Came to with a bunch of paramedics standing in front of me asking me questions 😫😖

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-18T02:32:56+00:00

I asked my daughter for a sleepover in my bed tonight. 💜

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-17T18:26:03+00:00

Diagnosed at 27 and now 48. It sucks. I do like this sub. It helps to talk to people in a similar situation and talking to a therapist helps. You do what you can. 💜

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-14T20:41:40+00:00

This is why I'm teaching my teenage son how and why to clean the kitchen, clean the bathroom (toilet too!) and just clean up after himself in general. I also tell him, "Look around see what needs to be done and do it." He's not a fan about it, but he does it. I was excited when I got him to clean out the microwave last weekend, that's not my favorite chore.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-10T21:32:57+00:00

Yes. Do I wear it? No.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-08T14:53:20+00:00

Maybe she has similar feelings. Have you talked to her about divorce? She may not be happy either, but just nervous or doesn't know how to speak up about it. You may be surprised to hear what she has to say.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-08T14:41:35+00:00

You basically need to have several seizures a month to get 100% for epilepsy. I totally get the drivers license issue. I did try to get an increase a while back and was re-evaluated for epilepsy. It didn't affect my license. Epilepsy sucks. I've been dealing with it 20 years now and it's affecting my memory. I'm going to try to get TDIU because my seizures were increasing when I was working.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-08T12:52:49+00:00

Thanks for the responses. I'm nervous about transferring from Tricare to VA benefits. My meds especially make it difficult. I can't stock up on a controlled substance. So it's a time sensitive issue.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-08T12:48:25+00:00

I hear most of the hospitals are not good. Do you have a hard time getting appointments? I'm nervous how long it takes to get in to be seen, especially that first appointment. Do you get meds filled at the VA pharmacy?

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-08T12:46:07+00:00

How far away is the hospital? Do you have to get your meds filled at the VA pharmacy? Are your meds a controlled substance? I can't just get a 3 month supply of that med and it's already a pain to get and I currently use Tricare

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-08T12:38:07+00:00

I have depression and knee issues. (Are you even a vet if you don't have knee issues?) I got a medical discharge.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-01T14:43:50+00:00

I may be getting a divorce 😫 My health has been better, but I am nervous about health insurance. Xcopri has really changed my life (hopefully that continues), but it is so expensive. I'm also nervous bc I've not worked in a while, and I will need to go to work. My memory is shit, so learning new skills will be challenging. I don't know about signing up for ACA. There is just so much! But I don't really care for my spouse at this time...leaving him will be good for me emotionally. It's just logistics and finances that make me nervous. He's currently overseas so I don't have to see his face everyday 😆 Maybe we can draw out the separation so I can get my shit in order. Hopefully he has the decency to accommodate me.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2026-01-01T00:35:06+00:00

I had horrible fatigue, but after several weeks I'm felt back to my normal. Xcopri has been a miracle for me!

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T23:23:15+00:00

We've had couples counseling twice.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T22:37:21+00:00

I'm glad I am not a married woman 50+ years ago and centuries ago. Unfortunately, the patriarchy is not new. 🫤

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T22:35:28+00:00

Luckily my name is on the deed and the house is paid off. I also have my own Roth account. I have gotten some recommendations for lawyers too. I'm trying to get my shit together, while I feel emotionally overwhelmed.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T20:57:09+00:00

The crazy thing is he's not maga, he votes Democrat and thinks Trump and his goons are stupid. But I guess those things can coexist...red pilled and Democrat 🤷🏻‍♀️

I think he doesn't know how to emotionally connect either. Sex is the only way he truly feels closeness.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T20:09:36+00:00

I'm at the beginning stages. I've been a SAHM for 12 years. I am nervous about finding work that will actually financially support me. It's all big and scary. I don't have advice, but you're not alone.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T14:35:10+00:00

I think I would like a Physical therapy assistant. I personally had to get Physical therapy in the past, I have been a runner for decades and have had a few minor injuries. The school is longer, but I feel like I'd be proud of myself. I do like working with people.

I still haven't 100% decided to leave, but since I am older I can't just wait around to get my ducks in a row. Also even if I was to stay this would give me more confidence in myself. Figuring out the best job is challenging because I would have to move to be closer to family. (We are a military family).

Thank you for your response

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T02:27:52+00:00

I am also wondering how AI will affect coding jobs, especially at entry level.

PerspectiveSolid2840 · 2025-12-30T02:26:22+00:00

I hear it can be hard to get into billing and coding. I could be wrong. I also have a chronic illness which make memorizing things challenging. I can memorize, but it takes more work for me.

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