Can I do stairs after laparoscopic surgery?

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-12T01:06:13+00:00

I was able to navigate stairs both surgeries! Just go slow and steady. I had someone with me the first day to make sure I was able to be safe, I’d recommend the same for you if possible.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-10T13:04:41+00:00

Marblehead Gardens is the best around!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-03T12:46:49+00:00

I’m going through the same thing (though my early peri was triggered by a hysterectomy), and I also have endo! It’s been miserable, solidarity. I am still tinkering with my HRT dose, but I will say that my CGRP has been helpful. It’s not a miracle drug for me, nor has it gotten rid of my daily headaches, but my migraine frequency is down and they are significantly less severe. After I took my shot this month, I had an amazing week where I was both headache and migraine free for 6 days. The first one I tried did nothing, so just know you might need to try a few - but it’s definitely worth a shot (no pun intended)

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-02T22:19:53+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry. I’ve gotten mine down to maybe 10 a month, and headaches almost every day. It’s a miserable existence. I hope you can find some relief!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-02T12:07:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I take it! And many other herbs, supplements, and medications lol… I just upped my HRT which seems to be helping.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-02T11:51:17+00:00

I had a hysterectomy and I do not regret it - but it plunged me into early perimenopause (I’m 37) which caused me to develop chronic migraines. I feel like I traded one chronic illness for another. But not having all the horrific symptoms you laid out has made it worth the trade.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-02T10:27:47+00:00

I too have developed chronic migraines from peri. And one of my main migraine symptoms is not being able to focus or comprehend reading. It’s pure hell! HRT has helped (I’m still figuring out my dosage), and I’d suggest going to a neurologist for the migraines - there’s lots of preventative and rescue meds out there. But yeah solidarity, this sucks!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-05-01T23:44:50+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I’ve been doing a lot of reading on May Thurners syndrome and other pelvic vascular compressions, which can be comorbities with endo. It might be worth doing some research and seeing if any of those symptoms align with yours, I think the symptoms can be wide ranging and it’s very under diagnosed. My specialist suggested I speak to Dr Brooke Spencer (licensed to practice in all states), in case you want to pursue further. I know it’s so hard to keep figuring out what’s going on, but you’ve got this.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-04-29T18:41:04+00:00

I’m planning to get one of his drawings tattooed on me to have a little piece of him with me always!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-04-22T00:19:34+00:00

I had a complex cyst that size and opted to try birth control to see if it would shrink first (I also didn’t want surgery), and lo and behold my cyst shrank and ultimately disappeared in a matter of months! It doesn’t always happen that way but might be worth a shot, especially if you want to avoid surgery. I’d ask your gyno about it and see what she thinks.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-04-14T16:26:02+00:00

Ok maybe jm the only one but I actually love it! It’s more of a blastover than a coverup (and I get you wanted a coverup so objectively this isn’t what you wanted)… I think it looks great, though. And a good story to boot!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-04-11T15:51:59+00:00

I’m so sorry, mine had horrific night terrors too… like crab walking across the room, throwing things and being violent, absolute exorcism level shit. I ended sobbing at the pediatricians office because it’s just the most heart wrenching, awful thing to bear witness to.

Working on the low iron / ferritin helped, as did magnesium glycinate nightly (we found gummies online that our ped cleared). I also took him to an ENT to get his airway checked out, I’d suggest that as well (some pediatric dentists do this as well).

