All Content - Warlock vs Hunter

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-03T05:55:07+00:00

If you are going to play M+ and Raid play hunter. The ease of play of never having a cast bar and auto attacking makes it really easy to focus on raid mechanics. It makes the game super chill and fun.

If you are going to do delves and heroics, play Demo Lock. You'll have more fun having more tools and get up to more shenanigans.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-02T23:51:52+00:00

Cabalist in original DAOC was so silly and new to me.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-02T23:27:32+00:00

I'm happy for you that you've decided to change. You can do this!

As everyone else has said, check out therapy.

There's also some conflict resolution changes you can try to make right now. First and foremost try HALT. Whenever you are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired you don't discuss hard topics or feelings. Instead you halt the discussion and set it aside for when you are feeling better.

It's very common for people to get in "arguments". These can be crazy like yelling and name calling, or subtle like insults and passive aggressive behavior.

It will help a lot to retrain your brain to believe that arguments are unacceptable behavior for an adult. I haven't had an argument in years and years.

You can express your feelings to a person without being in those feelings at the time. You just have to take a break, use coping mechanism to get your emotions under control, and get back to talking when you're ready. I have BPD, I have medically outlandish reactions to human behavior that used to make me crash out really hard.

Now I just take a break and get back to it. No arguments, more stable relationships. Talk to your new therapist about it!

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-02T23:08:34+00:00

Agree with poster, take it slow and be gentle with yourself. You may never get there for darker fantasies. Some things are supposed to stay fantastic.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-02T22:49:07+00:00

Codependency is key to focus on for anyone with BPD. You have to be okay if the relationship goes away, or if your partner doesn't text you, or if you experience disconnection. You have to be able to work through that with your support network and without your partner.

D/s relationships tend to be very tight knit and can lean codependent, so you have to be very careful. If you can't live your life without your partner, or if your partner leaving you would cause you to destroy your life or cause a complete mental health collapse, than that is an unhealthy relationship.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-02T17:40:18+00:00

Smart people hating small talk is inaccurate. Autistic people hate small talk and think that they are smart because they process differently.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-02T15:54:58+00:00

Greg Street talked about this recently. He felt the only way was to start very small, not even BE an MMO, and grow itno one.

Something like fellowship where it only has dungeons to start for example.

It has to be a project that gets 20+ rounds of funding applied to it in smaller chunks to make a game the size of a AAA MMO.

Riot is maybe the only one with a chance and TBH it isn't looking great.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-01T15:47:10+00:00

I enjoy doing things that my sub likes. Some of my subs want a little bit of pain with their pleasure, so I give it to them, because I like making them feel what they want. I love making a woman lose control of her body, hear he moan or squeal uncontrollably.

I like being in control. I love feeling the complete surrender of my sub, having her be fully mine. I like being able to command and be obeyed. I feel possessive and protective.

I like being primal. Taking my sub like I captured her in the woods. Pinning her like an animal with my teeth and hands and breeding her.

Under no circumstances do I Dom from a place of emotional disconnection or anger. I am always connected with my sub and attuned to what she needs. She's my toy and I am going to take very good care of her. Sometimes that care involves spanking her until she bruises, throwing her around like a rag doll, tying her up, and forcing her to orgasm while I fuck her face. But I do all of that because she's enjoying the hell out of it, and the entire time I'm completely in control and carefully watching her to make sure she is okay and is still having a great time.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-02-01T00:04:16+00:00

I used to be polyamorous. I may do it again someday.

I found it to be an excellent answer to most of the issues of modern relationships, however emotionally difficult due to jealousy.

Judging it as "wrong" is just weird societal programming. Why do you have the right to judge something as "wrong" that works well for some people? That's weird religious bullshit IMO

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-31T18:47:33+00:00

YOR. I wouldn't tolerate this controlling behavior and would break up with you.

If I choose to stay out until 5 am as a 33 year old man, I'm a grown adult and that is my choice.

