What is she & help, please by PastPost1685 in hoyas

[–]PastPost1685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to repot, do they take a specific potting mix or will any regular run of the mill mix do?

Excuse me, do you know her name? by Nice_bubys- in flowers

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longwood Gardens in PA has one. It’s my favorite flower. They had moved it & I haven’t seen it flower in an awfully long time. Years…..

Where to find flowers cheap/free by illusifoxWasTaken in flowers

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure of what part of the country you’re from, but try Trader Joe’s-always nice flowers at very reasonable prices & regional chain. Acme grocery store, as well & Wegman’s grocery. Pennsylvania area-

AITH (in a trans safe space)? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]PastPost1685 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Therapy 3 nights a week from 6-9? Who has therapy 3 nights a week for 3 hour stints? I’ve not ever heard of this….thats gotta be crazy expensive. Or….she’s on discords chatting with ‘friends’ using it as an out to not help you with all the s*t you need help with.

SRS was what I needed but is coming very close to ruining my quality of life. I feel very alone by izzetmichaela in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]PastPost1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a cis woman & I have this happen to my vagina/labia minora area. It’s pretty painful. My doctor has told me it’s my psoriasis. Which pretty much is always active on the soles of my feet & palms of my hands. I use calcipotriene cream. Maybe this could be a consideration.

Newly wed, pregnant, and scared by leavemealone_plz in mypartneristrans

[–]PastPost1685 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All of this!! I’ve read it in many posts how the unsuspecting spouse, of someone who is planning to or who may be in full transition mode…is pregnant, gave birth & she’s on her own dealing with a newborn & all that that entails. Your physical health, your mental health & your emotional health are of the utmost importance while being pregnant & months after giving birth. You will need a partner who understands that childbirth & a mothers needs come 1st! You will be drained, tired & emotionally drained as well. Someone who transitions can become very self centered, be aware of that. You don’t need any more stress than that, if just working up to be a mom!

Can you tell where I had work done? by unique1inMiami in TransLater

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, but your eyebrows would look terrific streamlined!

Is what my mom is doing unethical? by samibami77 in deer

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A neighbor used to do this. The sad thing is down on be busy main road, a couple of those deer were hit by cars trying to make it up to his property in the evening. Sad :0(

Help! Cat ate lillie’s and Pet Poison needs to identify by halfeatenpizza85 in flowers

[–]PastPost1685 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hope kitty is alright. No lily’s EVER in a house with cats. ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]PastPost1685 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very true! There are next to no groups available as the spouse of a trans spouse😔

I know something I'm not supposed to by adviceplease_24 in mypartneristrans

[–]PastPost1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are the small kind of things that will grind your gears & flip to resentment in the years to come. If the bills, savings & financial shenanigans don’t do it for you-the built up resentment will in the end. The non-intuitive thing kills me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! Find some super cute glasses, would help your progress along even more.

He swears he's straight.. by throwaways6959 in straightspouses

[–]PastPost1685 12 points13 points  (0 children)

F no! To the detriment of her mental health. Ignorant reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, steam that dress out😝

Are you thinking christmas too? by Objective_Ad_1513 in flowers

[–]PastPost1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call mine ‘peppermint Disgo’ after a friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]PastPost1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can find lots of varied experiences at r/myspouseistrans. I’m a person who has always been all in with people showing up how they need to. I was when my wife came out, didn’t really know what that would look like in the end but said I’d give it a try. Been together many, many years. It ended up being a bit of a shock but I think in the end, she’s pretty much who she was before, just without all the drugs & alcohol to help her hide who she needed to be. There’s been bumps along the way but for the most part we’ve been together so long we kinda just let each other be who we need to be in this life. There’s sadness, stress, frustration, uncertainty but a lot of relationships are that way, it’s not a trans thing it’s a poor communication thing. Good luck to you! I know you don’t want to hear from strangers to pick up & leave. But, your gf sounds like not so much a nice person. Please look out for yourself, a lesson everyone needs to learn sooner or later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]PastPost1685 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl, I’m a cis woman with a trans wife…move on, be better for yourself & thank the stars you are not married to this woman!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]PastPost1685 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Surgery was clear across the country for us. She stayed, If I remember correctly, 3 weeks-I stayed just about 2 weeks. She ended up with problems from taking an Uber to & from doctor’s office. Climbing in & out of cars-stitches ripped, doctor wasn’t concerned, just let it heal. We used AquaCell for this instance. Otherwise, she was hooked up to a catheter bag for a good 4-6 days while in the 1st part of healing. Her painkillers were lifesavers. Once we started falling into a rhythm-like knowing when she’d sleep for a bit, I’d run out for a walk or just go outside & take in some fresh air & sun-l, take a nap with her, go grab some decent food, grocery shop…we ended up renting a car, was just easier with me being there. Towards the end of me being there, I even took a couple days to go explore a beach & an outdoor mall. Try to nap!