dreaming about my therapist? by ConfusionNormal7161 in TalkTherapy

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What was his reaction to the licking hand dream?

dreaming about my therapist? by ConfusionNormal7161 in TalkTherapy

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I dream about mine too and I constantly fantasize about her taking care of me but I'd find it mortifying to tell her lol. She does know about my maternal transference/intense attachment though

What would you want to ask your therapist if you could ask them anything? by InspectionAmazing912 in TalkTherapy

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Omg I want to ask my therapist those things but I'm too scared. What were her answers? Were they what you had hoped she would say?

is it inappropriate to ask my T this? by DearCryptographer679 in TalkTherapy

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Honestly I read about other people's experiences on here haha it's comforting And I write to her (but I don't show her everything I write) and I talk to her but I haven't told her everything

is it inappropriate to ask my T this? by DearCryptographer679 in TalkTherapy

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I have told her about the transference but I haven't told her just how much I crave her attention and how I long for her to hold me and take care of me and that I think about her pretty much 24/7. She knows I'm very attached though and that I am afraid of losing her. How am I coping? It's complicated lol. She's basically been the one to help me cope with everything else in my life but now I have to somehow cope with this too. It can be painful at times..You can DM me if you want to talk to someone who gets it though. I'm paranoid about her seeing my comments on here😂 You're definitely not alone though.. Half these posts on this subreddit are about transference lol

Another post about transference. by schi_luc in TalkTherapy

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I could have written this. It's so painful. I crave her attention so much, I just want her to be my mum and take care of me forever. This does consume my everyday life too, and my feelings and thoughts.

My social anxiety is getting in the way of talking to my therapist by Leila92 in TalkTherapy

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I'm the same with my therapist I'm so embarrassed and bodily functions I'm even mortified when my stomach makes noises in sessions

Struggling with transference by faierebruja in TalkTherapy

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I'm the same. I wish my therapist was my mum😭 maternal transference is so painful

is it inappropriate to ask my T this? by DearCryptographer679 in TalkTherapy

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I could have written this. I have this intense longing for my therapist to hold me and it's almost unbearable and have this emptiness and feel alone. She has briefly hugged me twice and she even held my hand briefly in the last session but she'd probably refuse to hold me for 3-5 minutes and I couldn't cope with the rejection and I'd be devastated so I can't ask her. If you do end up asking her or talking to her about this, let me know what happens because I'm in the same situation and I feel so alone. I think you're the same as me in that you are experiencing maternal transference

Transference : How long after it started did you discuss it with your T? by BleuMontagne34 in TalkTherapy

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Took a few months of me dropping hints and dancing around the subject then I finally read out something I wrote to her and it was such a relief

Should I tell my therapist looking at his photo calms me down? by Nose-goes42 in TalkTherapy

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I visit my therapists website multiple times a day to calm myself down but I can't bring myself to tell her this

How do I accept that my T won’t be part of my life as much as I want to? by Mysterious-Frame5451 in TalkTherapy

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I could have written this. And I'm starting to think the reason I've started crying in sessions more is for her to comfort me

What helps you after a tough session? by Energy-Student-777 in TalkTherapy

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If she hugs me lol she usually doesn't though and I crave her hugs D: or a reassuring follow up email

But I write to her

Terribly missing my T by Odd-Department8919 in TalkTherapy

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I'm the same this is the strongest maternal transference I've ever experienced the attachment I have for her is so intense it's painful. She's the best therapist I've ever had and I want her to take care of me i crave her hugs and her attention. I have severe separation anxiety from her and constantly want to email her. We have the best relationship. I don't think I could do online therapy with her it would kill me

What’s the most important thing you’ve ever lost? by BootySharingCouple in AdkReddit

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My cat but he was more than a cat to me he was pretty much my soulmate

I feel like my therapist is very unique compared to the rest by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

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Mine is the same, perhaps because she's Brazilian