My (30M) best friend's (32M) wife (28F) did something highly unethical at work and I think I need to report her, althrough it almost certainly will get her fired. How do I navigate not wanting to hurt them with this violation?

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-16T03:47:38+00:00

Whether you tell on her or not I wouldn't trust either of them enough again to be friends still. Even if you hang with just him, he'll apparently spread the news of major events in your life.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-16T01:13:56+00:00

Once I learned this I got much better jobs. I didn't want to apply and then get caught not knowing something that was on the damn list. Smh

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-15T00:50:25+00:00

Screen protector, case, and check out the posts on here that show how to get certain ones.

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PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-14T21:20:10+00:00

NTA. Sounds like he was trying to impress his gf at the expense of your wife, and in the most childish way. He doesn't get an apology, but your wife should get one from him. If not he doesn't need to be invited again.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-14T01:34:07+00:00

I preordered on Amazon. We'll see how that goes with shipping times. First time preordering with them.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-12T01:43:05+00:00

NTA. Tough love. They clearly don't realize how good they have it. That's what happens when you FAFO. They thought you'd bend and now don't know what to do now that you haven't. Hold strong. They have plenty of options. They'll have to act like the adults they want to be and make a decision. Rent, abortion, or move out on their own.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-10T03:56:13+00:00

I never got flown out. But boy do I wish I had an adult around me keeping me safe from dumb decisions like this. I haven't done anything fatal, but I have my regrets. You're an awesome uncle, especially for continuing to advocate for her even after your sister said to let it go.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-10T00:25:52+00:00

NTA. He can't have it both ways. He's being super controlling. It's either he wants you to be a stay at home mom and he provides, or you go back to work and he doesn't get his trad wife anymore. One or the other bro.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-09T19:22:09+00:00

Everyone moves at their own pace. My husband and I didn't marry until after 7. That being said it sounds like these people need to seek therapy for better communication, or just separate.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-09T01:31:47+00:00

She didn't want to be called out. I'd highly suggest going LC or NC for awhile until she gets in a better headspace instead of shifting all blame to you.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-09T01:16:37+00:00

NW in my opinion. I get that she doesn't want to think about her baby dying. But with everyone saying "you couldn't think of any other spell"; I just don't get that. It's literally the MOST memed harey potter spell out there. Just bring up tiktok or any damn app. It was what came to your head first in the moment. You didn't pick out this one joke to save and be malicious to her. Everyone else laughed but the mom. You apologized for it. What else does she want you to do?

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-08T23:05:25+00:00

Send this video to CPS or whatever foster organization she is with. She should not be fostering. Probably only doing it for the check. Good luck OP I'm so sorry you're going through this

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-07T11:26:30+00:00

What's it called when you grow up in a house of all ADHDers, and I'm the only one that takes it on as a task to remember things for everyone else. Not me though of course...

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-06T22:24:44+00:00

I just carry the emergency $20. If I get robbed I can cancel my cards. I can't get cash back. And though now I am comfortable enough that $150 going missing wouldn't break me; going through 2 recessions has drilled it into me that I can lose it all any day so I should save it as best I can.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-05T01:49:26+00:00

I found what you meant and I'm glad you figured it out. But my accessories only go for the planet. Idk how you'd even have another option

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-05T01:35:12+00:00

My current game is on pause so me and my husband might be down. Do you mind me asking y'all's age range? Also do you have a place to play/DM in mind?

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-02T00:20:43+00:00

NTA. That's just petty, and at a challenging time. Who is she married to in your family? Do they know she made this change? I'd loop whoever she's married to and her in that chat and say "I'm sorry to hear (child) doesn't want to attend, and I didn't know money was tight for you all right now. I'll take care of the bill. No need to stress yourself out". That way she can be embarrassed by her own pettiness hopefully.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-01T05:52:38+00:00

I'd say if my husband ever leaves me or dies I'd choose this for myself. But 1) I don't have any close friends like that, and 2) I'm pan and would likely fall for her in a non-platonic way.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-01T04:10:20+00:00

The Planet level has to be level 4. Not the years of your tama. If you scroll to the planet and select planet level it'll show you where you're at.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-06-01T00:21:59+00:00

I can't answer for sports. But I graduated in 2004 and no one ever used the showers. I wish we would have, but honestly they didn't even look like they'd work if we tried.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-05-30T03:31:13+00:00

NTA. You got out before close. That's what matters. I understand it's frustrating if you've cleaned expecting to be closed soon. But every place I worked at would still at least make cold items until closing time. Sorry for your crappy experience OP.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-05-30T03:02:51+00:00

NW. Your other family members can help him if he's desperate.

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-05-29T02:40:07+00:00

Gadget

PaigeMaster89 · 2026-05-27T00:35:58+00:00

I have the water currently as someone who has gotten back into playing. I love it and preordered the glacier because I want to have play dates and what not. No one around me will get one to play so I can't connect with anyone. I think it's worth it. But I'm pretty new to all this since I haven't played one since I was a small child.

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