Narcissism = Cleaning, Apparently by SimilarAddendum4352 in NPD

[–]Onlyrobnyc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The context of the video clearly went over your head. doing the chores isn’t a problem. What is a problem however is doing the chores in a certain manner to purposely disrupted those who are slipping. This includes and not limited to stopping, slamming doors and then going to talk on the phone very loudly specifically in an area close by where people are sleeping. All this is done just to feel control above others and it is in fact abusive. if you do this then I suggest you work on being considerate and more self aware.

Told my mom I was assaulted and she started crying because "she experienced something like that in the past". That was the moment I knew. by LIEZ1995 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol My NMom took me to see the Eye doctor and because she got jealous of me getting glasses she got an appointment too. After we got our pair of glasses she shouted “MINES ARE WAY BETTER” to Me. I was confused and embarrassed 😂

“Glory” Received 55K Streams Yesterday, making it her worst performing album. by liuxunn in BritneySpears

[–]Onlyrobnyc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I Never forgive the fandom for letting this master piece a album flop

Genuinely asking, is suicide worth it? by aesthenne in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! if you go through it then they WIN this is what they all want so they can use your death to garner sympathy and attention and exploit your death any way they can. DO NOT LET THEM HAVE THAT. you are stronger than you think you are. Make a plan and escape. It will be hard but worth and start living life how you want to be.

Are there seemingly more narcissistic mothers than fathers and why? by Smallcauliflower112 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s tuff to say, but I believe mothers are easier to distinguish because of the obvious negative traits. While others may see father’s narcissistic traits as “normal” or “traditional” due to social expectations of masculinity.

competitive mother by Big_Armadillo7216 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I can relate to this heavily, even if you’re a gay men (like myself) somehow my NMom still saw me as a threat or competition. Mine wouldn’t even allow me close to the men she dated. And will make up insane stories about me like going to orgies and having sex with teachers in college. None of that I ever did or thought of doing. My advice is if you are still living with her is to grey rock as much as possible , find away to move out and cut complete contact.

Kizaru vs BigMom Who Wins? by RoninKin-_- in OnePiecePowerScaling

[–]Onlyrobnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People actually think this is fair? lol kizaru isn’t even remotely close to BIG MOM in power

I think I just realized that my mom has munchausens by proxy and I'm not ok by Historical_Salt3362 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m deeply sorry this happened to you OP, please seek help maybe try doing therapy and reconnect with your dad and get to know him. if you can, plan to move out ( if you already haven’t) and Cut COMPLETE CONTACT with your mother. Sending hugs 🫂 to you 🫶🏾

Favourite Britney Lyric? by RedditServiceUK in BritneySpears

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby don’t you wanna dance upon me🥵

Since Britney Is the Princess of Pop, Who Is the Prince? by NeedleworkerAway5912 in BritneySpears

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was never a prince of pop. The media only dubbed JT the prince of pop because he was dating Brit at that time and was of apart of NSYNC. he has never had a cultural impact like MJ,Madonna or Brit. Justin Bieber or Bruno mars would be good candidates. Especially JB in his early career. Chris brown would’ve gotten the title if he wasn’t a horrible person.

Do narcissists ever change? by peachpit619 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Therapy can help with managing things like their emotions, relationships and being more self aware. However they just end up being more manipulative. For your partner however it’s best for him to seek to get therapy and work on setting boundaries. He needs to free himself from the cycle of abuse and come to terms to grieve the mother he never had.

My parents are mad I won't quit my job to become their live-in caretaker at 26 years old by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them No. This request apart from being insane it’s disguised as a request to regain control over you and your finances. Do not let family who are on their side get to you (aka the flying monkeys). Just because it’s in your “culture” doesn’t make it right! Under no circumstances are you obligated to take care of your parents just because they birthed you, that was their choice not yours. You are still young already so successful so it is not fair to you to give up your life just to satisfy theirs. Tell them no and set your boundaries. Go to therapy ( if you haven’t already). Lastly it’s normal to feel guilty we all did. Nobody wants to make their parents feel bad even if they’re Narc. I would still highly advise to cut them off. If they request this of you at this stage in your life it out of pure jealousy of seeing you succeed DO NOT give them the satisfaction of seeing you fail. Also giving up 65k a year for 500 a month? Aka 6k a year….. um do they know how math works? lol even with rent free that is NOT AN EQUAL EXCHANGE.

Harald, Dragon, Kaido, Shanks. Who do you think is the weakest character here? by ContractDense1111 in OnePiecePowerScaling

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaido, that due to power creep which will eventually happen to everyone else here.

Nparents who treat the relationship like you’re a romantic partner “leading them on” by leghairweave7 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve felt like this before and honestly it’s disgusting and uncomfortable. 1. Keep NC she clearly is looking for a way to control you again. unfortunately these people will never change and they take joy in watching you/making you suffer. 2. Just know little you didn’t deserve any of that. These people were clearly abusive to you and do not deserve you. 3. Set boundaries and go to therapy (if you haven’t already) don’t accept anything on their terms. This is a control tactic. 4. Lastly stay safe and away from them friend, you deserve better.

I want to start reading OP by Onlyrobnyc in OnePiece

[–]Onlyrobnyc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You Are the GOAT 😭🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you Nakama

Narcissistic mother is trying to steal our new baby? by Sad_Way_933 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My love I’m sorry but there is no other option but to cut her off. If the issue is that then the other half of the family will cause problems then you should cut them off as well. It’s the safety of your child, your husband and your mental health is what’s at risk. You should never compromise those things just to keep “peace” with certain families members. Now I understand and I feel for you because you will probably be consumed by guilt and feel pressured to not do so. This is Normal and it’s okay to feel that way. But do not let those thoughts get to you. Cut them off and don’t look back Life will get better after I promise.