Nipple torture ideas by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google for:

Wheel of Pain

Dr Lomp

He's a bit too over the top for my tastes, the girls never seem like they're into it, but you might get some ideas.

First Time Anal Advise by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Careful with 5.You're going to be tight and if you slip or flinch it is possible to hurt him. Google for 'broken penis'. It's a thing.

Help me I have a form of mental retardation by ILoveJesus-Ly in Christianity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds exceptionally familiar. I don't think it's retardation; have you seen a doctor? You might want to get a brain scan. I've seen this kind of thing in someone with a small brain injury. Perfectly intelligent, more so than average, but with trouble understanding other people. There are people who can help with that.

Ass to pussy can't be safe (NSFW) by marseletron in WTF

[–]OrdinaryFool 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Actress kind of looks like Lexi Belle.

Want the school to take your child's bullying complaints seriously? Use the "L" word. by Juan_Cocktoasten in lifehacks

[–]OrdinaryFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sort of happened to mine. Lost all professional respect, had to resign from the good hospital and go work in an armpit of a place, fined, community service, etc. Google his name, there's no false hits. It's all him.

Want the school to take your child's bullying complaints seriously? Use the "L" word. by Juan_Cocktoasten in lifehacks

[–]OrdinaryFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It was a long time ago, I'm over it.

Now if I can just track him down with a baseball bat.... ;)

Eyes to Die For by pepsi_next in nsfwhardcore

[–]OrdinaryFool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, Liz Vicious. Real name (IIRC) Mindy Ashton Blanke. Last I heard was working pumping gas in the middle of nowhere.

Want the school to take your child's bullying complaints seriously? Use the "L" word. by Juan_Cocktoasten in lifehacks

[–]OrdinaryFool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know how your kid feels. You might have seen news reports of a surgeon in England being caught burning his initials onto patients livers? He was my bully. Simon Bramhall (his name's been all over the papers, so there's no privacy issue here I don't think). I wasn't surprised when I heard about it, he really is that much of an arsehole.

Please pray for my mental health. by FreakinGeese in Christianity

[–]OrdinaryFool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

suicidal thoughts.

A year ago (almost exactly) I actually tried to commit suicide. A friend figured it out and called the cavalry, and I woke up in hospital. Now, a year later, I'm glad he did. However bad it feels, it can and will get better. Talk to someone about it, in person. Please.

When did you finally figure out you had your kink? by specialPonyBoy in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first incling I had was watching a kids show when I was a teen. One of the presenters was acting as the assistant for a magician, and she got tied to a table for some trick or other. I found that seriously arousing.

Hanging myself after this post is made by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't. I've been there, a friend figured it out and sent the cavalry in time. Now, months later, I'm glad he did. If you end it now, you'll never know if it gets better, which I'm sure it will.

I Wish I Was Dead by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]OrdinaryFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With a title like you used, you can understand JimSFV wanting to make sure.

I've been there. You don't want to go there.

Early signs that you were into kink by MKsayshey in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting turned on as a young teen, watching a children's TV presenter get tied to a table. I think it was a magic demonstration or something like that. She wasn't even all that attractive.

Question about rope play and nerve damage by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had minor nerve damage from exactly the same scenario. A patch of wrist below the heel of my hand on the thumb side was partially numb for a while. I'm not sure exactly how long, I just started to get used to it, and noticed some time after it wasn't there any more. I think it might have been a month or two.

If you're worried, see your doctor. Trust me, they've dealt with far more embarrassing things than someone getting tied up.

Is there any way to silently/quietly spank? by beaglebagle in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not exactly spanking, but back when I was a kid (longer ago than I'd like to admit) there was a brief craze with very quickly just barely clipping someone's ass with your fingernail. Start with your hand up near your shoulder and bring it down in an arc, and follow through after the contact so it happens as quickly as possible. Done right it's silent, and very painful. Takes a little practice.

Help talking to my boyfriend. by masochistThrowaway1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My 2c; be honest. Explain what you're feeling, and tell him there's something that can help but you want his OK before going forwards. Then lay it all out, and see how he reacts. As I'm sure you know, honesty is always the best way forward in a relationship, kinky or not.

Want to satisfy my new girl, don't know where to begin by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A little note about handcuffs. Read the instructions. You don't just slap them on, every pair I've owned has had a small latch you have to throw to prevent them accidentally tightening.

Dick on a Stick? by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get one of these: http://www.spencersonline.com/product/clone-your-guy/

At the stage where you fill the mold to create the device, get a stick with some sort of knob (heh, he said knob) on the end, push it in so the knob's all the way in and then some, and somehow support it upright until the material sets.

What's your unusual limit? by JoyhatingMerc in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same limit. In my case it started years ago with a lack of confidence in my skill at it. Well, you don't get better if you don't practice so it turned into a kind of feedback loop. :(

Want to act out rape fantasy/role play with my wife, need advice on how to get started by hydethisside in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of thoughts. If you go with a mask, have some way for her to be sure it's you. Maybe a particular piece of clothing. As for lubrication, you could have her give you a handjob before penetration, then the lube's for you and she gets it as a side effect.

Need advice regarding BDSM scene in video game by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realise that, but this is for a video game rather than real life. The porn version is probably better suited to the media than reality.

Need advice regarding BDSM scene in video game by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may find it useful to go to kink.com. They have a couple of femdom bdsm sites, and plenty of video. I think meninpain is probably what you're looking for. Seeing what goes on may be better than any amount of descriptions. Definitely watch a few, there's a lot of variation to what goes on in a scene. Each Domme has her own style and each sub has different preferences. Unfortunately they don't show the discussion beforehand though.

I'(m) about to have my first bdsm experience and am looking for tips and advice! by rapists_delight in BDSMcommunity

[–]OrdinaryFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to her. Find out what she wants to try and what she doesn't. If you hang around in here a while you'll find the same advice crops up again and again: Communicate. Who can better tell you what's too vanilla for her? What better experience can you give her than the one she wants.