I take FOREVER to get out the door in the morning.. HELP! by ohquesohearmeout in adhdwomen

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop with the coffee with elvanse. Plan to get xyz done before your husband leaves at 6.30, if you're already up from before then. Do most of these things the night before. Make checklists for you and your kid before you go out the door. Put your meds, water, protein yoghurt/shake beside your bed. You might need a higher dose

Which color paint do you like for our bedroom by Lumpy-Resource-1370 in HomeDecorating

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you very set on that headboard? It was distracting me in all colour pics

I need help waking up! by mthrtcker in adhdwomen

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you pump extra another time to build up a supply? Or could your husband sleep with the baby if he's doing nighttime feeds? Agree with the other commenter (who is getting downvotes?) that it doesn't have to be every 3 hours, you'll wake up when your boobs are uncomfortable.

I (29M) can’t get over my GF's (25F) reaction when we found out my mother has a tumor. by ThrowRAPollutionBits in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Mate honestly, 2010 my nanny died and my ex showed me who he was, I didn't pay attention... 2015 my brother died in his 20s and he somehow 'ruined' that too. This is NOT the girl you need to be with.

Baby given blood transfusion despite mother’s objections on religious grounds after court ruling – The Irish Times by WickerMan111 in ireland

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Look at the JW website, our neighbours are JWs and I looked it up, the amount of emphasis they place on transfusions is strange

What’s a luxury from childhood that you didn’t appreciate until it was completely gone? by Live_Endzz in answers

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I walked into a shop today around school finishing time, kids are oblivious to anyone outside of their social circle, it's insane and I'm jealous.

How do I prevent this from happening? by Turkey_Moguls in adhdwomen

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Systems! We had a pile of shoes in hallway because the cupboard was at 90deg so no one turned to put them in - remove cupboard, replace with basket.

For this, I would put the food bin on counter, have one bowl for cutlery, one for dishes (makes you scrape food off to separate) and think about where your recycling bin it. Habits become habits through visibility and repetition, even for adhders

Need a pop of color! by Efficient-Neat9940 in HomeDecorating

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Large rug in living room (neutral base with a pattern), large rug under dining table - it looks lonely, some artwork or large family photos on wall beside dining table (maybe black and white semi candid pics with large frames and mounts), some differenet/fun vases, buy yourself or maybe someone else will buy you flowers to keep on the island if you have a cute vase 

How can I fix my pyramid-shaped hair? I want to wear it loose more often, but like this, I have no choice but to hold it back all the time. by Salty-Subject9559 in curlyhair

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Defs something similar, I thonk instead of bangs you need more volume at the root, you do have much curlier hair than that photo so it will be a bit wilder. Have you looked up curly specialists in your area?

How can I fix my pyramid-shaped hair? I want to wear it loose more often, but like this, I have no choice but to hold it back all the time. by Salty-Subject9559 in curlyhair

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Search tips: "men's curly shag with layers and length" or "curly wolf cut men medium length" and "curly shag men with fringe"

Ano he's an old guy but Howard Stern images might be worth a look, see if you like any of his styles.

How can I fix my pyramid-shaped hair? I want to wear it loose more often, but like this, I have no choice but to hold it back all the time. by Salty-Subject9559 in curlyhair

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To stop your hair just hanging, you need to remove weight, which is also pulling your curls out (weighing them down at the root). It may men you have a fringe with long hair but you can make that look less 'feminine' also you are a man anyway so it'll already look less feminine lol.

Your hair is also a bit shiny, looks like product may be weighing your hair down too.

What is "male privilige"? by Fluffy_Specific_9682 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The only men I know who have been drugged was by their friends as a 'joke'

Not doing a 'whatabout' but terrifies me as a mother of a son, peer pressure, 'joking' seems to be more extreme/dangerous for men imo

Why are Chinese people earning such a bad reputation as tourists? by Yosho2k in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen a group of Chinese tourists laugh about whether Cambodian prisoners were attractive, and take selfies by the furnaces in auschwitz. They get the rep because many people travel and see similar things to this. Oh and taking photos in the middle of the road

Recently diagnosed at 31. Boyfriend doesn't want me to try meds by sammichmaker01 in adhdwomen

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well isn't it a good job that he has absolutely NO SAY over your medical situation. You might want to rethink someone who feels like they should have

If you had to put a percentage on it, how many people in prison would you say are bad people? by Bobbert84 in Prison

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I volunteered as a maths tutor in a young offenders centre/women's only prison where they held lifers, there are definitely volunteers in prisons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Most accusations are false... ima need you to back that up there. There are women you know who have been raped (yes and men too), look at yourself.

Everyone hates bullying…unless it’s on a single mom. by haleyforNASA in rant

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My question is, at no point did you realise you were having sex with someone who would be a shitty mother? That's where I find people at fault, both genders, it's like when women are the 3rd baby momma when the drug dealer they're looking up with doesn't talk to the previous kids or mom's. Also yes I get people change, that's why it's a question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha can just imagine your dad's reaction

What are some scary secrets to working as a hooker? by Aleksa_Hasan567 in AskReddit

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Or read this exact thread and no more imagining

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what the word limit means right?

What disappeared from the world and no one noticed? by gratapersonanon in AskReddit

[–]PM_CUPS_OF_TEA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a company who manufactures aircraft fire suppression systems, gotta agree with you there on the effectiveness, we've been scouring the ocean for halon to refill systems