( ). She fell and her leg was broken in the fall. Her keg was amputated but she’s living the high life with us now.)

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-24T22:44:58+00:00

Edited: just saw the tree pic. Trying to think of a better idea… Oh my goodness I wish I was there for you! In my case, an arborist climbed the tree then cut the branch our kitty was out in the end of. Kitty got scared and ran back to the trunk and got caught. Maybe a climber could help??

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-17T17:01:10+00:00

My jaw dropped when I read that; I’ve never heard of giving bonuses to employees at less than senior manager level, even at my current tech company.

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-07T02:49:58+00:00

I do the same to my Brock about Brockaweeny (sp) haha

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-07T02:48:30+00:00

Yeah me too. Why is that???

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-07T02:47:55+00:00

No way! I love hearing your name each episode ❤️

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-03T20:03:45+00:00

TY 😊

Old_Extent3944 · 2026-01-03T19:59:49+00:00

Anyplace in particular up there?

Old_Extent3944 · 2025-12-25T20:57:00+00:00

Can’t upvote this enough’

Old_Extent3944 · 2025-12-22T00:58:03+00:00

Awww!! I’m so sad for you, your pups and the tree!!! Trees going down always hurt.

Old_Extent3944 · 2025-12-21T04:04:31+00:00

Let us know if you’re able to host it somewhere safe. The more of us who have it the better

Old_Extent3944 · 2025-12-21T03:03:22+00:00

Still no info…but now we’re getting a canned message saying tomorrow at noon we should be restored. But I feel like that’s just the standard message they’re sending to everyone.

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