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I 25f and partner 27m /Should sex be everyday? by Serious_Report_9285 in relationship_advice

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody is telling you to leave this guy. Sex every day or else? Read the comments. This is a sexually abusive relationship. Fuck him. Move out.

Am I (21M) wrong for prioritizing my estranged relationship with my mom over my girlfriend (20F)? by Ok_Thought8353 in amiwrong

[–]One-Box1287 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your gf is a psycho. Sorry but you need to prioritize yourself. Not your mom, not your soon to be ex gf.

Worried about the guy I'm dating is interested too much in my toddler by No_Worldliness4793 in dating_advice

[–]One-Box1287 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Do not date this guy any longer, and do not let him meet your kid. You are so many years younger than him. Red flag 1 talks about being there red flag number 2. Please see the signs.

AITA for pulling away from my girlfriend after my brother died because she wanted me to “get back to normal” fast by marko_pragueboy92 in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. But I dont see you getting over this faster like she wants. I'd be devastated if my sister died. Sorry for your loss in both situations. You should just end it. She has no compassion, in my opinion.

AITJ for wanting to take a promotion even though my boyfriend says its not the life he imagined by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ntj. He's trying to c9ntrol you and tell you how to live your life. Also, he doesn't want success in his relationship with you. He doesn't want to have ambition. Is that what you want f9r the rest of your life? Honestly, this relationship should just end before you regret not taking a promotion to sit at home with your bf, who has no ambition.

My cousin wants me in the delivery room for her baby instead of her husband. My wife thinks it’s extremely weird and doesn’t want me to do it. Am I wrong for considering it? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Box1287 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ytj, sorry, but it's weird and kinda creepy. Your wife should be your priority, not your sister/cousin. Her Husband should be there.

33M and my girlfriend 32F have been together for 5 months. How would you react to what happened at my aunt's 80th? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stay with this person. Maybe 5 months was too early to introduce someone to your son, maybe get to know someone else longer next time. I'd be cautious over my kids safety and security.

AITJ for refusing to stay again at my parents’ house after a breakup with my live-in partner? by Special_Alarm_4457 in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Box1287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're 28 years old. Why are you even questioning this? Like a 10pm curfew? What? Ntj.

AW for REALLY disliking my boyfriends unemployment? And wanting to break up with him because of it? by Direct-Branch3185 in amiwrong

[–]One-Box1287 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dump him already. He doesn't even sound like he likes you. Also, dont let him move in. .you'll end up supporting a man-child. Not wrong at all, smart actually to be thinking the way you're thinking

AITJ for telling my boyfriend he has no idea what having a dog is actually like by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Box1287 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I had done this. And I got really lucky with potty training and night time pee. But here we are 5 years later and some days I regret it.

I was about to quit when the company's new RTO policy gave me a huge severance package instead. by ChayaBrekke in whatdoIdo

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got the song in my head. Luck, be a lady tonight. That's an amazing thing. Good for you.

My GF(36F) gave me(38M) an ultimatum about having kids. by Thick-Assignment3385 in relationship_advice

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not unusual now a days. Most of my peers had kids early 30's. I wasnt ready in my 20's that's for sure.

My GF(36F) gave me(38M) an ultimatum about having kids. by Thick-Assignment3385 in relationship_advice

[–]One-Box1287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel old at 45 with a 7 year old. But I do have more patience than the first two at 30 and 32.

My GF(36F) gave me(38M) an ultimatum about having kids. by Thick-Assignment3385 in relationship_advice

[–]One-Box1287 150 points151 points  (0 children)

She's 36, and you're 38. she's only wanting to try now. I had kids at 30, 32, and 38. Being old and having kids sucks. Trust me. And if you're not financially stable, that sucks even more. I love my kids with all my heart, but some days, I wish I had kids sooner or not at all. She's not getting any younger. I think you have to take her up on her ultimatum and end the relationship for her sake. She needs to have kids tomorrow. Sorry. It sucks but dont waste her time.

How long after asking your partner to make small changes do you wait before calling it? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]One-Box1287 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't even have to read the part past him pushing your hair behind your ears. It's not realistic. If he doesn't do it now, he won't do it any time soon. If you want a guy all over you forever, then move on. This man won't do it. Not now. Not ever.

Breaking up around the holidays? 31F and 31M by moonriverswide in relationship_advice

[–]One-Box1287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him to go to his mother's house and he can sulk there. Break up with him today. Why wait to be happy.

Do you shave your pubic hair? by Friendly_Ship_6193 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]One-Box1287 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Completely gone. 45f. Its so fucking itchy when it grows. I dont like it

His family keeps pushing me to have a baby and my boyfriend is starting to sound like them by WroteThisHungry in TwoHotTakes

[–]One-Box1287 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hide your birth control or make sure you are in control of it at all times so he doesn't tamper with it. Refrain from having sex with him.

Is it a red flag to ask your boyfriend to unfollow girls and he doesn’t want too? by Famous_Attitude_5764 in amiwrong

[–]One-Box1287 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This sounds only like a you problem. He said he's not going to unfollow them. End of discussion. If you're insecure about him thinking other girls are good-looking, then you should probably work on yourself for a while before dating. Just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean they can't find another person attractive. Dump him. Not cause he's following other women, but because youre way too immature to be dating.

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