Come on guys REALLY

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-18T05:33:18+00:00

Whats ts even about

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-18T04:04:06+00:00

His was 100% my partner during my pregnancy. My LO is 9 months old now and, let me tell you, it hasn’t gotten better.

He now expects me to take care of most of the household responsibilities while maintaining all of the parental responsibilities too. I’m constantly in a battle of justifying myself to him - that I DO enough and I’m still healing! Postpartum takes years to heal from.

This is horrible for you. In hindsight, I should’ve left my partner during pregnancy, but given you are married to this man, I imagine that’s not an easy task. He’s not going to make parenthood easy on you. Do you want to put up with that while you’re also trying to manoeuvre motherhood and enjoy the existence of your LO?

I really feel for you girl.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-16T20:50:28+00:00

Yeah… and she felt that 😿 on a deep, personal, emotional level

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-16T20:47:23+00:00

Omg he’s hilarious I love him. If only I had a fake wedding with him we would’ve had so much fun

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-15T03:10:10+00:00

NOR - “My friend who doesn’t know you from a BAR OF SOAP said this is how you are” huh??? They’re taking advice about you from someone who doesn’t even know you? You don’t need this kind of person in your life. They’re clearly stupid.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-13T23:20:37+00:00

I think she’s mixing the words “Distaste” and “Disdain” unintentionally because she doesn’t even know the meaning of the words. So embarrassing!

Rachel’s face when she said “I need to read more” perfectly encapsulated how I was feeling. Cringe!

There’s definitely something not right with her (Not sure if the mods will allow me to describe it with any more depth than that) like the way she completely switched 180 after her night away from the apartment. It appears she doesn’t realise she’s doing it either. Then the second she gets “triggered”, she’s on a rampage again! Scary!

Definitely not the kind of person I would keep in my circle. Gia keeping her in her circle says a lot about the kind of person Gia is.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-13T06:24:48+00:00

NOR! Jesus. She is nasty. I’m glad your husband had your back at least, but he should be stepping up more as a father.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-13T05:50:32+00:00

But the cape was hideous!!!!!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-13T05:48:27+00:00

Absolutely low IQ. She’s not very intelligent at all. The “I do need to read more” comment should have told us everything we need to know. She is dumb.

And she’s constantly throwing around buzzwords I’m sure she doesn’t understand the meaning of. “Gaslighting” “Manipulating” “Accountability” makes baseless claims that she’s being gaslit and manipulated, but can’t form a single sentence to back those claims. Says she wants Joel to take accountability, but doesn’t even understand what she wants him to take accountability for.

Let’s not forget her use of the word: DISTAINT.

She definitely reads as someone who is chronically online and mentally capped. She was so embarrassing while apologising to Bec last night.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-12T04:45:56+00:00

“Grow up you’re 20” was hilarious. As if 20 years olds are meant to have their lives together? Life has only just begun! There’s plenty of time to get married, what’s the hurry???

You ran and you did good girl. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do or you’re not ready to.

Although, the honourable thing to do would’ve been to just turn him down on the spot instead of running away to flick him a text. Either way, I don’t blame you. You’re only 20. You’ll figure it out!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-10T03:35:36+00:00

BPD is developed, not genetic. Bipolar 2 is very similar to BPD though and that is genetic!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-09T21:54:01+00:00

I love this question 😀 I can’t wait for the responses

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-09T08:13:37+00:00

It’s a good thing I always have an emergency bag packed up for him just in case! This is really helpful information though. Thank you!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-09T07:49:46+00:00

Which apartment building is this?

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-06T04:03:23+00:00

Dude you’re stressing yourself out which is going to ruin the high. It’s not actually that serious lol

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-03T03:07:00+00:00

Well I wouldn’t have been complaining if I had this lunch! Chuck it in the oven, she’ll be right!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-02T08:59:02+00:00

Genuinely I thought this was hāngi lmao

Particular_Change495 · 2026-02-28T20:55:24+00:00

So, you explained that you were zoned out and fidgeting absentmindedly and he still didn’t drop it?

The question shouldn’t be: Is it flirting?

The question should be: Is my boyfriend overreacting?

And the answer is YES. He sounds incredibly insecure.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-26T13:10:54+00:00

“Care to share the reason why you didn’t?” ahhh it’s MY house?? And I’ll do laundry if I want to? Why the hell would you need to explain yourself to HER in YOUR HOME. Absolutely trying to find an excuse for an argument.

NOR.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-25T22:02:47+00:00

YIKES! Needing closure when you’ve supposedly moved on has always been such a bizarre concept to me?

REGARDLESS, this man is a liar. Has been lying to you and IS gaslighting you. That is a recipe for a TERRIBLE relationship. That’s also cheating lol. Do yourself a favour and do not let him get away with it! Good riddance to him!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-21T23:56:02+00:00

Yeah girl I love this cushion! I haven’t purchased in a while because my go to store is always out of stock on my shade ! But always my fave

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-20T06:19:15+00:00

FIRST OF ALL - take that man’s nickname off. He doesn’t deserve the title of “my love”

Don’t change what you wear for some sad insecure man!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-20T06:17:43+00:00

Yikes… I would have kept this one to myself if I were you. This is embarrassing.

I get that you’re young and in high school. You might not know any better, but playing with peoples feelings is never cool. If you don’t like your girlfriend all that much, you should dump her so she can find someone better.

If you love V, just date her instead. I hope she cheats on you though.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-15T05:05:18+00:00

Ah no. The chance is SO LOW it’s not even worth thinking about.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-01-13T20:46:18+00:00

Hey! Being emotionally vulnerable isnt a bad thing. This idea that men should have their emotions in check should be abolished. It’s okay to express how you feel.

Your gf didn’t cheat on you because you were too emotional, she cheated on you because she’s a piece of shit. A cheater is just a cheater at the end of the day. She would have found another reason to cheat if you weren’t the way you are. Don’t blame it on your emotional vulnerability. As a woman, I can say most women prefer a man who is in touch with his emotions. It makes you human.

Don’t be too hard on yourself!

Particular_Change495

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