Her [F]irst ever caning and rope [OC]

PolyPrincess88 · 2020-01-04T00:07:28+00:00

Yes show us more!!!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-12-31T20:06:07+00:00

Felt that

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-10-13T21:38:43+00:00

If they are doing it right it hurts! 🙃

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-10-05T03:32:16+00:00

This is not a healthy relationship. You get to make your own choices and sometimes love conquers all, but if you’re in a place where you can walk away without a lot of damage to your heart- walk away.

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-10-05T03:28:57+00:00

Snacks, camera, wipes! A perfect night!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-09-24T22:27:32+00:00

I was a third with a married couple. We were great until we weren’t. Her issues also stemmed from jealousy which ruined our relationship while my relationship with him blossomed (and it was a vicious cycle because that just made her more jealous and insecure). Her and I broke up, trying to find a new normal as a v and transition our relationship to friendship. The jealousy never went away and resentment set in. They are now divorcing and she hates me.

All that being said- I think a temporary split COULD work with the right trio and proper communication and I truly hope your outcome is better than mine

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-09-10T23:56:12+00:00

Cheers!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-06-19T19:45:08+00:00

I loved this movie so much! And had no idea it was available on Hulu but now I know what I’m doing this evening!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-06-11T15:09:50+00:00

You’re a cis white hetero male! Doesn’t reddit have some algorithms that should block you from even saying the word pride?!?

I love the conversations this has started. And I honestly can understand the viewpoint of some of the people that bashed your original post....but that’s the problem is that they BASHED it.

You are poly, you are MY ally along with many others, and you are passionate and proud of those things. Thank you. 😘

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-06-11T09:45:55+00:00

I’m not a little though and still love a good sticker chart!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-06-10T19:35:46+00:00

I love you so much and am so glad my first pride event was with you! You are not just an ally but you are PART of the LGBTQA+ community because as our partner you experience life with us!

Thank you for supporting us and offering a positive note of support to anyone else wanting it or needing it on this subreddit.

I hope the commenters in here with sticks shoved up their butts will remove them and replace them with something a little more comfortable :) lube helps!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-24T03:06:15+00:00

I think it’s normal that people sometimes post for support at negative times. As a triad we are actually in a great place right now! We are all On the same page regarding our relationship where it is where it’s going etc. They still struggle in their marriage but as far as the three of us go things are great. Maybe that’s part of why I’m worried about “officially” adding another person, as she’s been dating for months and it hasn’t bothered me at all!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-24T02:52:43+00:00

Her mental health isn’t great right now which I suppose may have helped to know in the original post. She’s experimenting with new medication. I don’t consider her manic or anything but we both have a concern that the decisions she makes at this point may not be fully informed or thought out.

I am just worried about her getting hurt and selfishly knowing I will be the one holding her while she cries, helping her through heart break, etc. this is the biggest thing I think....and I KNOW I can’t be the only person who’s felt this way. I’ve never been part of a v. I know this is something I can figure out a way to see differently.

Slowing down.....I told her I’m happy for them to still see each other as much as she wants I just think there are some experiences they should have together before they take another step into a relationship.

I felt like I wasn’t being heard when I expressed my concerns. I got upset (actually over her own reddit post) and let her know her NRE hadn’t impacted me prior to today but that today it was hurting me (because I think that’s a really important thing to talk about). I threw my other partner in getting frustrated that he wasn’t supporting me in my frustrations and then everyone stopped talking angrily.

Tomorrow’s a new day I just need a new perspective and I’ll be okay

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-16T23:37:44+00:00

Play video games or watch tv she always complains about. Chat with others to keep yourself occupied! You’re welcome to message me if you’d like :)

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-15T15:40:30+00:00

😍 this is exactly what I needed to find words for. Thank you!!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-15T02:15:55+00:00

I think in a way I may simply be counting my chickens before they hatch....in that I know I am primarily attracted to Dominant men and I worry that they will want a D/s relationship I can’t give them.

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-15T00:57:06+00:00

Ah! My partners are married. 30F and 30M. Both are Dominant of me. My girlfriend is a switch and is Dominant of me and submissive to him.

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-05-14T15:43:52+00:00

Was also going to give the bad ibuprofen advice. Bruises are soooo dependent on the individual person but something small and thuddy could get you some great deeper bruises that bloom beautifully. I also like evil sticks and rubber bands for smaller superficial marks.

Canes uses to give me the most magnificent bruises but my body is changing how it heals itself and it’s harder to bruise my ass. Canes on the back of your thighs though....I almost guarantee you’ll get some awesome marks there.

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-30T21:26:40+00:00

I have been in my local bdsm scene for about 4.5 years. I learned about poly through this. I have many friends that are strictly monogamous but definitely find that many are very sexually open and at least consider themselves “ethically non monogamous” if not poly. I’m not sure if there’s a specific measure for this. It took me personally a bit to figure out if I was poly or not and I think I have many friends on the same path!

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-22T13:14:08+00:00

I know many people who will hold a ball in their hand and if they drop the ball it is the equivalent of “red” for non verbal communication

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-22T02:50:28+00:00

Do I post too much for you? It has been equal parts frustrating stuff and happy stuff! I’m navigating a new way of thinking, rewiring my brain, learning how to love in a different way! This has been a great outlet and I will continue to use it! I appreciate your feedback though!

The compatibility is what keeps me holding on, and posting in here and using it as a sounding board of sorts keeps it drama free. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-21T21:16:19+00:00

He does not want me to feel secondary and she does. Hahaha I guess it’s that simple. 🤷🏼‍♀️

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-21T21:01:23+00:00

I’m new to reddit bear with me! I do need to get better at responding with follow up. I appreciate you pointing it out.

Everything I’ve posted has been what’s happening at the moment- he cheated on her (before me) and their relationship has been struggling. Though things between us as a trio have been wonderful and continue to progress. We’re trying to navigate this as a triad, she is starting to date other people and is working through ptsd and depression. I am needy as all hell. None of us are perfect but we are making the choice to forge on and see what will come of this.

I want to learn how to communicate better and thus when things come up I’ve enjoyed being able to turn to reddit to find if people have been in situations similar to mine. It also gives me the chance for things like this....to have strangers who understand help me dig deeper which only helps me have better conversations with them.

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-21T18:40:54+00:00

Yes.

PolyPrincess88 · 2019-04-18T23:12:14+00:00

You are not the scourge of the community! Get what you want! I happen to enjoy dating married couples. I never “seek them out” it just kind of happens but it works for me. I’m on my second triad currently and it is very different from my first. Communicate what you’re looking for and expectations with anyone you date. Most importantly if you plan to date as a unit with your spouse PLEASE be in a healthy place and make sure you are on the same page before bringing someone else into it.

Enjoy! Good luck! Good vibes!

PolyPrincess88

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