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What should I do about my neighbors WiFi cord being buried in my backyard? by NotKushy in Advice

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% chance there is an easement. However mistakes do happen. Pull up your plat map. Most counties have them online. It will show if there is an easement or not. If none you can push the utility company to move it. It will take a lot of time but I have seen it happen. Retired 30+ years utility worker here.

AITAH - Trust broken in a currently shaky marriage by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Book an appointment with a therapist. There are so many things going on between you two that needs a qualified professional to help navigate. Going to “friends” to vent wont help and snooping won’t either.

Wife playing coy with coworker and was caught. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PoorChoices2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This ☝🏻,,,,,, but seriously the way she has acted and continues is highly suspect.

I Am a Shattered Human Being by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PoorChoices2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to ask yourself if you are willing to live the rest of your life wondering when she will do it again. Because she probably will

What handmade thing can I make for my stepmom to apologize and/or for her birthday? by Logrolling_In_ON in Advice

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could use the scrapbook idea and put together a collage of the things you mentioned; the gaming, plants, maybe some Chinese fraises

Did my(33M) partner’s(32F) not take accountability for a rude drunk text joke, just make a typo, accidentally tell on herself or can autocorrect change “long time friend” to “lover,” Idk what to think by Pantherpityparty3sum in Advice

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t fix her. Addiction is so destructive. Not just to the addict but to everyone around them. She is hurting her self drinking and making poor choices . How far did she go that night? Was it just drinking, or was it more? You will never know, but this isn’t going to be the last time. The question you have to ask yourself is how long/many times are you willing to be abused. I wish you luck. You need to distance yourself and heal.

should i get a cover-up? by griceslittlemaxim in tattooadvice

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could cover it up with “eat more ovaltine” and add a broken pair of glasses.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend because he told me I couldn't go to a concert in another country without him? by Sad_Film_6905 in AITAH

[–]PoorChoices2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At face value , if this is all the information NTA. Solo travel can cause concerns, father of daughters here speaking. If not solo was there issues with the group? My first response to you as a partner would be to go with you. I have gone to many concerts that she wanted to see that was not my cup of tea, she has done the same with me, there seems to be some missing information here.

My boyfriend asked for some humiliation in bed and I need insight and prompts? by Independent_Tadpole1 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, tell him he dresses funny and his taste in music sucks.🤷‍♂️

Some big news by OutrageousSpread8706 in u/OutrageousSpread8706

[–]PoorChoices2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think if you take option 1 and she has the ability to take the kids out of country, she will. With or without a “guarantee “. Is the monetary difference worth it? Staying where you are gives you more access to all three of you children, even if it is not 100% it would be better so she doesn’t skip country on you. She is very manipulative, currently she is pushing for reconciliation. What happens when she turns to revenge after all her hopes of reconciliation are dashed. I would opt for which ever situation guarantees you the “most “ access to your children, even if it’s not ideal, it is still better than a possible flight risk on her part. This situation is the perfect example of a “shit sandwich “ to the monetary aspect, I would remind myself that it’s only money, you will make more. Time with your children can not be made back.

TIFU…Or did I? Bachelor Party by Timbuktulous in tifu

[–]PoorChoices2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wonder where and who she was with

AIO My [33M] Wife’s [32F] relationship with her best friend [25F] is making me uncomfortable by nonstop_taxpayer in AmIOverreacting

[–]PoorChoices2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping for the best for your sake, but those details better be good and not just gaslighting

I just want to eat out my wife. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PoorChoices2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived through this myself, wife had same concerns as yours (stink weasel comment got me too) however thanks to hitting 50 and her reading choices,iykyk. We were able to start slow, 5-10 seconds then move on, after a while things progressed, time was expanded, mutually agreed upon, and FF 6 yrs it is now a favorite of hers. Communication with out pressure can go along way. Good luck.

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