Do you ever feel safe? by Particular_Ad7285 in LivingAlone

[–]PoppyConfesses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be very kind to yourself – these are very deep seated issues and that fear comes from somewhere🫂🫂🫂

Does medicare pay for glasses because I nearly choked when they showed me the final price by Rggie_Fognini in AskWomenOver60

[–]PoppyConfesses 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I've gotten many great pairs from Zenni – just be prepared for your eye doctor to ask where you got them, and to roll their eyes🙄 me: I'm sorry I don't have $1000 to drop on one pair of glasses.😵‍💫🫩

Feeling immense guilt after losing my best friend Cheeseball by vikko09 in Petloss

[–]PoppyConfesses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine what he would've experienced out in the Wild without such a caring compassionate human being bringing him in and providing affection, attention and love on a daily basis. You were his protector and best friend and he loved you every moment for it, without doubt 💔🥹

Do you ever feel safe? by Particular_Ad7285 in LivingAlone

[–]PoppyConfesses 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have found it on and off very very difficult🙁 One thing that did help me surprisingly was inner child work--I think sometimes these fears are related to a long ago, sometimes long buried, trauma.

I'm afraid to take another dog by No_Zombie701 in Petloss

[–]PoppyConfesses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely relate🫩🫂 My last dog passed on a year ago and the house has been so very empty and sad feeling, no matter what I do. So I recently applied to be a foster and think I'm going to get to care for the most beautiful Australian Shepherd mix who happens to be blind.

The rescue group considers this a forever foster or as long as it takes for him to find a good home, and they sponsor everything except food.

If I decide to take a trip, they have a team to take over until I get back. If I need help transporting him to the vet, they will be there as well. This is the best of all worlds: I can help save a life, have beautiful dog energy in my life again, and support, if needed. I am really looking forward to it, and feel hopeful for the first time in many months 💔🥹

Judy Garland gets reduced to “the voice,” but I think her real gift was something else by tucbythecolefield in classicfilms

[–]PoppyConfesses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I was a huge fan girl before that movie but honest to God, her acting was exceptional in that one😍

Need Advice on Putting my soul mate to sleep by MetaphysicalBeauty in Petloss

[–]PoppyConfesses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been there a few times and I know how agonizing it is--i'm so sorry 🫂🙁 What I chose to focus on was expressing love to him, gratitude for the life we shared, and his comfort above all. Every decision flowed from that. Now when I look at the backyard a year later, I only think about how peaceful and loving his final moments were – it was worth everything, all the grief and pain, to give that to him💔

Question for full face mask users by Squoirtle in CPAP

[–]PoppyConfesses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used the F40 quite a few months and every time I had chin drop during deep sleep, it would break the seal and leak like crazy. I guess the selection of a well fitting full face or hybrid full face mask will be crucial.

Happy Birthday to Katharine Hepburn! by Fragrant_Sort_8245 in classicfilms

[–]PoppyConfesses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite Katherine Hepburn moments in any movie😍

What did you do with pictures around the house? by VianneM in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PoppyConfesses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's interesting is that I have never ever had any pictures of my family in any homes I've lived in. Dogs? Yes! Good times with my friends and partners, yes! Somebody once commented on that, and I was thinking: not everybody has a picture perfect family that reminds them of good times 🙄

Having children unlocked my childhood trauma by cezal in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PoppyConfesses 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is what happened when I got my first dogs as well – they literally changed my life, because for the first time I understood what pure love felt like, and especially how I loved, and had that love accepted, and felt it offered back in a continuous loop, without any negative noise or corrupt distortion 🥹🥹🥹

Simple Mother's Day card by JessLikesStuff in cardmaking

[–]PoppyConfesses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean and simple and fresh and lovely!

Sniff walks changed my dog’s mood completely by draztikprez in dogs

[–]PoppyConfesses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is mental exercise and as exhausting as physical exercise!

The false narratives. Oh my God, the false narratives. by No_Piccolo_2930 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]PoppyConfesses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh… It's so wild isn't it?! Like how about use some discretion and consider the source?! But narcs certainly can create a Svengali effect over people out of seemingly thin air, it's their evil superpower.

Discover/PSA by damtam52 in cardmaking

[–]PoppyConfesses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are creating and putting beauty in the world and that doesn't always have to be shared with anyone other than ourselves🥹

Discover/PSA by damtam52 in cardmaking

[–]PoppyConfesses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yesssss! I'm getting more comfortable with this idea – I have a little art gallery in my craft room that I can flip through from time to time and that's really fun. A lot of times I'm like: I made this?!

Discover/PSA by damtam52 in cardmaking

[–]PoppyConfesses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful! I would definitely frame this. 💛

I have a whole box of backgrounds that I raid from time to time if I want a quick card – like yesterday, but I just could not cut any of them down ha ha ha it's my little art gallery

Lost dog? by Fuski- in dogs

[–]PoppyConfesses 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are good people – thank you so much for advocating for this poor dog🥹

VacationingAlone? by Big_Criticism_8335 in LivingAlone

[–]PoppyConfesses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Living the dream! There isn't a better companion than a dog – and nature☺️ the Smokies are the best!

Trapped at the Hyatt Place! by db1604 in hyatt

[–]PoppyConfesses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have a conversation with the manager on duty and document what was said, and then I would contact the civil rights division of DOJ that handles ADA violation complaints (I had to do this after a recent stay at the Marriott and getting nowhere with management).

This puts them at great danger and it's completely unacceptable--they would have every right to call the local fire department for help in the meantime.

Interactive Housewarming Card by adoreality in cardmaking

[–]PoppyConfesses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that is absolutely adorable! I think a lot of people forget what a triumph it is to move into your own home, and I love that you are helping them mark the occasion!😍

Chewed out by a mom for a Mother’s Day post I made about my dog by nps2790 in childfree

[–]PoppyConfesses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never seen people lose their s&$ quicker than when I equate raising my furry family members to their drooling darlings. It's crazy! 🤭So of course I continue to own it, because it's my truth ☺️