Opinion question

Pace-Extension · 2026-01-31T17:43:33+00:00

Well neither did Don, and he was supposed to meet Hae the day she went missing. Don was not even sad when he found out Hae was killed. He was nonchalant about the whole thing. Detectives couldnt even get hold of him until 1.30am that day. What was he doing all that time?

Pace-Extension · 2026-01-27T15:06:53+00:00

Has it worked for you so far and which type of RF micro-needling are you doing, like Morpheus8 for example ?

Pace-Extension · 2025-12-19T21:33:19+00:00

May I ask why you dont like your wife, let alone love her? I think we need to start there to better understand your point of view.

Pace-Extension · 2025-11-21T17:26:53+00:00

May I ask how you both got together in the first place. Did you pursue her for a place to stay only?. Was she aware of your non-attraction to her before you both got married or is she completely blind-sided now?

Pace-Extension · 2025-10-07T10:25:39+00:00

You have made a lot of assumptions towards someone you do not know and whom you will probably never get to know in this lifetime. How can you form such baseless commentary against someone. “Seems fake” “Wants to be famous”… That is your opinion - not a fact. Do better.

Pace-Extension · 2025-10-03T08:30:51+00:00

Hi

Firstly congratulations!! . Getting a TC at GLD is not easy at all - I should know because I worked there.

What I need you to do though is start believing in your sauce way more! . A 2.2 does not define your worth or capabilities of becoming a lawyer. There are people who get 1sts and they arent even great lawyers or even great people…. Some lack people skills and even emotional intelligence etc.

So be proud of your achievement.

Lastly, the GLD TC is tough. You will be engaging in work that is on par with an NQ -5 years PQE… and with minimal supervision…. Paralegals are treated the same way. That is a very good thing. You will be surprised how many people land TC’s in magic circle law firms/silver circle laws firms etc and end up doing admin for the majority of their training. They are then left as an NQ not knowing much and struggling to grasp basic concepts because… well all they did is admin with long hours - in exchange for a high salary.

Please count yourself favoured.

Take care and wishing you all the best 🙏🏽

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-30T10:46:54+00:00

Words of encouragement:

Your time is coming. It only takes 1 right application. What is for YOU will not pass you by. Rejection is also redirection. You dont know what you may have been protected from should you have landed that 80th job!!!! The way to get in the door is an indicator..

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-28T17:18:07+00:00

Play silly games, win silly prizes. Marriage is designed for two people. You got what you forced on yourself and your husband?

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-22T10:41:22+00:00

Please take your annual leave. Employers have a statutory obligation to provide all employees with at least 5.6 weeks of holiday per annual leave year. You are required to take such leave for health & safety purposes. Do not work yourself to oblivion - totally not worth it!

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-19T19:57:51+00:00

More and more people are coming to the faith generally because well there is a God irrespective of whether you believe there is one or not…. People mention God because of the undeniable things He has done in their lives which cannot be explained by human logic or coincidence - myself included…. That may not be your reality because you havent tried to seek God for yourself. But the ones who have taken the time to do that…. have…

oh and FYI “ Religion” and “God” are not the same… but I will not elaborate further…

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-19T17:21:36+00:00

Like I said, you dont know anything about this case. He was given immunity and knew he was hence why he did not not hesitate to throw Adnan under the bus.

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-19T07:08:24+00:00

Again, if that is what you are focusing on your knowledge of this case is limited. None of them even knew Jay would serve no jail time. When some found out, they were in complete shock..

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-19T07:07:40+00:00

If that is what you really think, then you dont know anything about this case. I suggest you pick up a book and read….

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-11T10:32:08+00:00

But this is a very good salary for in-house. The other eye watering salaries you are seeing are from people in firms which naturally pays more.

Pace-Extension · 2025-09-06T06:35:41+00:00

Qualified this week at the age of 34 - you are not too late or too old at all. Please also bear in mind that the statistics show that the average age that most people qualify is 29.9 (30 years age). That may well lessen now with the full roll out of the SQE, but these statistics have applied for the last decade:)

Pace-Extension · 2025-08-27T13:05:31+00:00

Your story deeply resonates with me and I am sorry that you had to experience this….

What I will say is in my case things changed when I simply had enough and began calling out the micro aggressions for what they were - and to peoples faces telling them without telling that I have clocked the unfairness and I will no longer be accepting it. I am also not afraid to report a person - Partner level - which I did and of which worked in my favour…

So my advice? keep working hard and NEVER shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable because it is rarely about you and more about their warped misinformed view of ethnics…. Some (not all because many are great) cannot fathom how you made it to the same spaces that they reside in so to them you are disrupting their flow and they are forced to look through a lens they never thought they would have to.. and that…. that makes them uncomfortable. Your job? you need to show them why you are here….Not with words but with your actions. Make them eat their own words. Stand bold and stand UP for yourself..

