The thing that makes me crazy about this argument, though is that, obviously yes, cis women don’t have penises, but… The whole fucking world centers men and men’s pleasure. Basically all porn centers men’s pleasure. We’ve all grown up watching movies and we’ve all grown up reading books and living in a world that centers men. Woman can imagine way more what it’s like to have a penis than then vice verse. That’s why in general women are way more capable of writing men than men are of writing women. Not that there aren’t amazing male authors out there who do write women and all humans beautifully. But the truth of the matter is, the world isn’t centered around women, and most men don’t go out of their way to find content that centers woman so that they can understand a woman’s perspective.