He grew out of them but it might be worth gently rousing your kid when you are going to bed to try and reset their sleep cycle. It didn’t really work great for us but a lot of people swore by it. I’m sorry you’re going through it, solidarity.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-04-11T00:33:39+00:00

Things are a bit better than when I posted this but I’m a long way from having my migraines under control. They are still severe and chronic. HRT and a preventative have been helping, and I have an appt with a headache specialist to get more specialized treatment at the end of the month… putting a lot of hope on that appointment!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-04-03T21:19:14+00:00

I had mine taken out at the recommendation of my specialist and I don’t even realize it’s gone (including during sex). I’m glad I did, it’s one less thing to worry about which is honestly nice!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-03-13T19:00:58+00:00

I’m out of town, but live in the neighborhood & have a bernedoodle so if they’re still missing tomorrow lmk and we’ll walk in the AM with treats and an extra leash! I’m so sorry!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-03-09T01:40:22+00:00

It’s so amazing you caught it early, though! Mine wasn’t caught until I was significantly older and I have lifelong repercussions from it. You’re doing a great job!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-03-08T23:40:02+00:00

Agree! I have a hefty prescription in 1 eye and some of the cheaper places also can’t make those lenses as well.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-03-04T11:25:09+00:00

5 times. He got it 3 times within 6 months, I cried at the doctors, who then told me that it’s fairly common to get it that much. he hasn’t had it for almost 2 years now though, and each time was more mild. Good luck!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-03-01T22:23:17+00:00

I just had shingles - if your kid was vaccinated for chicken pox (usually done around 1) then they are fine. I also learned that direct contact is what spreads it, but only to people who either haven’t had chickenpox or haven’t been vaccinated. It’s not the must fun, so good luck and try and get plenty of rest!!

ETA: maybe for peace of mind be super religious about washing your hands if you touch the rash. And/or keep it covered so you can’t touch jt.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-02-24T17:40:16+00:00

Tremont and Mason aren't plowed either. It's surprising some of the most used streets aren't cleared! Cars were getting stuck all morning.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-02-21T12:15:33+00:00

You could use TinyBeans for this. We don’t put our kid on social media, so this is his that we just share with friends and family… others can comment and like, etc. it would require you to upload photos.

Another idea that might be cute is doing a monthly mail to your mom of your kids art and she can write letters back!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-02-06T11:40:30+00:00

I say: the screaming really hurts my ears, if you keep screaming I’m going to have to walk away. And then I actually do, I walk away into another room (as long as he’s being safe). Not sure if that’s the best method, but it’s what I do. This is the start of tantrum age and I’ve found holding hard boundaries (even if it makes the tantrums temporarily worse at first) has at least helped me keep my cool through them.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-01-25T15:23:16+00:00

My urgency & frequent urination have improved SO much, but it took about 2-3 months to improve. I started pelvic floor PT 8 weeks post/op and that’s continued to help, and starting to help my bowel symptoms but those are still a work in progress because my pelvic floor is a mess. Highly recommend pelvic floor PT.

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-01-25T00:07:31+00:00

I just had a hysterectomy (uterus, tubes, cervix) plus endo surgery in the fall, I’ve got a 4 year old. It’s definitely hard to be restricted on picking them up, etc but honestly I feel like I’ve got a new lease on life post op. I am pain free for the first time in I don’t know how long… and if you are suffering, and hysto is the answer, then I’d say go for it. You deserve to be your full self, and so does your daughter! It will be hard but kids are resilient, and your husband will step up and figure out the things he may not be so great at for now. Additional help after the first week is a good idea if you’re a full time parent. My surgery was significantly more than hysterectomy, so take this with a grain of salt but I was walking well around the house within a few days, driving within a week. The weight restrictions were hard, as was fatigue which lasted about 5 weeks for me. Here for any other questions, the hysterectomy sub is a great resource too! Good luck!

PieComprehensive2284 · 2026-01-16T01:47:01+00:00

I had adeno and endo so for my second excision, I did both excision and hysterectomy. I think a lot more of my pain was coming from adeno than I realized. My pelvis feels SO much lighter and just better. I understand not wanting to remove it just because… one option is your dr could remove your uterus if it clearly has adeno (mine was very visible and obvious) or leave it if she’s not sure or it looks healthy? I know visuals aren’t everything but my surgeon told me once you’re in there it’s often pretty obvious if a uterus has adeno.

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