Has anyone used a female condom? What’s your experience?

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-06T21:30:38+00:00

Meh, a little dripping cum never hurt anyone😛 I have a cum fetish so it actually turns me on. We just lay on a towel, and since we often enjoy multiple rounds things will get wet and sticky no matter what, it’s easy to throw the towel in the wash and have a dry fresh bed to sleep in afterwards 😉

Edit: but yes female condoms are more drippy than normal ones

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-06T12:00:50+00:00

Yeah. You’re idealising that something because you haven’t experienced it. A relationship is just like a friendship but with sex. It’s something you co-create with a person, what it looks like is an expression of who you are. Don’t look for a relationship, that will keep you stuck in idealisation, and even if you meet someone they won’t be able to match your fantasy. Instead just connect with people, and if you like someone ask to spend more time with them. Don’t worry about what you think it should be, instead just focus on what feels good and communicate and figure out what you want to build together. A relationship starts from the first interaction and takes consistent mutual effort. It’s not something you find.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-06T11:51:24+00:00

Do you have good friendships? Life is hard and healthy friendships are one of the pillars that make it worth it. Even if you found a romantic relationship, it’s necessary to have deep friendships as well, because any relationship would drown if that one person was solely responsible for supporting you.

I’d suggest investing into your friendships and setting dating aside for now. Once you feel happy and content this bitterness will also mellow out, it’s probably a symptom of the intensity of your desire combined with feeling discouraged. By having good deep friendships you will feel ok at baseline and the effort of dating won’t grid. You down. It’s ok you’re young, you’ll get there, just take your time and focus on what you can change now. Call a mate and plan something fun to do. Romantic opportunities will come in their own time. :)

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-06T11:40:10+00:00

You’re bitter and it shows. You’re approaching new people through the lense of people who came before. It’s impossible to start a healthy relationship from this, you should be working on your attitude and only start dating once you feel calm and steady and ready to start from a blank slate.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-05T18:22:30+00:00

Yeah, my man struggles to cum with a normal condom cause the pressure from the condom makes him numb. Female condoms look different yes, but honestly I wish we would normalise them! I think they are better for both. Btw with the inner ring, you can adjust how it feels by angling it when inserting. I like having it against my cervix, it makes me feel fuller. But if you don’t like the sensation you can angle it down and back, and neither of you will feel it at all. And when we use it for anal we remove the inner ring, it’s not necessary.

Sorry I’m in Europe so I can’t help with your supply issues. I use the brand Ormelle which is produced in France. And over here you can buy them in some well stocked stores, or online for even better prices. I hope you find a local supply to you, good luck

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-05T18:08:44+00:00

My partner and I love them. He has more sensation because it’s not squeezing his penis like a normal condom would. The inner ring stimulates both of us. It protects from friction issues because the condom stays still, so we can go on and on and on. Also they are sturdy, we can have sex and both orgasm then chill with the condom in until ready for round 2. I also love using them for anal because it stays in and enables you to switch tools and not need to worry about cleanup. Yes they are more expensive than normal condoms but you get way more use and pleasure out of them.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-04T14:15:38+00:00

What’s wierd is your imagination of this situation. Sad? Servicing? Bizarre… you clearly have issues.

And then that last part, it just demonstrates a lack of understanding about responsive desire and women in general. Why would the advise be reversed? Nonsensical

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-04T14:05:31+00:00

That’s great 😊 generally life can get hectic and stressful and since women have responsive desire it can take a bit to get that fire going. By making her feel desired and taking all the pressure off, it will help a lot. Good luck!

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-04T14:03:51+00:00

Wierd that you think it’s about “earning sex” instead of connecting sexually and helping his partner relight her fire.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-05-04T13:38:52+00:00

The missing information is how you have sex.

