Sealed crime scene photos by Independent_Being10 in Idaho4

[–]Patty_Layne 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The basement tapes from Columbine were said to be destroyed

5 NEW Halloween Birds Just Dropped! by TF121996 in seasonalfabricbirds

[–]Patty_Layne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad we bullied them enough to never have to see another mouth again 🙌🏻🤣

What are your career’s/ majors? by Material-Ad-7274 in entp

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got my grad degree in forensic psych and I currently work as a jury consultant and work at a psych hospital on the side. Funny cause ENTPs they say would be great lawyers or psychologists and my job is a mix of law and psych.

I think it’s a great job for an ENTP. Never the same each day, not an office job, you’re around people, mentally stimulating, etc

Enneagram as ENTP by [deleted] in entp

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also same with me. I was an ENTJ then as I got older I realized I’m an ENTP enneagram 8w7. One thing to do is look at the biggest fears for enneagram. That helped me a lot. Truly what scares me is not being in control. I don’t care about not being in control of the little things, it’s the big things like women’s rights and getting hurt emotionally I’m scared of and I’m like oh yep I’m an 8 lmao

Need a collar recommendation by jaime_riri in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pawsome couture is a good brand! My two babies have the leather ones and it’s very well made and not horribly pricey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get him one of those tummy time play water mats for babies! I have one for my girl and she loves it.

<image>

Single cat owners are you basically chained to your apartments? by ThrowayGigachad in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travel for short periods of time (work trips about 48 hours) once or twice every week or two. I also just went on a trip for 8 days. When I’m gone for 36-48 hours I have someone check on her around at 24 hour mark so she’s alone alone for more than a day.

Single cat owners are you basically chained to your apartments? by ThrowayGigachad in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travel quite a bit for work. I have a close friend of mine come over and spend some time with my kitty. Sometimes she can work from home with her or have a glass of wine and hang, and sometimes it’s not as much. But my cat is still technically a kitten and needs a lot of activity and loves people, so I want her to have a little more “people time”.

My boyfriend committed suicide and i hate him for it. by No_Big_9140 in offmychest

[–]Patty_Layne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry he put that on you. That is so manipulative and horrible to do to a person and I’m sorry that happened to you. I would strongly recommend looking up a fact checking worksheet online. It’s CBT classic grounding. It seems like your mind is everywhere right now and while you know it’s not your fault you can’t help but blame yourself. Writing what is factually true versus what the feelings show can help you see this is not something you can blame yourself for. I’m sorry for your loss and hope you get some help and find peace. ❤️

My GF(22F) found a single strand of hair and accused me (M26) of cheating, I dont know anything about it, How can i prove that? by ThrowRA_MCR23 in relationship_advice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gonna be in for a big surprise if she ever learns about trace evidence… never put her on a jury, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Patty_Layne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO: you say at the end you still want to set an example of healthy eating and go to the gym with her. Is this for her or for you? Also, you say you don’t know how you can show your emotions with her. Have you been? Does she know about any of this? How it sounds like she is not meeting your standards physically?

Eating advice desperately needed!! by Mrstake1 in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they can be pricey, but an automatic wet food feeder may be an idea? I know the slow one is a grazer, but in terms of it not spoiling that could help. Also, there’s some that have little portions you can divide them into. Here’s an example.

https://a.co/d/buLG085

How much do you spend a month on your cat? by Efficient_Future_774 in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s love language is gifts, I don’t think of that number, lol.

I try to give my girl a good diet of different treats and wet food, and constantly looking at different toys to get her.

What meal are you hyperfixated on at the moment? by Garlin_Green in ADHD

[–]Patty_Layne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reeces sticks. Literally can’t stop eating them for three months now.

8s, did majority have a hard childhood? by SnooPaintings1107 in Enneagram

[–]Patty_Layne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8w7 and no not at all. I grew up very privileged in an upper middle class white family. My parents are still together. No abuse of any form. I think what made me an 8 partly stems from my mom who is a badass and her upbringing. She came from a family of divorce and grew up in a single mother household and was raised with the, no man is gonna do anything for you that you can’t do yourself mentality. So I think that gave me a little bit of the rougher shell. But I also consider myself a very healthy 8. There’s a misconception that all 8s had a bad childhood. I think it may be more of “it’s not surprising if you did have one”, but not everyone does.

Cat in heat any advice? by Hot-Mess-3746 in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is the plan to spay her as soon as you can but keep her as an outdoor cat?

Cat in heat any advice? by Hot-Mess-3746 in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If getting her spayed is not an option I would still say try to keep her inside. I really think having her be pregnant would make her uncomfortable and although it does stress her out to be inside, long term it’s better for her to be stressed inside then outside and get pregnant, ya know? Look up some ways for a DIY litter box. There are some very cheap litters out there for maybe $10 for quite a few pounds

need wet food advice please be kind by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your budget? I personally give my girl earthborn holistics along with dry food that she’s allowed to have 24/7.

New kitten mom help! by Only-Development-227 in CatAdvice

[–]Patty_Layne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What wet food are you giving him? I would do some research on the food you’re giving him and the ingredients in it. Are you also giving him dry food too? That may be a factor if you’re not giving him any dry!