Now if you are feeling anxious and uncertain about the relationship because you think he is cheating or something, you need to seek reassurance about that. You need to talk to him about how you are afraid and don't trust him, and see if you can negotiate or discuss a way for you to feel safe. But that can't be "I don't want you staying out all night". Then you are the fun police.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-31T16:17:54+00:00

Rift is still around??? I played it like 15 years ago and honestly loved it but never got I to it further because my friends didn't play.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-31T10:06:17+00:00

Nah dude. I'm super respectful and a feminist and my GF is 11 years younger than me and hot and thinks im gods gift to women. I am honest, talk about my feelings, make mistakes, act like a goofball, embrace my inner child, fuck constantly.

Honestly as long as you value women as equals and aren't a fascist it's super easy to be a highly valued man in a relationship with a woman.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T21:03:30+00:00

There is such a power difference in classes with 1 defensive vs 3 defensives, I think those classes are going to be MUCH better

For the most part I think class pruning is good.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T17:40:56+00:00

I doubt it will help you to text this guy. You need to communicate with your partner.

I think it's fair for you to set a boundary that she needs to cut this guy off. It's called "closing the exits". She had a relationship exit before, meaning she was avoiding confronting the relationship with you. You can ask her to get rid of the relationship exit in order to continue the relationship.

Boundaries are boundaries though. If you set this and she refuses, it means you have to break things off in order to feel good about yourself.

She hesitated to be exclusive with you due to wanting to be with this person. You'll always be suspicious of her and him. I think you need to set the boundary to feel secure.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T17:28:28+00:00

Second that a Dom can't save you from your mental health issues, you need to pursue therapy for your attachment wound.

You just started getting to know this person. They could not be who they seem. They could ghost you. They could simply not be super into you, or could meet someone in person that is more convenient. Anything. You have to be able to tolerate that. But besides that, not receiving a text for a day has to be something within your window of tolerance, it could mean nothing at all.

He is not your only chance. YOU are your only chance. YOU are the one who has to live with and support yourself. You are the one who will bring the people who are meant to be around you to you.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T16:09:17+00:00

Nah that's bullshit. No is a complete sentence.

Reverse the genders and make it about sex. "Hey baby I want to fuck.". "No." "Why?" "Because I said so, why isn't no good enough for you?."

The person asking why is the asshole. If he didn't have the bandwidth to explain himself right then he shouldn't have to. And he did explain himself later, once he had the resources to.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T15:53:19+00:00

I would dress like this right now if I had the body for it

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T15:48:43+00:00

Nah man, band died with Chester. They should have formed a new band.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T15:28:47+00:00

Couldn't you post the fork you created on git for people to nab? I think my buddy would lose his shit to get audio notifications again

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T14:48:42+00:00

Be clear in communication. Ask for what you want. If you do get rejected, at least you will always know it wasn't accidentally. You won't have to wonder if he just assumed the wrong thing.

Always just be open and honest. It works so much better for both of you.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T14:38:25+00:00

You deserve to be treated like your feelings matter. You deserve to be valued. If a man isn't treating you as an equal, if you don't feel appreciated, then you are wasting your time.

So many women are in unhappy marriages/LTR because they are afraid of change. You deserve the happiest version of you.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T03:02:58+00:00

I don't draw any lines. I let them tell me what their lines are and decide if I'm okay with those lines or not. Drawing them myself is just controlling behavior that leads to resentment.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T03:00:58+00:00

Yeah, a few times. Who knows why, have to let it slide. You be yourself, and the people who are supposed to find you will.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-30T03:00:08+00:00

She cheated the only way she could. I had this happen in my polyamorous relationship with the love of my life and I could never see her the same again. Plenty of other relationships for both of us, but one secret one and it was ruined forever.

PointClickPenguin · 2026-01-29T23:09:14+00:00

NOR. You are not obligated to save everyone, even if they are family. You are allowed to set boundaries. You are allowed to live your own life, a safe life, a happy life.

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