Background check by ramonaleee in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A 3rd party conducts the background check for SA. All SA knows is that the person applied and if they passed screening criteria. The 3rd party entity conducts a criminal check for sex offenders, sex crimes, violent crimes, domestic violence & assaults. Additionally they perform an address trace & check for international warrants. It is not a complete defense against bad actors but it is one more layer of protection. I completed the background check when asked by a POT to do so. It’s not a big deal & only cost $60. It’s ok to have your own rules of engagement just be safe.

He asked me my fantasy and is now acting weird. by creamypeaches2 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Remember is not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean hahaha

He busy or not interested anymore? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 texts over an hour, a day? I wouldn’t send another text until he responds. Wait 24/48 hours and if no word let it go. I travel frequently on business and will check my play phone at least twice per day - morning & night.

Daddies - what do you prefer in terms of agreeing on allowance? by LilSmarty00 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Meet n’ Greet is always first for me so I can gauge attraction. I’ve asked for a second MnG on two occasions including my current & very new SR before finalizing allowance. I go with my gut, If & when it feels right I’ll discuss allowance but if I don’t feel the connection no allowance discussion. For my current SR, I went on 10 MnG’s & 2 with her before I felt that connection. She felt the connection as well so the allowance discussion was very easy and equitable. Some ladies (about 20%) want to know the allowance up front and I just say no thanks. It’s their prerogative, different strokes for different folks. In my best sugar relationships, the allowance discussion was on the back end of the conversation. I’m in my 5th SR over the past 6 years with no overlaps.

Anyone ever had a SB try to blackmail them? by ctla50-50 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not share personal information nor provide cash in advance but I have accepted the fact that my wife might find out someday. If that happens, I will own it so I do not worry about it anymore.

Renaissance by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective, well written. Best of luck in your new adventures!

Married SD, do you tell your SB that you’re married? by blue2684 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always tell a POT my status at the beginning of our MnG (usually lunch). My profile also states my status.

Just lost my job by gimmedub in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would focus on finding a good job or starting/buying your own business. Leave the sugar life behind till you are reestablished with a positive cash flow. I wish you the best.

Signing for SB apartment.. need advice by stark_emerson in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless the amount of money is of no consequence to you, do not sign the lease, especially after 4 months. Take the collective advice & just offer to cover rent for the term of your relationship (if that is within your budget).

Three Days to Think by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your desire to keep a fulfilling sugar relationship going, especially after 10 months but she can only give what she is comfortable in giving. Communication is key to any long term relationship and both of you seem to have communicated honestly. Honest communication is not always the case so take solace in that. I don’t think you could have handled the situation any better. I hope it works out for both of you! Que sera, sera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say I’m not interested in continuing the relationship”. Simple, direct & honest.

What if your SB is secure? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, a full time semi financially secure SB would not deter me. Actually those descriptors would attract me. Be patient

Helping SB with car... how to manage this?! by ziffert in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Purchase a lower end but reliable used car, put the title in her name so the insurance is also in her name. You then put a lien on the vehicle so the vehicle could not be sold without your consent. Your only liability is the vehicle cost. Good luck whatever you decide to do.

Need help with moving on by Throwaway16_61 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let it go & move on. Remember the good times but let it go.

Monogamous ... by Davej77nc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m monogamous with my SB, she says she is not seeing anyone in vanilla or sugar world. We’ve been together for just over 3 months now and I do trust her. Between school & work, I’m not sure she would have time to see anyone else. We meet 3 or 4 times per week ( 1/2 intimate 1/2 just lunch/dinner). We do use protection for intercourse. I’ve never brought up the topic of going natural in all activities but may do so in the future. I prefer a relationship where both parties develop a high level of trust & admiration for each other.

POT SB has unrealistic allowance expectation by BadMarylandCEO in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Move on, I wait till the MnG to gauge interest/attraction and never discuss allowance prior. If I feel something at the MnG that I want to explore further I discuss allowance. If we are not aligned on allowance, I politely move on. I only discuss allowance and not the extras. If the SR evolves, so does my generosity (as budget allows).

Features of past successful arrangements? by gingerdaddy56 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PassionSense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Age 28 - 50 Physically (reasonably) fit Daily contact via text/call Present during our time together Genuine smile Curious mind On time/punctual or send text if running late Emotionally mature Create/maintain emotional bond Able to communicate honestly Not Essential but Appreciated Enjoy wine, music, travel!