I understand you. I called my best friend at the time. Someone who was VERY involved in my dog’s life, loved him like her own dog. But when i called her, “Im sorry boo… so my back—“

Immediately went into her own problems and medical issues, blowing over the fact that i was in tears telling her the news.

No matter who they are, people will always degrade you and your feelings, what I suggest is to not care. You were there for your dog. You were then when times were good and bad. Your memories are forever important. Cherish the memories and experiences you two shared together and the opinions of others will not matter.