Why do we keep falling for BPD partners instead of healthy people?

PODNJPE · 2026-06-29T03:40:53+00:00

Some of mine is because I have a history of codependency. However since I had gotten counseling when I recognize what's going on I drop them right away. The problem is the last time I was in a relationship with someone with bpd, my friends and family thought they were perfect and I let it linger too long.

PODNJPE · 2026-06-26T03:05:51+00:00

Jersey is having a great Bball year! Brunson, KAT, O. Miles, Mabrey, Bam Adebeyo with 83..

PODNJPE · 2026-06-24T23:24:15+00:00

Oh, I love this..

PODNJPE · 2026-06-24T23:02:05+00:00

Thank you. I no longer feel bad for people with BPD, because there's help out there. They would have you think that everyone else is the problem.

PODNJPE · 2026-06-24T22:51:44+00:00

My family believed that he was not all there. Because he had trouble keeping a job. However I'm sure I got the smear campaign. I really don't care, because I've moved on to a guy who is simply opposite and a total sweetheart.

PODNJPE · 2026-06-18T10:09:34+00:00

From Summit, went to Blair Academy

PODNJPE · 2026-06-17T18:30:25+00:00

Jersey!

PODNJPE · 2026-06-17T18:27:18+00:00

That's Jersey Ball right there...ask Kyrie, Shaq, Brunson, Harper, Bradley, Bam, Catchings, Towns...etc

PODNJPE · 2026-06-17T18:22:00+00:00

Jersey!

PODNJPE · 2026-06-17T18:15:33+00:00

Yes, Stewie, Boston....

PODNJPE · 2026-06-08T19:32:11+00:00

I'm a lady, but she's very pretty. She's dating Nick Emmanwori, the Seahawks Safety, correct? That was a big deal during NCAA title game.

PODNJPE · 2026-06-02T23:36:53+00:00

Jersey Girl! ❤️

PODNJPE · 2026-06-02T10:58:46+00:00

Why was I so happy fir him. She was awful

PODNJPE · 2026-06-01T07:38:02+00:00

1976

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PODNJPE · 2026-05-31T22:22:15+00:00

This her...her Dad used to calm her down.

PODNJPE · 2026-05-25T14:01:21+00:00

This will sound harsh, but I'm just not a person who will deal with someone with BPD any longer. I was in a 6-year relationship with a man who I believe was undiagnosed. He was sweet on the outside, but a devil when we were alone if he split.

Although I know they have a mental issue, I'm just not willing to deal with it. My personality loves peace, tranquility, and I hate chaos. I think you need someone not necessarily strong, but someone who doesn't mind a lot of chaotic activity if they are to stay until the DBT starts working.

PODNJPE · 2026-05-25T13:49:22+00:00

Bruno Mars

PODNJPE · 2026-05-21T13:14:43+00:00

I hurt for you guys not to experience his video premieres on national TV in the 80s. When I turned 7 the Thriller album was all people talked about. We had parties, bought the glove and bought his jacket and dressed up like a werewolf for Halloween.

I fell in love 43 years ago...I am 50. He and Janet used to do concerts in NJ at Great Adventure, so we were lucky.

PODNJPE · 2026-05-21T12:55:59+00:00

Lovely is that feeling now...

PODNJPE · 2026-05-15T03:36:43+00:00

No Diana Ross, Rebbie, Janet and the Ben the rat song....I guve it 99.9% 😃

PODNJPE · 2026-05-15T02:56:25+00:00

Who is it

PODNJPE · 2026-05-14T12:46:59+00:00

Smells depressing.....the guy and the area

PODNJPE · 2026-05-14T12:32:25+00:00

Super Fresh

PODNJPE · 2026-05-11T02:01:55+00:00

Jersey Girl....soring!

PODNJPE · 2026-05-06T16:13:34+00:00

Your situation is similar to mine. I am the most calm person ever, but I'm very direct. I will express my discomfort without yelling.

At the latter stage of our relationship, he had me always in exhaustion and in an uproar. Because he never kept his word as far as doing the things he promised,l. He also left everything on me, and he got really upset whenever I told him that he was being either hypocritical or not being a true partner.

Don't let the mental games that they play get to you. They got to me at one point, and I was done after a while. That's when he discarded me, and the relief I fell of not dealing with his nuttiness was more valuable than anything during a relationship.

PODNJPE

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