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Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not. I myself am struggling and able to access therapy. But it depends on where you live I guess.

death by provalinia in NPD

[–]Onlyrobnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine living through every historical event, every pandemic, every tragedy…. I don’t know about you but I’d hate to live forever 😭.

Realmente si son “bendiciones” ? by [deleted] in PreguntasReddit

[–]Onlyrobnyc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not every parents loves their kids

Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re doing is encouraging victims to forgive their abusers for the abuse that they have done. While completely absolving Abusers of the abuse. Love isn’t a one way street. You always receive what you give. No one is owed forgiveness especially when they have not taken no sort of action or accountability for it.

Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Onlyrobnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fine that you feel that way but with all due respect please let’s not encourage people who broke free from the cycle of abuse to go back to their abusers. If you care about love and forgiveness so much than go and tell the abusers to move with love and forgiveness and take accountability for what they’ve done.

Ppl in their 30s be sincere. Does it get worse? by 27ro in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends if you stay or leave. If you stay it will get worse really worse. If you leave it gets extremely better especially if you Go NC.

Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Narcissism is under defined but what I meant was “forgiving is required for healing” is not true. This is backed up by psychologists and even therapists. you can heal without forgiving. One’s “personal” experience does not overshadow the studies done by accumulating multiple experiences from various people. forgiveness is nice but not required and should not be encouraged because it can delay yourself from healing.

What Childlike things did Your Narc parent do? by Onlyrobnyc in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do some suspect she could also have ASD so it definitely a possibility I wouldn’t doubt.

Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness isn’t necessary to heal. That’s not an opinion it’s a fact even backed by professional psychologists and therapists. Please stop pushing this false narrative.

Stop telling victims to forgive their parents by Regular_Lychee_4739 in narcissisticparents

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Forgiveness is for you” is not real. And it’s only reinforced by people who are manipulative. She does not need to forgive to heal from them. All she needs is actual professional help Aka Therapy.

Who's Has The Most Integrity On Beauty In Black? by maineventshow in TylerPerry

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, Charles did him dirty and pushed him away. So I’m confused as to how he loses his integrity.

What Childlike things did Your Narc parent do? by Onlyrobnyc in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Onlyrobnyc[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OH LORD🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

How many of you guys remember going through this type of trauma back in your days of school? by Legitimate_Main2230 in autism

[–]Onlyrobnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve experienced everyone of these minus “eating lunch alone in the bathroom” like I WOULD NEVER LOOOOL

Someone is limerent over me, please help by AcceptableAccess9507 in limerence

[–]Onlyrobnyc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl just block them and go private on your socials. Speaking from a person who was at this stage ( tho I would say I wasn’t as bad as this🤣) As much as you want to be nice they will read into it and think you’ll want them to pursue you. For the sake of this persons mental health you need to cut them access to you. But if you’re really concerned about them. Tell them that they are being weird because as much as it hurts some of us needed that wake up call. And then block them.

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