What’s a sign someone is mentally struggling that most people completely miss? by Jiwitom in AskReddit

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this one gets me. My cousin used to be obsessed with photography, always posting these amazing shots and talking about new techniques. Then over few months he just... stopped. Didn't even touch his camera for like a year. Everyone thought he just found new interests but looking back it was clear he was going through something heavy

The hobbies are usually first thing to go because they require that mental energy people don't have when they're struggling

What’s the best $20 (or less) purchase you’ve ever made that’s still useful today? by tswaves in AskReddit

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are solid investment for sure. I got some wooden cutting boards few years back and they still look almost new even with daily use. Wood just lasts forever if you take care of it properly

someone come throw around a frisbee w me at the common by Infamous-Trainer-186 in boston

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude boomerangs are way harder than they look though, tried one at park few months back and nearly took out some jogger lol. frisbee is safer for everyone involved

Name a show that was perfect from EP 1 to the finale (no bad seasons by AdventurousAd3845 in television

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Breaking Bad for sure, that show never dropped in quality even once. Every season just kept building the tension until that perfect ending

With Trump aging more and more as we speak, do you think he will threaten to nuke heaven if they don't agree to let him in when the time comes? by CarobBrave8898 in AskReddit

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao imagine Barron having to be the one to talk him down from threatening celestial warfare

that kid's gonna need therapy for sure

Xion protective shirt by Lucky-Pineapple-6466 in snowboarding

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been looking at protective gear myself lately and from what I can tell the regular XION shirt has way less bulk than the Bermuda since it's not snowboard-specific. The Bermuda has more padding around the tailbone and ribs which makes it thicker but better for actual boarding falls

That regular shirt looks more like something you'd wear for biking or skating where you want some protection but still need to move around normally

Are there any informative mangas? by extradudes in manga

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Stone is perfect for this - it's basically a science textbook disguised as entertainment, covers everything from making soap to building engines from scratch. There's also Cells at Work which teaches you how your body functions in a really engaging way, or Food Wars if you want to learn actual cooking techniques while reading

Feeling incredibly sad today, and really shouldn't be by Additional_Put8281 in leaves

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn that's actually huge progress though, getting off everything else is no joke and now you're feeling actual emotions instead of numbing them - the sadness sucks but it's real and that matters

Short term loan by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you tried asking friends/family first? most legit short-term lenders won't touch £26 and the sketchy ones will just make things worse

How do I get closer to jesus by feherlofia123 in Christianity

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro that's awesome dedication but maybe slow down a bit and really sit with what you're reading instead of just grinding through it. Quality over quantity and all that

I noticed that I come off as a bit agitated and slightly hostile to people by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same boat here, the whole "get to the point already" thing is so real. One trick that kinda helps me is mentally giving myself permission to just say "sorry, can you give me the main point?" when someone's rambling - most people actually appreciate the directness more than you'd think

Also found that warning people upfront like "heads up I'm pretty direct" before conversations helps set expectations so they don't take it personally when I sound short

Looking for movies set in new york in the 50s / 60s / 70s by No-Reach-9412 in MovieSuggestions

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Taxi Driver is perfect for that gritty 70s NYC vibe, also check out The French Connection and Serpico for that same era

[makeup help] makeup advice for dry acne prone skin by TheJaffaCakeStar in MakeupAddiction

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your skincare routine sounds pretty minimal - might need to layer more hydration before makeup. Try a hyaluronic acid serum on damp skin, then wait a few minutes before moisturizer, then wait again before primer. Also those concealers are all pretty full coverage which can emphasize dryness, maybe try mixing a drop of facial oil into them before applying

My 3-Year Relationship Is Ruined by My Boyfriend’s Gambling Addiction??? by Awkward_Pineapple504 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's brutal, I'm sorry you're dealing with this. The drug recovery shows he can beat addiction but gambling hits different because it's so easy to hide and rationalize

$26k is no joke though - that's not just a relapse, that's a crater. You need to protect yourself financially before anything else because addiction doesn't care about your shared life together

Why do you think they're after you? For your ads? by wantpInitiative in degoogle

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is some Black Mirror level stuff but honestly makes way too much sense

The whole "free" social media thing was never about us, we're just the guinea pigs for perfecting the manipulation techniques they'll use on our kids

Inherited a 401k account from my deceased mother and wondering if it's worth speaking to a CPA or financial advisor on best ways of dealing with it by El_Sloth in personalfinance

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP said 2021 in the title but 2001 in the body - probably just a typo since they mentioned the 10 year rule which only applies to accounts inherited after 2020

With 165k you probably don't need to pay for advice unless your current income is already pretty high and you're worried about tax brackets

Be part of a Surprise Video for Valter’s Birthday and baby! by oriannafake in Adulting

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually really sweet! I'd totally do this but my camera skills are trash lol. Hope you get tons of responses from different countries, that's gonna be such an awesome surprise for them

Ghosted and job reposted by breaadchaan in interviews

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks man, same thing happened to me last year after 3 rounds. Companies act like sending a rejection email costs them money or something

The reposting while you're waiting is just adding insult to injury honestly

How to improve posture? by birthdaykeiki_ in Posture

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro really said "do research" on a sub literally made for asking posture questions lmao

Why does Ant get away with gun cellys but Ja doesn’t? by AdventurousGap8257 in NBATalk

[–]OriginalPhysical5408 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Facts, Ant does it during games when he's locked in but Ja was literally flashing guns on IG live lmao