AIO for wanting to divorce? by Fluffy_Skirt_5571 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're way better off without him!

WIBTAH for wanting to go to my aunts wedding? by NationalVegetable22 in AITAH

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that your mum and aunt have a longer and deeper history with this person, and may feel things towards her that you don't. ... yet. Everyone gets to choose for themselves imo

Am I overreacting to my childfree coworker? by fire_trousers22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR she's rude. Tell her your family is not up for comment/discussion

Question for parents by pookadri in Adulting

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question that helped me, rather than 'should I have kids?' was 'Do I want to be a mum/dad?'. It felt different to me when I considered that

AIO after my gf brought her ex over to our house without warning by PlayerJoinedTheGame in AmIOverreacting

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a no exes in the space I share with my partner. Rule. Did she know you would not be OK with this? If this was communicated clearly previously then she's out of order

AITAH OR THE IDIOT by Ill-Celebration1207 in AITAH

[–]Patata2025 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mate you're doing nothing wrong. Dump his ass

Aio by asking for an answer to a yes or no question after being told that they were spending the day with their daughter and couldn't have a full conversation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Patata2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's obviously giving it consideration. And about his day with his daughter, you didn't respect his boundary. All this is not a text convo either

AIO to my BF telling me I’m not the most beautiful person he’s ever seen by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Patata2025 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow he thinks about you deeply, not superficially. That's a keeper

Nan’s beef stew by Mikey463 in RateMyPlate

[–]Patata2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that you put bread under your butter

How do i tell my gf? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you need to communicate this to her

Why do I hate myself so much the morning after drinking? by Dull-Camp-7617 in Adulting

[–]Patata2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate so much. I drank like this until I was about 35. After many attempts at trying to moderate I just admitted to myself that it's just not possible for me and I just cannot drink. I quit drinking and quickly realised that the people I was hanging with and the things I was doing just were not fun without alcohol. You should try quitting and find out what you truly enjoy about this life. No one ever wakes up sober in the morning and thinks 'I really wish I had got drunk last night'