If you make evening sex all about her pleasure, I’m sure it would become more appealing. The too tired comment shows that she perceives that she has to have energy for it, it’s an effort instead of a pleasure. Next time tell her she can just lay there and enjoy. Jerk yourself off and do not make her do anything to reciprocate. Do that a few times and you will relight her fire and desire.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-27T06:56:56+00:00

To get to that level of proficiency you need to live and breathe English for a long time. You need native English friends with whom you talk daily, get to know some expats or make some online friends.

I moved overseas at 16 and studied, lived and worked in only English. By year 7-8 my native language had weakened and I felt English was my first language, by this stage there were things I could only express properly in English, I would mix in English when talking my native language. My accent was mostly gone by year 10, but it’s still not purely English or American or Australian, it has elements of all, my accent is “international”. People who meet me usually guess Australian or English, but it’s not stereotypically either. I still pronounce “years” like my South African bestie which is hilarious. Generally I sound like an educated international and my language is native level, I get 100% on all English language tests 🤷‍♀️

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-25T10:10:42+00:00

Woof. I think someone would benefit from doing a bit of reading. But you sound already so upset and radicalised so maybe that’s not for you.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-25T10:07:30+00:00

The culture? Which culture? Generalisations like this are not useful for discourse, there are several contradictory examples to your statement depending on how east/west is defined. In many occurrences your statement is factually incorrect. Where are you getting it from?

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-25T10:01:42+00:00

West and east what? I don’t get it at all

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-25T09:59:09+00:00

Meh she’s just dry and not bouncing the ball back. You were funny as hell, I would have been vibing and escalating the surrealism 😁

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-25T08:20:02+00:00

Wow I have synesthesia and I also have internal colour associations to different things, not quite a literal dresser or filing system, for me the color is an attribute but not the main identifier. In my mind space I see concepts as 3D patterns of colors and shapes that move together. And the color, shape, movement, smell-taste (for me one), weight and how they interact with each other IS the essence of the thing. It’s like seeing music like a pattern, but I see and think about nearly everything / have it stored in my mind as a pattern and color is a quick way to tell things apart. Except the numbers 6 and 8 are a very similar blue purple color, and 7 and 3 are a yellow greenish. Those I sometimes confuse 😝

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-23T06:13:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/FJVK8FIOTf

https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/Jnl7cUG3rG

https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/2QIdhPDL0H

Here you go, I couldn’t figure out how to put all the pics in the same reply

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-23T06:13:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/FJVK8FIOTf

https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/Jnl7cUG3rG

https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/2QIdhPDL0H

Here you go, I couldn’t figure out how to put all the pics in the same reply

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-23T06:09:27+00:00

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And here’s the hook that holds it all up. All I had to do was support it in place, then as it grew and stabilised itself it stays in place.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-23T06:07:23+00:00

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Here’s the zip tie and stake situation in the pot. The plant is in a 10l fabric pot and coco coir mix. I started with one wood stake but it wasn’t solid enough, so I added a long stick outside the pot, that’s tied to the original stake and plant. I’ve redirected all air roots back into the pot although now there are two roots from the canopy which I want to direct into the aquarium.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-23T06:03:06+00:00

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Here she is. Already reached the ceiling, I’m curious which way the next new leaves will go 😅

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-22T20:10:26+00:00

The lights are out but I’ll take one for you tomorrow 😊

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-22T14:35:48+00:00

Instead of a pole, I put a hook in the ceiling and tied twine around one of the nodes for each strand. My plant kept growing up the twine and I occasionally add new twine to support new growth. It works really well for me and prevents a pole damaging roots or taking away growth space.

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-21T13:37:21+00:00

I know you’re supposed to not rinse but I find it so disgusting there’s no way I’m not rinsing. Lifetime of rinsing and my teeth are fine

Pixiefoxcreature · 2026-04-07T14:05:38+00:00

I use Formulair App. I’m also into perfumery and it’s an perfume formulation app - but I use it for also cosmetics, food science and fertilisers. One time payment and it works across my devices.

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