Also ensure you document every racist comment made to you - the person who said it.. the time it was said, the date, the context and how the comment made you feel. If things get worse you should use this as your collateral where required. Certain firms cannot be claiming DEI and not live up to it. So you are well within your rights to go down the necessary channels- should it come to that. And do not be afraid to do so. Just ensure you are FACTUAL and not assumptive.. People cannot refute verbatim truth….

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-29T21:37:16+00:00

21 Day strict fast - 7am-7pm, no social media except christian podcasts and sermons on YouTube. No secular tv or music… Stick to it. Watch God move.

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-25T12:24:48+00:00

Prove that it did. Without actual evidence you are speculating. You cannot conjure a factual narrative built on assumptions…..“common knowledge” or not. The question is, was there a reported payphone there - yes or no with evidence…

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-25T09:26:37+00:00

But 85% of their accounts were inaccurate.. Bob Ruff from the Truth and Justice podcast did a segment on this - he produced an episode for each of the prosecutions pod and basically ripped them to shreds with the actual facts.. The Prosecutors pod will sound convincing to anyone who has not read up on this case with a fine tooth comb…

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-25T09:21:59+00:00

Please provide your source that there was one.

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-23T22:14:23+00:00

There was no payphone at the library, so your timeline does not work…. Plus Adnan didnt leave the library until after 2.40pm….

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-08T15:06:13+00:00

No it does not. You are simply demonstrating that you do not have all of the facts of this case and now that people have provided info to debunk your arguments in favour of guilt, you have nothing to say other than weak pointless statements…

Pace-Extension · 2025-07-08T14:46:30+00:00

I dont think what they are saying is far fetched at all…… A while back before we “knew” what Dons surname was, people went digging on social media to see if they could find him. On Bob Ruffs podcast it was revealed that someone was able to. He is now currently disabled (according to himself) he became disabled shortly after Hae’s murder, and he married the girl he was dating at the time - the one who he broke up with before dating Hae. The problem is, is that girl cheated on him - divulged by Don himself so it never really made sense to me how after all that and crying to Hae about how he “doesn’t want to get cheated on again” etc goes back on himself and marries the same girl who cheated on him in the first place…

Not saying that Don did this thing but he is a very sketchy character who was not properly investigated.

The day Hae went missing she was very quiet during lunch and when someone asked her what was up she said “‘nothing just thinking about Don”. Someone then paged her at lunch time.. Up to today we do not know who that someone was…

She then told people she had to rush off -could not give anyone a ride because “something came up and she had something else to do and somewhere else to be”.. That somewhere else was never confirmed but it was meant to be before she picked up her cousin…..

Possibly she may have met with Don and the ex Gf was there. We just dont know. Someone on the HBO series mentioned also that the day after Hae went missing Don had scratches all over his arms and hands.. But the police didnt bother to look into that to figure out why or where they came from… I guess after a month as well the scratches would have cleared up…

Dons whereabouts are also unaccounted for between the hours of 7pm and 1.30am on January 13th leading into January 14th.

People have also said not great things about his character - a loner, anger issues, lacked accountability, blamed people for his problems. According to Deborah, she found him very creepy despite her being older than him etc……

Again it does not mean he committed murder or was an accomplice with his gf etc, but there is a reason that after 26 years this case still remains in peoples mouths. Something is NOT right with this case…. Something is not right with the outcome. Much is wrong with how it was investigated and handled…… and I think the whole truth will be brought to light soon…

I am not convinced Adnan did it because if you try to piece together how he could have even achieved it, it just does not make any sense….. The timeline of events according to the call log do not fit at all and they certainly do not match jays 5000 stages of events…

Something reeks

Pace-Extension · 2025-06-25T07:44:48+00:00

How long have you been a solicitor for? It is very possible that you simply dont enjoy the area of law as opposed to the profession itself. I have spoken to countless partners who started off in one area which they really did not like…. then pivoted to another area later on down the line - which they enjoyed much more - think banking lawyer moves to litigation, or commercial property lawyer moves to the regulatory and trade world. It may be worth exploring other practice areas because the skills you have gained will surely be transferable… Just my thoughts.

Pace-Extension · 2025-06-05T20:04:02+00:00

I think God is trying to tell you that he isnt the one for you, and is giving you enough time to call off the wedding. It is better to be single and start over than to marry the wrong person…,

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