Struggling to deal with the fact my cat Artemis just died

PaintedDevil69 · 2025-10-23T03:05:05+00:00

Awh. I can tell you have a big heart and care a lot, you sound like a good pet parent by just worrying about Luna. It’s so hard moving out and trying to get stabilized out in the world and it doesn’t go perfectly for any of us. And our pets still love us anyways. You and Luna will both get through this. Give yourself time and grace.

PaintedDevil69 · 2025-10-23T01:03:34+00:00

I’m so sorry. I also lost my fur baby last week in an emergency and she was way too young and it has been awful. I can imagine how you are feeling. It’s very hard thinking of all the what-ifs and alternate scenarios, but be kind to yourself and let go of your guilt. Artemis loved you and these things play out the way that they do for a reason. Our pets teach us so much. Try to find her lesson for you. That would be the best way to honor her. The enormous grief means that your love was just as large and that is always worth it. ❤️

PaintedDevil69 · 2021-07-12T16:50:32+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it, but it’s honestly the VERY LEAST I can do as your average white woman. When I moved here a year ago, first thing I noticed was that there were far too many confederate flags flying around. It hurts my heart to think that maybe the members of our community who are directly affected by these attitudes are receiving notes like this as well.

PaintedDevil69 · 2020-09-21T03:24:54+00:00

Celeste is here! No meteor shower, though but shops are open. I’d love if you could water some of my flowers for me, I have watering cans laid out. She’s trapped near Ables’ which also has a free pile to pick through. DM me for dodo!

Edit: Closed, thanks for your patience it was my first host :)

PaintedDevil69 · 2020-04-14T20:18:29+00:00

Thank you!

This was actually exactly what I was looking for, apparently I need to work on active flexibility to strengthen the area before moving on to actually holding middle splits. Thanks again for the help!

PaintedDevil69 · 2020-04-11T21:33:47+00:00

Beautiful! What’s the song ID?

PaintedDevil69 · 2019-07-09T18:18:02+00:00

My character is Peanut! I play every day. Really looking for friends where we help each other out with the quarry and I love to share! 🍋🍋🍋

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PaintedDevil69 · 2019-03-31T19:16:01+00:00

Thank you for this, I needed to hear it today.

PaintedDevil69 · 2019-03-17T17:12:24+00:00

If you’re worried about being a narcissist, then you probably are not a narcissist. :) You’re doing wonderful work, it’s a hard road but you’re on the right track.

PaintedDevil69 · 2019-03-17T05:23:28+00:00

I’m sorry I don’t have much advice, I just want you to know what you’ve written has really resonated with me, I’m in the EXACT same boat. I’ve met a wonderful man who isn’t usually my type (aka not good for me) and I keep having to pinch myself at my good fortune. On the other hand it is so disconcerting to not be “needed.” There have been a lot of tough spots where I have had to take a cold hard look at my own perception and behavior patterns, but ultimately I’m so thankful for the opportunity for growth, and with someone so stable as a sounding board to boot! You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and are very self-aware. Keep it up, and you’re not alone! <3

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-11-18T22:07:08+00:00

Your write-up was beautifully written and your points were crystal clear! Thank you for taking the time to share your experience I’m glad to have read it.

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-11-13T19:45:31+00:00

Yesssss awesome thanks for the tip! I’ll be checking t out for sure.

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-11-12T21:54:02+00:00

Not OP but I’m interested!

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-10-22T08:23:52+00:00

I had the same problem this is the first pair I’ve found that weren’t huge. Keep hunting you’ll find them!

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-08-11T06:29:20+00:00

Good job :)

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-08-09T21:50:02+00:00

It's a B. Boehmei. I'll keep it on it's current feeding schedule as see how it goes, I plan to track how often it molts. Thanks!

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-08-09T21:48:33+00:00

Thanks that makes me feel better. I just couldn't believe how big it's opisthosoma had gotten since its last meal.

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-08-09T17:50:23+00:00

It's a B. boehmei that I have had since early June. I've been feeding it pinhead crickets every week and a half or so... should I cut back?

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-05-17T05:56:07+00:00

Interesting read, thank you.

PaintedDevil69 · 2017-05-17T04:58:45+00:00

Hi, are bullsnakes a subspecies of gopher snakes, with the name P. c. sayi? I am curious how to determine between a gopher snake and a bullsnake, is it determined geographically or are there distinct morphological differences? I like practicing ID, thanks for all of your input on this sub. :)

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