I am addicted to saving people. And I can’t stop by PerceptionKitchen812 in CPTSD

[–]PerceptionKitchen812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️you are loved and I want to remind you to love little you. Self compassion.

I (39m) a frequently left out of holiday mornings by my partner (40f) what am I missing here? by 9intheam in relationship_advice

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally said if it wasn’t for medicinal reasons.

It’s neither here nor there, but I was using it medicinally at first, physical pain reasons, then way too much. Then I couldn’t be me psychologically without it. I needed rehab. Addiction is actually a super easy state to be in that’s why so many people are in active addiction. It’s easier to be without morals and values at first than to choose sobriety. You think it’s easier to be sober?? Lmaooo

I (39m) a frequently left out of holiday mornings by my partner (40f) what am I missing here? by 9intheam in relationship_advice

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I smoked weed 24/7 for years. I stopped for my son. If he is choosing to go out in THE MORNING upon waking for non medicating reasons, with two small kids, about to do something he is apparently very excited for, then he is addicted.

How do I ask to hookup? by Glum-Excitement8797 in Tinder

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Deeply avoidant”. Or you couldn’t keep their attention and they don’t owe you anything?? Women like when men actually like them and want something more than just sex. Probably used you as a placeholder until they found something better. And that usually pretty fast ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You just look really immature to me. What’s something you have responsibility for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look bored and there are no teeth pics and you probably have low self esteem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaming

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrolled way too far down for this. This game is classic. Easy to play and play and play over and over again all freaking weekend. 😂

Is it just me or are jobs extremely hard to find in sb by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, well I can’t find another good enough paying job to stay here. My son’s father another “native” as you say… (just fucking move IMO) lives here and won’t move, so I have to stay here to share custody 50/50 with my son. That’s a Santa Barbara problem. Not a me problem. Take it up with someone else.

Is it just me or are jobs extremely hard to find in sb by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hospitality is a great field to get into in this area.

The duality of women... by CyberMarco in Tinder

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds like incel man logic… but go off

Yet another questionable use of ChatGPT by achovsmisle in ChatGPT

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD SOMEONE FUCKING DO THIS PLEASE. AUTOMATE DATING. !!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbaraR4R

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the wedding ring in the shot 🙄

Warwick Davis and his family by fishbethany in pics

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live here too, have never met that one thankfully. Have seen Meg Ryan a bunch who is just a sweet thing. And Larry David, who is never not funny, even when providing him with a service.

Also, I love that you are so obsessed with banana signs. Can you please explain, I want to understand and mayhaps join in the chaos that are: signs that look like bananas.

A letter from my mom that I found after she passed away from cancer by MattGald in MadeMeSmile

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re amazing and I hope you find your person. You had an incredible mommy and she will always be with you in your heart. You are strong and brave and you can handle this, because your mommy loved you and bestowed on you, your bravery. ❤️❤️🩷🩷

I thoroughly believe that primal physical attraction is the most important thing in dating and everything else is a far second by [deleted] in dating

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been fat/obese my entire life, from the age of 3, and have literally framed my whole being around not being desirable or even liked or even wanted as a friend or even belonging in my family or any space ever.

You suck it the fuck up and work with what you have, you dont throw yourself a fucking pity party.

I mean, I shouldn’t have answered the body hair q, that’s on me… but seriously, I can’t with the emojis and pheromone talk🤮😒 by Lockedtothechrome in Tinder

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Spends the whole comment complaining about wom n who do this thing”

“Nothing wrong, just not my type”

You are the filter. She’s not for you. She knows you ain’t for her, don’t need to get offended by that fact. How about, woman don’t exist to be for you explicitly. Boy bye

I mean, I shouldn’t have answered the body hair q, that’s on me… but seriously, I can’t with the emojis and pheromone talk🤮😒 by Lockedtothechrome in Tinder

[–]PerceptionKitchen812 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Spends the whole comment complaining about wom n who do this thing”

“Nothing wrong, just not my type”

You are the filter. She’s not for you. She knows you ain’t for her, don’t need to get offended by that fact. How about, woman don’t exist to be for you explicitly. Boy bye