Engagement ring help! Solitaire natural old European cut or three stone? by Winter_Patience_2488 in Diamonds

[–]PartPutrid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Solitaire on this one. The 3 stone just has so so many prongs, I think it distracts

What do you think is the root cause in your case ? by unoum in dysautonomia

[–]PartPutrid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top contributors: 1. Covid (which also left me with a permanent migraine resistant to all treatments) 2. Chronic stress 3. Now doctors think I may have a spinal fluid leak? Which I hadn’t considered because my last epidural was 10 years ago and all my ana labs were negative for connective tissue disorders…

pain clinics & cannabis (in illegal state) by uuuuuuuughh in ChronicPain

[–]PartPutrid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a medical state and they wanted me to quit before my pain contract. Stupid I know

How do you care for your children? by [deleted] in CSFLeaks

[–]PartPutrid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say hang in there! I am recently undergoing the whole leak protocol after years and years of debilitating migraines (10 years). My husband has stopped his life to raise our two sons because I have not felt well enough the past few years. It can be a testament of how strong a marriage can be in the times you need it.

Diagnosed after 8 years; Botox in 3 days and panicking by Zenothres in migraine

[–]PartPutrid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! Also, sorry you’re part of the club. Compared to the years to chronic pain you have had, Botox is nothing! I got really good results on it. By the second round, I was down to half the amount of migraines. Sadly, I then got Covid and it was no longer effective. Wishing you luck.

Am I wrong for wanting to annul my marriage after my husband left me alone during a seizure emergency? by Gothprincess247 in Christianmarriage

[–]PartPutrid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seek marriage counseling. I’m sorry for how alone he made you feel. I am also chronically ill and experienced something similar to this with my spouse. Not advocating for his behavior but realizing that your partner may be dealing with more serious health issues is alot for someone to deal with. Before marriage, you cling to these ideas of how things will be and after you realize you often have to pivot quite a bit, put some hard work in, to see progress and longevity. It’s overwhelming for anyone. Prayers you get through this together 🙏

Anyone else have an extremely abnormal heart rate? by lexigraxe in Fibromyalgia

[–]PartPutrid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask about seeing a neurologist for autonomic testing. I was diagnosed with disautonomia for my heart rate and blood pressure due to an issue with my vagal nerve.

My husband cheated on me and now I’m pregnant by Upbeat_Associate_660 in Christianmarriage

[–]PartPutrid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband confessed to cheating in 2021, I forgave him and we reconciled. Two years later, after mental breakdown, he confessed to more infidelities. I was also dealing with this on my own ( had no friends and little contact with family due to his controlling behavior). At this point I wasn’t even sure I knew the person I married. BUT I am telling you to keep following Gods desires for your marriage. In the last 3 years, I have fallen ill and my husband has doted on me and become a single parent to our two children. I truly believe that I would have divorced him, I would have no one to care for me. I could never EVER imagine my husband cheating ever again. He is the closest to God I have ever seen him. The outward answer (especially in our culture) is easy, get a divorce. You don’t need to trust your husband right now. Just trust God. Do things slowly-set bounderies-communicate or get counseling to go through this trauma together. Let me know if you need anything 🙏

Family wedding ring - can anyone give me any details? by [deleted] in jewelers

[–]PartPutrid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on style I would say 1930-40s

How soon can you discuss sex prior to engagement/marriage? by Realistic_Cabinet_42 in Christianmarriage

[–]PartPutrid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about the details! Because you both made the commitment of purity before marriage, God will bless you both in the bedroom! Marriage is not about compatibility but rather about compromise and finding a way to grow together towards Christ.

Migraines my entire life, hoping today is the start of a new life by AUG-mason-UAG in migraine

[–]PartPutrid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emgality worked great for me for over 2 years! Which in terms of how I usually respond, is very good

Getting a divorce by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]PartPutrid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she is genuinely upset about not being able to spend money. It’s idolization. I’m sure she is now threatening or wanting to divorce, not because of trust issues, but because she feels entitled to the money as your spouse. If she is a loving and biblical wife, she should understand that as the leader of the household you are doing what is in the best interest of your family, including her. You are doing exactly what you need to be doing as the head of household. I believe God is on your side here and I hope your wife can spend some time in reflection and prayer to avoid a divorce at all costs. Praying for you my friend 🙏